Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 28

Thread: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

  1. #1
    Newbie
    Joined
    Jun 2012
    Posts
    10
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    I dont know the name of it but it was on IFC or some similar channel. It was in french, about a college girl who turned to prostitution for extra cash. Initially she just wanted some money so she could afford rent but it destroyed her. Sex took over her life. Something her boyfriend said really stuck with me..."Its as if each dish were worth a part of your body"

    I know how that feels -_- To know that everything you buy came from this kind of money. And whats worse is that I initially started camming so I could afford things like lenses and a new bicycle. But when I have money I just want to "live big" and I blow it on expensive meals and such. Not only does that piss me off, not only is it a waste of time, but its made me kinda fat ><

    Despite all the flirting that goes into it, I still know at the core of my being that camming is prostitution. Its as if people take bits and pieces of your soul when they pay for you to fuck yourself. Sorry...I can't help these kind of thoughts. I don't understand how you dont have them.

    Im not trying to diss camming. I think its great. But its obviously not something I should not be doing when I have such emotional upheaval about it. When I started I seriously thought it was going to be a career thing for me. But no. Im never going to be a top model. Im never going to get the prize. Im just some cheap internet whore who came and went.

    I just wanted to share because I have no one to talk about camming things with. About how cheap it makes me feel. I don't even want to mention it to a therapist. Its sortof...embarassing. I wish I had friends that were open to it but I don't :/

  2. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to highlightmysoul For This Useful Post:


  3. #2
    Featured Member JoJoX's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2009
    Posts
    1,698
    Thanks
    1,351
    Thanked 4,248 Times in 1,017 Posts
    My Mood
    Psychedelic

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    i love being an internet whore lol.

    maybe you're over analyzing and self sabtoging too much. but if you really feel this bad about it, get out of it before you destroy yourself.


  4. #3
    Featured Member TeenageAnnie's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2011
    Location
    Newcastle . England
    Posts
    1,065
    Thanks
    252
    Thanked 2,511 Times in 674 Posts
    My Mood
    Breezy

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    CHEAP? If you think you're cheap, put up your prices. I certainly am not cheap. Bits of my soul are fucking expensive and so is my choice of shampoo. Try and try harder. You are only a failure if you think you are.


  5. #4
    Featured Member JoJoX's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2009
    Posts
    1,698
    Thanks
    1,351
    Thanked 4,248 Times in 1,017 Posts
    My Mood
    Psychedelic

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    CHEAP? If you think you're cheap, put up your prices. I certainly am not cheap. Bits of my soul are fucking expensive and so is my choice of shampoo. Try and try harder. You are only a failure if you think you are.
    LMAO! this made me laugh! "youre not a cheap whore, girl just raise your prices!" hahah

    but i see what youre saying and i agree. you are only what you perceive yourself to be.

  6. The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to JoJoX For This Useful Post:


  7. #5
    Veteran Member Rosemary Rabbit's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Westeros
    Posts
    546
    Thanks
    1,813
    Thanked 2,794 Times in 487 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    -----
    Last edited by Rosemary Rabbit; 07-10-2017 at 12:28 PM.


  8. #6
    God/dess Sam38g's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2011
    Location
    Miami
    Posts
    5,067
    Thanks
    6,589
    Thanked 26,853 Times in 4,529 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Oh honey, we all sell something.

    Been a manager of 2 tanning salons with 10 beds in them. Due to my hard work I grew them into 50 bed stores & did all the books. I worked 70 hour weeks, rarely had a day off. I did this all for the grand total of $1800 a month. For 2 years I worked like a slave. I made the OWNER RICH, not me. I quit because he wanted me to take a pay cut. I told him to stuff it, if he didn't think I was working hard enough, then he could shove it. No, I didn't sell sex. I sold my soul, my youth, my energy, my life. This is how corporate America works. Did I learn what it takes to me a business successful? Yes Despite my big boobs he did let me advance & teach me many things in business without prejudice. Did I make him rich? yes All the while I lived in poverty.

