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    Default Girls with bachelor party experience, please help!

    I've been dancing at clubs for over a year and I'm doing my first bachelor party tomorrow night. I'm so nervous! Basically, I've started hanging out with one of the talent scouts for the agency that represents my club and he does bachelor parties on weekends with another company. He asked if I wanted to start doing them and I said yes, as it seems like it could be very lucrative and a breath of fresh air compaired to strip clubs. But the girl who will be my partner has been doing the parties for years and is a pro, and I'm totally nervous! I do well at the clubs I work at and am a top earner there but it seems like a totally different hustle (not to mention clientele).

    I'm planning to just be as bubbly and fun as possible, but I need any advice you ladies with bachelor party experience have and how to treat a bachelor party and work the room compared to a strip club.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Girls with bachelor party experience, please help!

    Pay most of the attention to the bachelor and best man, and also to anyone who pays attention to you.

    Most of the payment should have been arranged ahead of time. Ex: $300 flat fee plus $200 in tips. Or something similar. Also you should specify if that per girl or the total amount.

    Have a few games planned ahead of time and have the supplies ready. Make sure the guys give you a semiprivate room to prep yourselves if u need it, along with music.

    I'd recommend following the lead of the other girl and learn from her asynchronous as possible. In this case you're a TEAM and not in competition as you are each getting paid an equal amount (or you should be) or you should be equalling splitting any tips and profits.

    At least, that's how it's always worked for me.
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    Default Re: Girls with bachelor party experience, please help!

    Hope your first night went well.

    My advice is to:
    - Have good security (communicate your boundaries before the first party)
    - Make sure security collects agency fee upfront and holds your tip and dance money
    - Stay sober, do not drink anything. Why risk getting drugged or making a regrettable decision under the influence?
    - Don't trash talk anyone, any club, any agency. People higher on the food chain talk and that's a way to make enemies.
    - Don't tell other dancers or agency provided security your life story. You never know when they will sell you out to a whack job customer for $50.
    - Don't burn your bridges, always use tact. If you quit working somewhere follow company policy (if any). You never know if you will work for them again or if they may change positions to a different company and cross your path again.
    - Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. No amount of money is worth being harmed or arrested. Trust your gut and remember: if you refuse to do a show, the ball stops there. No one can force you to perform, ever.
    - Don't do duos or large, rowdy multi-hour/multi-girl parties if you have never met these girls. Before agreeing to a duo or multi-girl party you need to speak to the other girls on the phone, at minimum.
    - Just because customers say another girl charged $20/song doesn't mean you can't charge $40/song. Charge what you believe your service is worth, and if they refuse...politely leave.
    - Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, to anyone. That includes agency staff, security, other dancers, and customers. If you stand up for yourself and stay sober customers will either respect you or heckle you and move onto better prey.
    - Remember, if someone violates you or a situation makes you uneasy: LEAVE. Do not be afraid to walk to the car butt naked if you need to, and call police if the situation escalates.


    -Lastly: do not trust anyone. If the agency or a customer says something take it at face value and continue assessing and reassessing everything going on around you. You are nobody to the agency, the customers, random security, and the other dancers--the only one truly ensuring you get home safely tonight is YOU! Always keep extra money in a small purse or your pants pocket (separate from money security has) so you can call a cab if needed, you'd be surprised how many security guards "know" people at parties and decide to drink/chum up/aka pay no attention to your well being.

    Stay safe!
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    Default Re: Girls with bachelor party experience, please help!

    What are some games and how to play them i have a last min first party tonight some please help....!!!

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