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    Hi there,

    First of all, I'd like to say that I did do a few searches before I posted this but was unable to find anything, perhaps I was using the wrong keywords as I would assume this subject would be brought up quite often. In any case, I like to apologise if this topic has been made before.

    AND I'd like to thank you guys for being SO helpful to me, I have been lurking and reading threads for a few weeks now and you guys have really helped me out.

    So anyway, I am a new cam girl, I have been on SM for about a week now, I've been doing TONS of research and looking at my stats - I have been (on average) getting about 20% paid chat time each night.
    To me, this isnt good enough. I am aware that I am new and it will take a while to get to know my customers and get regulars but I want to know what I can do right now to improve that ratio.
    I am a BBW- not that I think i am any less capable because im big, there is a very good market out there for my shape but it is a smaller customer base, so I realize i'm not going to be making thousands right away but I figure the more private time I get= the more customers will get to know me = more regulars = more business in the long run.

    I always make sure I look as sexy as possible on cam, my makeup is done, false lashes are on, I am wearing nice clothes if not lingerie and I am enthusiastic and bubbly on cam and my lighting is acceptable. I greet everyone as they come in, chat, flirt, tease, etc.
    And plenty of guys appear to really like me, but they more so just want to chat :/

    So I guess my question is, How do I attract more people to my room and turn the chatty freeloaders into customers?
    Hustle tips, flirting ideas, actions, whatever is all appreciated

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    Oh, and I also think I have to rush in privates, I feel like if they think I'm stretching things out they will just leave. And honestly, Im still having trouble believing people will actually pay $3.99 a minute to watch me.
    Any advice on taking my time, more teasing and what not?

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    Default Re: How to increase Private time?

    You do not have to rush privates...not at all.
    Most of my shows are long shows and I typically only do a few a day. This has worked out for me well because I have sort of established a variety of shows that I do and how I run them. Of course they work differently each time because its different customers but its sort of like, I have a set performance and run through it. Make sense?

    I do mostly Domination shows. For girls who do non-kinky stuff I am sure there are still types of shows guys ask for. Develop a "set list" for how you run through it that's comfortable for you. You will find you aren't rushed because it's somewhat planned out in your head but allows for adjustments. For me, a guy may want a tease/denial show in which case I slink in front of the camera and talk about what parts of my body he cannot have starting from my face, and going south. Then I give him instructions, and so forth.

    The best shows are ones that are relaxed. Aim for 10 minutes for a good private show and 20 for an excellent one. Have your customer be interactive with you if possible. Their typing takes up time and also gives you more information to work with. Have slower sexy music going to set the pace (I think I said something similar in another post) and customers will often match the rhythm. Show that you truly have an interest in their enjoyment of the show as well. Even if you are really wanting to call it quits for the evening, show interest, it really helps them feel important and thus gives them more reason to stay put.

    However you can't prevent a guy from being a minute man. Those are just going to happen. Shows are pricey. Your price is fine however...doesn't seem unreasonable. I hope what I said can help ya.
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    Default Re: How to increase Private time?

    Helped ME lola!
    I just gotta be me!

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    all day today i kept saying this aint burger king or mcdonalds u cant have it ur way till u pay then a guy was all i just want a sample im all this aint baskin robins either

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    Welcum! I'm really excited for you! I'll share what works for me. You can extend your time in private/exclusive by asking engaging questions. Look directly into your cam as you do it. Thank them for taking you private and you're super excited. Ask for cam to cam. Be sure to SMILE! Don't take all your clothes off all at once. If they're pushy, say you love how aggressive they are. Play up your femininity. It will disarm men on cam or in real life because they have no defense for it, lol. This is when the questions come into play, make them feel like they are sexually desirable to you. They'll tell you they're horny, ask HOW horny are you? What is it exactly that's making you THIS horny? Make it personal by saying 'I just can't help but notice how strong you are, those eyes are so blue' or whatever. Praise them! Stroke, don't choke their egos. You want to attract quality custies not the kind that want to leave when their 30 seconds are up or the one or two minutes men.