    SEX sells, it sells cars, perfume, lingerie, clothing, shoes, sporting events, night clubs and just about everything else under the sun. Do you think any of those companies feel guilt or remorse for the bottom line? NO

    This is life.

    $1800 a month is porverty, it is hell. I had no life, no time, no fun. All I did was work 10 to 14 hours a day for barely any money.

    Now between camming, my porn site, shoots & clips4sale I can earn anywhere from $6000 a month to $8000. Now I work about 30 to 40 hours a week. Now, I have time to see friends, to have a life.

    Do I feel guilt? NO
    Don't let a man guilt you either. Because if any of them were females they all would be selling sex too. Hell, it is all of their fantasy to be paid for their dicks. This is just a form of control over you.

    No matter what in life to work is to sell off apart of you. Now to the world it looks like we are just selling sex. This job has given me opportunities to learn many computer skills, how to decorate & do set design, become a makeup artist, a better salesman, internet marketing, blogging & so much more. Not many jobs in the world give you the freedom to branch out & learn many new skills. They hire you for one, like accounting & that is it.

    I find it horrible to sit in an office 5 days a week no matter what. To ask for permission to go home when sick. To ask for time off & maybe not get it. To have to work every single holiday since I am single with no kids, so punished. I dont have to go clean out toilets from strangers messing them up.

    Grow up honey, life is short. You can do anything you want in the world. Only YOU are stopping YOU from doing it.

    I celebrate me. I celebrate my God given gifts & sexuality. I will never feel guilt about being a healthy sexual person who earns a good living. Time is to short.

    Smooches,
    Sam


  9. #7
    God/dess CourtneyRaine's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2011
    Posts
    2,326
    Thanks
    9,085
    Thanked 7,117 Times in 1,825 Posts
    My Mood
    Grumpy

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Welcome to the forum, highlight! I hope we can be here to listen and support you when you can't discuss what you do with people in your private life. Having a place to talk with other can girls can really do loads for your mental health.

    That being said, I do agree with JoJo that if you are having such a hard time camming, maybe it is time to find something else to do? I don't feel the same way about camming as you do but I imagine that if I did, it would really affect me and make me feel bad about myself, and no amount of money is worth it if you feel that way. I don't see this as prostitution at all (although I respect the fact that you do). If I was prostituting myself I'd be putting myself at risk for being arrested, contracting STDs, and being physically harmed by aggressive men. I don't face any of those risks as a cam model. I look at camming as nothing more than masturbation, which I would be doing anyway since I am single and have a high sex drive, so if men are willing to pay to watch me I am willing to turn my cam on and let them. I also understand what you mean when you say that guys will "pay for your soul" in a sense, but they can only take as much as you give them. I share only what I am comfortable with sharing, and if I am uncomfortable I maintain boundaries so I've never felt like I was being manipulated or anything. I don't feel like my customers are paying for my soul. They are paying to watch me engage in certain acts, and I only engage in the acts that I am comfortable with, so I don't feel like I'm being taken advantage of. We both know what we are getting so it's a fair exchange in my book.

    I will also never be a top cam girl. Most of us won't. And I'm happy with that. If you're not happy- change. Seriously. I don't know if camming is your primary income but if it is, it can be hard to just give it up. But set goals for yourself. Set a timeline. Start applying for other jobs you'd be okay with doing, put yourself on a strict budget so that you can live off of less/don't have to cam as much, if you really can't afford to stop altogether then start camming on a different site and stick with doing non-nude if that will make you feel more comfortable with what you are doing. Make and sell non-nude fetish clips so that you can earn a bit while you are transitioning away from camming. Do whatever it takes, but don't let it get you down. We're here for you

  10. The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to CourtneyRaine For This Useful Post:


  11. #8
    Veteran Member CurvySweet's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2011
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    408
    Thanks
    204
    Thanked 327 Times in 165 Posts
    My Mood
    Bashful

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Completely shocked by this post from, highlightmysoul. Camming isn't for everyone. But as ladies some of us have gotta do what we gotta do. For many different reasons. I'll always remember a relative saying to me we women are 'sitting on a goldmine! Make use of it'.

