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    So last night I got sent home by the manager (who wasn't even there and didn't call or text ME when I've been there for almost a whole year) for pissing in the bathroom trashcan, dressing room, and a customer complaint apparent. Some of the dancers had to snitch because no customer comes in those areas. Yet she has hired back dancers known to screw multiple bouncers and customers, have gotten complaints or tips that that they are prostitutes, herion and coke addicts, she hired back one dancer who always nags and begs every customer a drink less than 30 secs of sitting down. Yet they haven't been fired yet or sent home and told to come back next week. Also some of those girls meet with customers otc and she knows that certain guys be moving "weight" through her club and allows these hustlers to still come in.

    Would you find another club? Isn't that fucked up kinda (even though I shouldn't have done those shots)?

    I didn't get fired,just told back to come back on the next day the club opens!
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    Default Re: Screwed up?Would you quit?

    Getting fired in a strip club is rarely permanent. I'm sure if you went back in a week or two, once management has forgotten about it, they'd hire you back just like they did with the others.

    FWIW, I would hope that management would send home a girl I was working with if she was so wasted she was pissing in trash cans and the dressing room.


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    Id go to another club...ANd no more pissing in the trash cans..Looks like they were looking for any little thing u did wrong to get u n trouble..So many fellow dancers r just stupid bitches..The few that r good people are rare....

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    ps..We all make mistakes..Just brush urself off regroup and keep moving forward..it couldve been something much worse..

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    I know right! It's fucked up that a girl who is a known prostitute can stay but not me!

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    stop worrying about others, you dont know if they tipped the manager off, paid a fine etc- you dont know the whole truth and why they came back- which is between the dancer and the manager. i dont know why youre all upset and pointing fingers- you pissed in a trash can in the dressing room for christ sake. at least you did not get fired, you were just temporaily punished. you were told to come back the next DAY. not week, not month. A DAY. i think thats a great deal for pissing in the trash can.

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    If she hadn't sent you home when you were that drunk, you could have made an even worse decision than pissing in the trashcan, such as getting in a fight, drinking something a customer had put roofies in because you weren't paying attention to your drink, etc. If it's a shady club, the chance of fucked up shit happening is even higher.

    Besides, you gotta look at it from her perspective. Prostitutes don't necessarily harm the club (unless they are stealing all the customers to do shit outside of the club) and if they are paying extra tip outs, and doing extras AT the club, which encourages tricks to RETURN to the club, it actually helps the club out... in the short run at least. A girl pissing anywhere besides the toilet obviously hurts the club. So there is some incentive for her to be sympathetic to the prostitutes but not the pissers... sorry, I know that is not 'right' but it's like that sometimes...

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    I'm sorry, I can't help myself. I think it's hilarious that you pissed in the trash can in the bathroom. Am I the only one that sees the irony? I mean, she peed in a trash can a few feet away from a toilet. No one? Just me? Idc what you guys say, that's funny.


    Anywho, on topic, that club sounds like an absolute shithole. I've worked in some pretty ghetto places but have never known of a club that was knowingly allowing guys to come in and sell weight. That's just asking for a police/US Marshall raid. If you aren't making tons of money there I'd jump ship to a better run club and start anew.

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    Thanks for your input ladies. So know I know if you get drunk then it's a problem, not fuck staff and sell pussy. Customers love that. Lol.

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    They do it sneakily...but she KNOWS that they are d-boys. The stalls were all filled.

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    jessica, i think youre missing the point. getting drunk is not the problem, it was your actions.

    tell me this, lets say a customer did something rude and pissed you off so bad that you went to a manager. like would not pay you for dances you did or tried to stick his penis in you or something. what if the manager says, "oh dont worry about it, he was just drunk." being drunk is not an excuse. like joanna said, if you stayed you could of done something worst so sending you home was for your own benefit.

    and again, you should not be so concerned about what others are doing.

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    Yeah I guess that's right. :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by JessicaCM View Post
    Thanks for your input ladies. So know I know if you get drunk then it's a problem, not fuck staff and sell pussy. Customers love that. Lol.
    I drink every night at work shamelessly. I've gotten beyond shitfaced twice (mixing mixed drinks and then taking shots is the worst. idea. EVER) and had to sleep in my car outside of the club and woken up the next morning feeling like death. It happens. But no one wants to be THAT girl. It's equally dangerous as it is embarrassing.


    You've just got to know your limits and stop before you get sloppy drunk. At that point, the clubs sending you home for your own safety. And if you ever feel like the slop is coming on, (if your club serves food) order something fattening and start drinking water and orange/cranberry juice.


    And lmao at "the stalls were all filled". I like your style. You sound like you know how to party.

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    Lol, my best friend said I was unecessary and he would have sent me home too! I'm still feeling some type of way those whore snitched though.

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    Not to play the devil's advocate but when this bitch was doing lines in the one bathroom stall I pissed in the bathroom trash can.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Not to play the devil's advocate but when this bitch was doing lines in the one bathroom stall I pissed in the bathroom trash can.
    Seriously? So I'm not the only chick who got wasted and pissed in a can before lol?

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    Just to be fair, you do realize that someone is going to have to empty that trash can at the end of a long night of work right? Some waitress shouldn't have to be subjected to cleaning your pee because you couldn't wait 2 minutes for a stall. The manager also manages other staff who have to be looked out for aswell. You got sent home because it sounds like you were behaving rudely. Not a big deal, just go back and don't do it again. The prostitutes are probably a little more discreet and she has to catch them in the act or something, it's not right but that's how it goes.

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    I completely understand but I wasn't trying to rude...just happened. Yet to everyone else it appeared that way. Those hoes better watch out though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JessicaCM View Post
    Seriously? So I'm not the only chick who got wasted and pissed in a can before lol?
    Honey I was stone cold sober when I did that. I was annoyed. But no you are not the only one. One time in Albuquerque my friend stumbled in the dressing room VERY inebriated and calmly urinated in the trash can. My friend Starla handed her a handful of wipies.
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    Why the fuck are y'all pissing in TRASH cans? Are you animals? I've been so drunk I fell and broke my shoes before, but I have NEVER peed in a trash can. That's fucking disgusting.

    As far as "snitching", that's a childish mentality. I would have complained about you too.

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    ^^^
    Agreed. I would have reported a dancer pissing into a trashcan because it is gross and unsanitary.

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    @Tempest LMFAO! @Mediocrity & @ KellyDancer Agreed. I'm not even mad once I sobered up, but was pretty drunk to pee in a can. Won't happen anymore...at work. I'll never drink that many shots to cloud my decision making there again.

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    I'm sure you're a sweet girl, but if I was trying to run a nicer club, I wouldn't want any girl coming back that pissed in a trash can.
    I'm pretty much certain if a girl did that at my club they'd be fired, and our new manager would have the girl black listed from all the clubs in the city (or at least the nice ones that aren't brothels). Shit, they've done it for less than that.
    Seriously though, if you're that drunk be careful, because you could have fucked yourself over safety wise. It's so much easier to let a customer know where you live, or accidently let him get away with too much during a dance.

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    i wouldn't call that a "little thing", that's pretty disgusting.

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    My husband once caught a girl shitting in the trash. He freaked out, fired her on the spot. He saw her at another club about a year later... She came up and recognized him. He couldn't remember her name, but was like OHHHH! YOURE THE GIRL WHO SHIT IN THE TRASH!

    So keep in mind, when you act gross like this... Someone ALWAYS remembers.

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