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    Default Escorts..How do you get motivated?

    Motivation to work?

    I have been slacking and being extremely lazy and just don't have the motivation to see 1-2 clients a day, (3 on a good day when I can handle it) 5 days a week like I normally do and get back to the grind. I've been extremely irritated with the time wasting e-mails, annoying texts and just can't get back into "grind mode"...Anyone ever get into a rut and loose motivation to work? I really don't feel like dealing with the phone calls, the boards, the annoying clients and constant acting persona but I need to kick myself in the butt and get motivated and back to it.

    I have been escorting steady for three years I am definitely burnt out and do have bouts of depression but I usually just push myself then bury myself in my escort work but lately I just can't get motivated and going again.
    Many of the obstacles you once imagined are not even there.



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    Default Re: Escorts..How do you get motivated?

    maybe try an assistant or an agency for awhile till you get motivated again - that would take part of the mental stress away

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    Default Re: Escorts..How do you get motivated?

    I'd recommend working less days. I'd cut back to 3 days a week and concentrate your clients into appointments on those 3 days. Knock it out and have the next 4 days to relax.

    Also, automated reply emails and mandatory screening forms with sift through a lot of your timewasters for you.


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    Default Re: Escorts..How do you get motivated?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nikki_Fox View Post
    maybe try an assistant or an agency for awhile till you get motivated again - that would take part of the mental stress away
    Thanks for taking the time to respond to my post.

    I know with an agency I wouldn't have to handle the phone calls, advertising and time wasters. However an agency is out of the question for me.

    I've been independent my entire career - I'm not giving 40% of my earnings away.. being with strangers for the small amount of money agency women get is not worth my time and would never cover my bills, rent and expenses.
    Many of the obstacles you once imagined are not even there.



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    Default Re: Escorts..How do you get motivated?

    Get an assistant. It removes the stress factor for sure, and you don't have to deal with the clients until you get in the room, so it's much easier to be pleasant and sweet and not burn out if you aren't putting up with the endless screening crap. A good assistant will increase your business, hopefully enough that you can raise your rates and cut down on working hours if you want to.

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: Escorts..How do you get motivated?

    It was very easy for me to get motivated. VERY easy. I mean all I had to do was think about all the money I was going to make and it was like magic!! Loved loved loved working full time but damn it was draining.

    As for assistants, use the search function. We've listed a few here before

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