    I've never felt like a prostitute being a cam girl. Hell I never heard the term cam whore till I joined this site. As for being cheap internet whore. Ain't nothing cheap about keeping a roof over your head, paying them bills and other luxuries I get from not having to do the 8hours plus more hours in the office. Then again I could go work with my friend at work who is got looked over for a promotion because she doesn't dress slutty like the girl who does and more than likely slept with the guy to get it too.

    On the count of being 'cheap' where would all those cam sites be without us women?

    Rant over.
    Last edited by CurvySweet; 09-17-2012 at 05:21 AM.
    Don't Like Me? Have A Seat With The Rest Of The Bitches And Bastards Waiting For Me To Give A Flying Fuck.

  12. The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to CurvySweet For This Useful Post:


  13. #9
    Veteran Member nadia29's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2010
    Posts
    319
    Thanks
    80
    Thanked 318 Times in 140 Posts
    My Mood
    Cheeky

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Sounds like you have very puritan views. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself of others. There is nothing wrong with having sex, selling it or buying it has long as its not hurting anyone.

  14. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to nadia29 For This Useful Post:


  15. #10
    Veteran Member sweetgapeach's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2011
    Location
    Georgia
    Posts
    343
    Thanks
    1,077
    Thanked 687 Times in 231 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    $1800 a month is porverty, it is hell. I had no life, no time, no fun. All I did was work 10 to 14 hours a day for barely any money.
    YES MAM!! AMEN!! That's my income now without camming, and it leaves absolutely NO money to enjoy yourself, your children, live life....just household bills and groceries. Camming is awesome, without having a corporate person always on your back.

  16. The Following User Says Thank You to sweetgapeach For This Useful Post:


  17. #11
    God/dess Sam38g's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2011
    Location
    Miami
    Posts
    5,067
    Thanks
    6,589
    Thanked 26,853 Times in 4,529 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    I used to date a CEO of a major fortune 500 company. He asked how I do this job. I asked how he did his. Cause I can't pretend to be fake & be kiss ass of people I don't like when he did. Only difference was I am a "hoe" & he was a "corporate hoe" He laughed & said true.

    You can take online classes or even go to college to learn another skill & get out of this industry.

    You can go to a job agency & have them get you a job.

    Research your options. Follow your dreams.

    Even though I do work hard, I work for me. And I am following my dreams of being infamous, of building a brand, of constantly learning new computer skills in my spare time.

    You have to set goals in life & have a plan.

    Any girl can be a top cam girl, never limit yourself.

    I hired a new model for my porn site. She had just graduated from college with a 4.0. She had all kinds of scholarships to go on to become a cancer research doctor. I talked her out of doing porn. Now she is a PhD cancer research. Don't let anyone including yourself be so negative. Turn it around & go for something you can be proud of in life.

    Good Luck,
    Sam

  18. The Following 12 Users Say Thank You to Sam38g For This Useful Post:


  19. #12
    Veteran Member GracieBlue's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    582
    Thanks
    2,389
    Thanked 1,049 Times in 367 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    I have never felt like a prostitute. I think for me, camming has been a life changer for the better. I feel very empowered, independent, beautiful, I could go on and on. My niche, I think, are my boobs. I think that if I can make money off of them, then why not. I think it's just like being a mechanic. You are offering a service. It is the social stigma that tells us it's innapropriate.

  20. The Following 7 Users Say Thank You to GracieBlue For This Useful Post:


  21. #13
    Featured Member DiamondCupcakes's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2011
    Location
    In Your Computer
    Posts
    794
    Thanks
    414
    Thanked 1,265 Times in 422 Posts
    My Mood
    Busy

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    .......

  22. #14
    God/dess sexysusie's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2012
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    5,664
    Thanks
    8,080
    Thanked 10,331 Times in 3,728 Posts
    My Mood
    Aggressive

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Troll thread?

    For the record though... yes i do think this is prositution, and no it doesn't make me feel cheap a) because I'm NOT cheap LOL, guys pay GOOD money to see me on cam thank you very much! and b) Because I CHOOSE to cam and show my body for money.

