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    Default Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    When they're telling you how hot you are etc and their girlfriends are asleep/out?

    i feel so sad and bad

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    On cam*

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    LOL no! especially on cam! you think only single men go to strip clubs and watch cam girls???? besides, what is so wrong with a man who is taken giving compliments?????

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    I'd be devastated and forever insecure if my boyfriend did this dunno just makes me sad, even though 9.99/10 men would do it

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    LOL i love it when my man watches porn and cam girls. it shuts him up for awhile. besides, i spend money on cam girls too. to me, it seems like its not the men who have the problem, its you. you have to be more accepting of yourself without validation from others. that alone, is waayy sexier than physical attractiveness.

    a hot insecure chick wont fly.

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    Porn wouldn't bother me but cam girls would. Instead of wanking off £50+ to a girl, he could buy her new pair of shoes or whatever and shag her for free!

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    wouldn't be down with a so watching cam girls either. It's the live back and forth interaction that bugs me and if he liked a girl enough to be a regular..even more irritating. Tube porn is passive which I think is fine.
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    How is spending money on a girl to get her in the sack shagging her for free, lol? It's never free. In a relationship, you just get a discount for buying in bulk.

    P.S. - man aren't the only gender that checks out porn, cam models, etc. behind their SO's back. Women are just as bad and in many ways worse. In fact, while men are more likely to look at porn, etc - women are, over time, statistically more likely to actually cheat and have sex outside the relationship. So...

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    Porn is whatever. With me, without me, it's all good. Cam girls, I would not be ok with. I wish I could properly ascertain WHY this is to y'all, but the only thing I come up with is the fact that it's expensive and it just doesn't feel right to me.

    This is unrelated to my "faith" in men. I don't ever lose confidence in men because I judge them as individuals, not as an entire gender.

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    I don't mind porn flicks either, but cam would bother me. I'm not insecure. It's just something I would not be comfortable with & I wouldn't be with someone who made me feel uncomfortable. I'm sure if I had a SO he would think the same, if the tables were turned.

    I know good non-shitty men exist. The ones who I am related to. So no, no faith lost. I have good examples around me. If I ever have a baby boy, i'll be damn sure he turns out right too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosannaxox View Post
    When they're telling you how hot you are etc and their girlfriends are asleep/out?

    i feel so sad and bad
    Theres good and bad to both sides of the spectrum.

    As for losing faith...I sometimes lose it in myself and the world.

    But I come back to reality and do realize that people are more good than they are bad.

    Although in desperate times...the bad (monsters that live inside of us) prevail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    How is spending money on a girl to get her in the sack shagging her for free, lol? It's never free. In a relationship, you just get a discount for buying in bulk.

    P.S. - man aren't the only gender that checks out porn, cam models, etc. behind their SO's back. Women are just as bad and in many ways worse. In fact, while men are more likely to look at porn, etc - women are, over time, statistically more likely to actually cheat and have sex outside the relationship. So...
    Yup nothing in this life is free...everything has a price. Everything.

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    I have lost some faith in men but not for perving on porn, strippers, cam girls, or regular girls on the street for that matter. I lose a little faith every time one acts like a dick in the club. Whether its acting like he's more intelligent or important because he's a man, being selfish, being rude, taking advantage of his friends generosity.. the list goes on. But at the end of the day we are all human and Im sure I do stupid dickhead stuff too, so I just make sure I choose the men who are in my life wisely.

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    I guess i'm just a lil different. I agree w/ JoJox. I look at porn and mfc w/ my man ALL THE TIME!! and by ourselves too. Im not gonna lie there's been times that i've watched girls on cam and got off while he is at work. (I am a tipper as well) So why should I get mad at him for doing it?? We are a very sexual couple.

    And ur kidding urself if u think ur S/O doesn't think about other women at times or think what it would be like to fuck another girl. It's human nature. U think just bc he isn't telling u he is doin it that he must be the one and only DIFFERENT man out there. Women do it too!! And if u have a man (or woman) that hasn't told u that..then ur relationship isn't as open and honest as u might think it is.
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    I have to agree with Lauren. Theres a difference between a guy who comes on and is watching a camgirl/tipping her/perving on her or a guy who comes on is interacting a camgirl behind his SO back.

    IMO the what the second guy is far more offensive to his SO then the first one. Its one thing to watch porn or spend money on it but its another thing to forge an emotional relationship (even a pretend one with a camgirl) with a person other then your SO.

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    Default Re: Ever lose a bit of faith in men?

    I lose faith around bachelor parties. BAchelors are always the handiest assholes bout 3 out of 4 times, and don't respect boundaries. If I ever get married, they guy better not go to a strip club for a bachelor party. I can handle him getting dances, tits in face, whatever. But I couldn't marry a guy who was being the kind of guy I hate.

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