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    Mind Blowing I was threatened over a tip out

    So tonight I went to work at a club to make some extra $. There was a bday party onstage and the club tried to force me to give a guy a free lapdance. I've never worked at a club where they didn't pay the girls to do that on stage. I said no, and they gave me a hard time. The manager told me I should do it as a favor to him, again I said no.

    I was so disgusted by that and there was hardly any business, I decided to leave. As I'm walking to my car, a bouncer gets in my face and demands $20 for the dances I did. I said I really just want to leave and never come back. He says if I don't pay the $$ he will call the cops for theft. I laughed....really?? Over $20? He then said if I didn't pay it he would call the manager's brother who lives up the street to come and deal with me in the parking lot. I gave them the $20, but I couldn't believe they would say that to me!! Now they didnt ask me for any other tipouts or house fee, now I feel scared they would try and come after me for that. But again, they didnt ask me to pay house or dj.

    I mean....wow. Are clubs really this desperate for $$ now? This will be my last night dancing, and I think its just sick to threaten someone like that. Has anyone ever walked out and been threatened or harassed to pay fees?

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    Default Re: I was threatened over a tip out

    I've never been harassed like that, ever. That's terrible, unprofessional, and unless it's in ur contract to pay the bouncers, illegal. That is so not ok.

    I'm sorry this happened to you.
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    That's horrible! I wouldn't worry about them coming after you, but there isn't enough money in the world that could convince me to ever return to that club.

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    Default Re: I was threatened over a tip out

    jasmine22 you are awesome, for not taking shit from anyone. but to answer your question - yes

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    i would of never gave him the money. what a piece of shit to harass a female over $20. WTF?? im glad youre not going back. trust me, people like that dont last. with that kind of behavior, they will dig their own grave.

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    Sounds like the endzone.

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    Hugs xxxx

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    that's horrible. I wouldn't have given the money either. How could the manager's brother 'deal with you'? Hurt you or something? Sorry this happened xx
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    Default Re: I was threatened over a tip out

    I've been harassed over not paying tip out before, but never with a threat beyond playing shit music or telling on me to the manager. However, this is one of the reasons that I generally have some one drive me to and from work. Until I get to know staff, I'm pretty untrusting.
    Chances are that the manager doesn't know it happened, so I would call the club and report it to the manager. I know every club I've worked at would have punished/fired a bouncer for this kind of behavior. Had it been me in your position, assuming my ride were there, I'd have probably locked myself in the car and called the cops!

    Definitely don't go back.
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    Default Re: I was threatened over a tip out

    I had been harassed over tip out, but never like that..sounds like a place to avoid

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