    I had far worse thoughts about myself when i used to come home from a thankless, souless corporate job where everyday was a political and social jungle with nothing but judgement left right and centre
    "If you want to earn more, learn more" ~ Zig Ziglar




  23. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to sexysusie For This Useful Post:


  24. #15
    Banned Fridays's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2011
    Posts
    2,440
    Thanks
    5,169
    Thanked 4,889 Times in 1,426 Posts
    My Mood
    Daring

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    "Prostitute" is derived from the Latin prostituta. Some sources cite the verb as a composition of "pro" meaning "up front" or "forward" and "situere", defined as "to offer up for sale" (source )

    So I guess no matter what job, if one's time and efforts are up for sale, one;s a prostitute.

    It all boils down to your OWN belief system and no one else;s
    Not your boyfriends.
    Not your parents.
    Not your friends...
    Not mine.
    just yours and yours alone.

    Feel like a prostitute? you are a prostitute.
    Feel like u are not? You are not.

    Your perception of your reality is just in your head.
    my perception of your reality should mean NOTHING to you.

    movies? LOL.........
    thats just what they are.....

  25. #16
    Banned
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Posts
    2,551
    Thanks
    6,900
    Thanked 7,271 Times in 1,924 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    i love you more and more speak the truth
    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    I used to date a CEO of a major fortune 500 company. He asked how I do this job. I asked how he did his. Cause I can't pretend to be fake & be kiss ass of people I don't like when he did. Only difference was I am a "hoe" & he was a "corporate hoe" He laughed & said true.

    You can take online classes or even go to college to learn another skill & get out of this industry.

    You can go to a job agency & have them get you a job.

    Research your options. Follow your dreams.

    Even though I do work hard, I work for me. And I am following my dreams of being infamous, of building a brand, of constantly learning new computer skills in my spare time.

    You have to set goals in life & have a plan.

    Any girl can be a top cam girl, never limit yourself.

    I hired a new model for my porn site. She had just graduated from college with a 4.0. She had all kinds of scholarships to go on to become a cancer research doctor. I talked her out of doing porn. Now she is a PhD cancer research. Don't let anyone including yourself be so negative. Turn it around & go for something you can be proud of in life.

    Good Luck,
    Sam

  26. #17
    Banned Fridays's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2011
    Posts
    2,440
    Thanks
    5,169
    Thanked 4,889 Times in 1,426 Posts
    My Mood
    Daring

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Im getting mad on this subject.. LOL
    God help that man who ever tells me Im a prostitute in real life.

    men come out of women.
    They have NO right to open their mouths about ANYTHING a woman does.
    Is that clear? LOL
    argh!!! lolol
    Last edited by Fridays; 09-17-2012 at 03:22 PM.

  27. #18
    Featured Member AliceFun's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2012
    Posts
    1,309
    Thanks
    3,712
    Thanked 2,902 Times in 921 Posts
    My Mood
    Fine

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    I was reading this thread with interest, i also have kinda mixed feelings/ thoughts regarding this line of work, i sometimes think "hmm, this job is considered immoral by most people, i'm not doing the right thing, so on" but then i remember many many situations where i was treated like a slave even i was doing THE RIGHT THING. I had jobs where they sucked all my energy, time, knowledge, all resources and then throw me out when they did not need me anymore or i asked for a pay raise, how moral that is?
    I see myself like a performer, actress, model, stripper, i do art, fashion, style, class, i do it in a foreign language, i see myself a lady entertaining men who pay me for my talents, who need me, i make people happy so this makes me proud of myself, i sell my IMAGE, not my body, is a very big difference. I do it over the internet and make these guys feel i am there with them when in fact i am at home safe and untouchable ha! How nice eh?

    Yes i wish i could do things different, in fact i wish i could have soo much money i wont need to work my whole life but hey, life is not easy or fair, i do what i have and can do in order to keep a roof over my head. Actually camming was and is a life saver for me & my son, i dont know how i could manage all w.o this job.
    Have peace, Good Luck & all the very best no matter what u decide to do!!