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    Wow, that was super helpful! Thank you
    My issue I think, is that I dont know what im doing yet. And also that I'm a natural sub and cant lead for S***.
    I am learning though, very fast I must say. Two weeks ago I couldn't talk dirty at all and now I feel like a pro haha, at least compared to how I used to be. But its the time filling/stretching in private time that I struggle with, especially when a guy doesnt know what he wants. If I dont get a request in 30 seconds I go back to shaking my ass haha. From now on ill just keep going until they say to do something else. Actually, more so learn to take control. I just dont know where to begin, any tips there?
    I've definitely gotten caught up in the business side of things and not focused enough on my content. Much more research ensues,

    Thank you Lola, I really appreciate the information

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    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ake-More-Money For while you're in show. To spend more time in shows, there's not so much you can do. Just try to be personable and get the right people.


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    Default Re: How to increase Private time?

    There is nothing wrong with 20% private time, pussycat.

    I only average 25%-30% myself. Just focus on getting comfortable slowly and taking control of the private and the longer pvts will come.

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    Oh thank you Marina!
    So to some this up for other newbies -

    - Look and act as feminine as possible
    - Smile and act enthusiastic
    - Think about the content in your shows, try and plan it out
    - Ask lots of questions
    - personalize the show, compliment them or humiliate - whatevs they into
    - eye contact
    - dont rush
    - Get them to interact - typing slows the jerking process
    - sexy music

    Question for you guys - exactly what/how much should be done in free chat in your opinions? I wont flash, unless its my ass since thats pretty much my main asset and they usally cant see it.
    Im having trouble working out how to seduce them into private chat, finding a balance between enticing them enough to want to sweep me away from free chat without doing enough for them to get off on that alone is tough!
    Do you think I should sacrifice face time and find an angle that highlights my ass instead?

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    ^^How much should be done in free chat usually varies a LOT between people and personalities, I usually show nothing though I have on occasion flashed for tips. Your approach to getting someone to go private with you is also usually an individual thing. For me, sometimes I occasionally get up and dance, I babble at the camera about nothing, sometimes I'll have random sexual conversation going, wink, blow kisses, etc. You get the picture. But nothing works all the time. Sometimes I ignore the fuck out of free chat in general, typing brief responses, and then it seems the guys that want to be verbally berated come in packs, haha. Bottom line? If it doesn't work, switch it up until it does.




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    Thats very helpful guys
    Yeah because I dont understand how girls can still make money when they are giving away the show for free?

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    Some still do make money selling their soul for free. I rather sell mine in private or exclusive.

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    Thats very helpful guys
    Yeah because I dont understand how girls can still make money when they are giving away the show for free?

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    Quote Originally Posted by riot667 View Post
    Wow, that was super helpful! Thank you
    My issue I think, is that I dont know what im doing yet. And also that I'm a natural sub and cant lead for S***.
    I am learning though, very fast I must say. Two weeks ago I couldn't talk dirty at all and now I feel like a pro haha, at least compared to how I used to be. But its the time filling/stretching in private time that I struggle with, especially when a guy doesnt know what he wants. If I dont get a request in 30 seconds I go back to shaking my ass haha. From now on ill just keep going until they say to do something else. Actually, more so learn to take control. I just dont know where to begin, any tips there?
    I've definitely gotten caught up in the business side of things and not focused enough on my content. Much more research ensues,

    Thank you Lola, I really appreciate the information
    I have been trying to work out a standard dirtytalk/strip/masturbate/ask about toys/"orgasm" routine for custies who say "just do your thing bb". Make sure to change positions while you mb and talk to him. Like everyone said that slows down the process. . I actually find I do this show almost every time basically. I also do try to ask a lot of questions about what they want but 80% want that with variations.

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    20% is good! I had a slooow night the other night and just looked, I was at 2% private. Thank god for tips, so I made okay money! My longest privates so far have been the ones where I introduce myself and ask them about themselves first, it helps build a bit of a personal connection.

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