  28. The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to AliceFun For This Useful Post:


  29. #19
    Senior Member
    Joined
    Jun 2012
    Posts
    84
    Thanks
    19
    Thanked 68 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    Something her boyfriend said really stuck with me..."Its as if each dish were worth a part of your body"

    /
    well her boyfriend should get a job and not eat her body Seriously LOL what a loser thing to say HAHAHAAHAH

  30. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to comstar For This Useful Post:


  31. #20
    Veteran Member CurvySweet's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2011
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    408
    Thanks
    204
    Thanked 327 Times in 165 Posts
    My Mood
    Bashful

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Temptingmodel i'll second that on the love for Sam38G with her advice, always gets me thinking.

    Fridays yea this thread is making me mad but as they say why cry over spilt milk besides after i made my first post I thought maybe this person is a troll.....
    Don't Like Me? Have A Seat With The Rest Of The Bitches And Bastards Waiting For Me To Give A Flying Fuck.

  32. #21
    God/dess sexysusie's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2012
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    5,664
    Thanks
    8,080
    Thanked 10,331 Times in 3,728 Posts
    My Mood
    Aggressive

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    Initially she just wanted some money so she could afford rent but it destroyed her
    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    I still know at the core of my being that camming is prostitution
    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    Its as if people take bits and pieces of your soul when they pay for you to fuck yourself
    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    Im just some cheap internet whore who came and went.
    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    how cheap it makes me feel
    Right out of an evangelical anti-porn pamphlet! not to mention the name...
    "If you want to earn more, learn more" ~ Zig Ziglar




  33. #22
    Featured Member Incantatious's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2011
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    1,732
    Thanks
    5,214
    Thanked 8,267 Times in 1,351 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    I dont know the name of it but it was on IFC or some similar channel. It was in french, about a college girl who turned to prostitution for extra cash. Initially she just wanted some money so she could afford rent but it destroyed her. Sex took over her life. Something her boyfriend said really stuck with me..."Its as if each dish were worth a part of your body"
    The lady in the movie "turned to" prostitution, it seems, out of desperation. It wasn't something she wanted to do. Yes, we all work for money, but for many of us here, this is something we are happy doing - because it affords us a good life, flexibility, our own hours, choose our own pay, the means to travel, take our work with us, etc, etc.
    And sex took over her life? I don't so much understand this. Prostitution took over her life? I guess personal and business must have mixed because she wasn't the slightest bit happy doing what she was doing. If I had a job in retail for example, I would likely feel as though sales were taking over my life, because I would hate it.

    As for "every dish being worth a part of her body". If I were an athlete, would you / he / she / prostitutes / camgirls / performance artists, say the same thing?

    If my tits are worth me eating that night, then PRAISE MAH TITTIES for giving me that food!


    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    I know how that feels -_- To know that everything you buy came from this kind of money. And whats worse is that I initially started camming so I could afford things like lenses and a new bicycle. But when I have money I just want to "live big" and I blow it on expensive meals and such. Not only does that piss me off, not only is it a waste of time, but its made me kinda fat ><
    You feel this way because you are ashamed. I assume you look upon this as "dirty money", so you don't take it seriously. So you don't take when you spend it on seriously. It's your responsibility to be responsible with the money you earn.

    Girls buy houses, transform their lives and the lives of their dependents (kids, parents, relatives...) with the money they earn from camming or prostitution. It can make all the difference between eating or not eating, feeding your child or not feeling your child, having a roof over your head or not having a roof over your head, helping your dad finance that operation or not financing that operation, living or dying... But add onto that these luxuries: Want to take up a new hobby? Oh, you made the money for that yesterday - get started! New phone? New car? New wardrobe? You can do it. Work hard, play hard. Enjoy.

    I can afford to just work every other week - and pay my rent, my bills, my expenses, and be one generous motherfucker atop of that. The gratitude I feel for this, only ever adds to me and my quality of life.

    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    Despite all the flirting that goes into it, I still know at the core of my being that camming is prostitution. Its as if people take bits and pieces of your soul when they pay for you to fuck yourself. Sorry...I can't help these kind of thoughts. I don't understand how you dont have them.
    Not all of us have them, because not all of us have been taught - via religion - to equate our sex organs with souls, or sex with "taking" of something "deep within you".

    After I've finished a shift at camming, what exactly has been taken from me, and what do I lack afterwards that I had before?
    I have my intellect, my pride, my self-worth, my body image, my strength, my love, my wellbeing - everything all firmly in place.

    My body is as valuable and dignified as that of an athlete, a ballet dancer - it is treated the same as any other performance artist.

    After you've finished a shift, what has been taken from you, and what do you lack afterwards that you had before?
    Your pride, your dignity, your worth. Because you equate your body with inner properties.

    Quote Originally Posted by highlightmysoul View Post
    Im not trying to diss camming. I think its great. But its obviously not something I should not be doing when I have such emotional upheaval about it. When I started I seriously thought it was going to be a career thing for me. But no. Im never going to be a top model. Im never going to get the prize. Im just some cheap internet whore who came and went.

    I just wanted to share because I have no one to talk about camming things with. About how cheap it makes me feel. I don't even want to mention it to a therapist. Its sortof...embarassing. I wish I had friends that were open to it but I don't :/
    I absolutely think you should stop if it makes you feel this way. It could have very negative emotional consequences for you to continue to work and look upon it in this way.




  34. The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to Incantatious For This Useful Post:


  35. #23
    Featured Member TeenageAnnie's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2011
    Location
    Newcastle . England
    Posts
    1,065
    Thanks
    252
    Thanked 2,511 Times in 674 Posts
    My Mood
    Breezy

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    yes i reakon its a troll now. some loser church freak trying to put her/his opinions on to us. i'd rather be a whore than be the one who trolls whore forums posting religious crap. go bother someone who cares with your crap.

  36. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to TeenageAnnie For This Useful Post:


  37. #24
    Featured Member Incantatious's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2011
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    1,732
    Thanks
    5,214
    Thanked 8,267 Times in 1,351 Posts

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    yes i reakon its a troll now. some loser church freak trying to put her/his opinions on to us. i'd rather be a whore than be the one who trolls whore forums posting religious crap. go bother someone who cares with your crap.
    There is very easily a chance that this is NOT a troll.

    I mean, situations like this exist.

    SW is at least a safe haven for women who do feel like this to at least come to for some help or insight from others in their profession.




  38. The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Incantatious For This Useful Post:


  39. #25
    Member NakedNerd's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2012
    Location
    Lap Dance Land
    Posts
    41
    Thanks
    87
    Thanked 62 Times in 25 Posts
    My Mood
    Amused

    Default Re: Saw an insightful movie last night (relevant to camming)

    I dont think you should continue camming, if that is how you really feel. Everybody has different values and mores, so if camming makes you feel like you are prostituting yourself and selling pieces of your soul, then please stop doing it. No job is worth you feeling bad about yourself.

    Having said that, my personal opinion is pretty similiar to what sam has already stated. I believe (and this is based on MY personal belief system) that we are all selling pieces of ourselves no matter what job we have. Id rather "sell" myself for $200-800 for a few hours worth of dancing, than earn $50 working as a waitress. I personally would feel degraded and enslaved working a job that pays so little but that is approved by this society/culture. Fuck what socoety thinks,

  40. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to NakedNerd For This Useful Post:


Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. My first night camming...
    By DirtyFatCupcake in forum Camming Connection
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 03-05-2012, 08:00 PM
  2. Stripping; relevant experience for Uni?
    By shameless in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: 11-11-2009, 09:11 PM
  3. Is MTV relevant??
    By G-Real in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 36
    Last Post: 09-11-2007, 01:55 AM
  4. Night at the Museum - Fun Movie for Kids
    By MojoJojo in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 12-26-2006, 08:46 PM
  5. an insightful blog for financial 'pros'
    By Melonie in forum Dollar Den
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 08-13-2006, 01:21 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •