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    If this is already talked about sorry about that.
    I've only been on SM for about 2 months now and i like it. I get some good customers who give me there email
    but i don't take it down b/c i don't want to get into trouble. I wouldn't try to redirect them anywhere or anything
    like that but is it o.k to take it down and keep in touch with them outside of SM just to tell them when im going
    online and what not. I've had a handful of good ones that i'd lke to keep in touch with but i don't know I'm nervous
    i don't want to break and rules on there. How strict are they? Thanks a bunch! Have a good Weekend Everyone.

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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    You cannot e-mail them from SM and actually should probably reply to tell them you can't have outside contact. SM is VERY strict about it. If you want to mail them from your personal e-mail to their personal e-mail that's another story. But don't encourage the contact while on the site.

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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    Quote Originally Posted by hf487 View Post
    If this is already talked about sorry about that.
    I've only been on SM for about 2 months now and i like it. I get some good customers who give me there email
    but i don't take it down b/c i don't want to get into trouble. I wouldn't try to redirect them anywhere or anything
    like that but is it o.k to take it down and keep in touch with them outside of SM just to tell them when im going
    online and what not. I've had a handful of good ones that i'd lke to keep in touch with but i don't know I'm nervous
    i don't want to break and rules on there. How strict are they? Thanks a bunch! Have a good Weekend Everyone.

    SM is pretty strict. I know that some models put in their room topics that x amount of GOLD will get the guy a video download link, and they say that the guy MUST message her via her SM inbox to get it. The model then replies to his message by pasting the link to her video.

    I'm not sure if that's even allowed either, but I see tons of SM models doing it all the time. They do the same thing with pictures too...they tell guys that x gold will get them a picture set or something like that.

    It should be easy for the guy to find you on Twitter if your Twitter name is the same as your SM screen name. But since SM is so damn strict, I don't know if you're even allowed to say the word 'Twitter' in public chat...smh. If it was me, I would just say something like "You can follow me on that social networking site that rhymes with 'bitter' and has a bird logo." LOL.
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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    I've had guys send me their personal emails and phone numbers through SM (unsolicited) for over two years and never got into any trouble ove it. I never report those messages or reply to them, I just ignore them. If you choose to email a guy from your own email address there's nothing SM can do about it because they'd have no way of knowing.

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    someone told me that if u ignore the messages with the info in them that they could ban/suspend you for that, even tho it is unsolicited. i had ignored the messages for over a year! and never once got into trouble for it but i am doing it now since there is always a first time for everything. just another way to cover ur ass. tell them to google you or put ur cam name in ur feed, if they really wanna contact you offsite it isn't hard at all to do.

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    I'm not really working on SM anymore so they can close my account for all I care but you're right, it is super easy for customers to find you off-site if they want to. Assuming, of course, that you want to be found. I just googled my model name which I use on every site I'm on (except MGF), and the very first result is my twitter. If I can do it a dedicated customer certainly can

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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    What happens if you get caught contacting someone out side of SM? Do you get like fired permanently or just get a 3 day ban?

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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    Like with anything else it would depend on who you are. In an ideal world the same rules would apply to everybody, but they dont. So you might get a 3 day ban, a week ban or a perma ban.

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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    SM are pretty strict on no outside contact, but some guys will send you their e-mail addresses. In those cases, if you want to talk to them outside the site, you can do it from your personal e-mail to theirs. If you really want to, you can report the SM e-mail to cover your ass, but I've never had a problem.

    If they give you their e-mail in a chat session, I would probably write it down, but say that they should just e-mail me through the site.

    Twitter is best for updating guys on show times and when you are on - after all, they may not want to be deluged with daily e-mails about you going online! You CANNOT mention twitter in your chat - what I usually say is that "everything I do is under this name, just search for me!"

    In terms of getting caught - the only way that you would get caught (other than replying to SM e-mails with your e-mail addy, or talking about it in free chat or something) is if the guy that you were e-mailing reported it to SM. Not likely, but if you were caught, you are likely to get in a LOT of trouble. For that reason, I am fairly hesitant to e-mail people.

    Usually I expect them to find me on twitter, and then we communicate there, or I just talk to them via the SM e-mail. The only real reason to e-mail someone separately is in order to get money from them directly, and usually, I just don't think that it is worth the risk. If someone wants to buy used underwear or something, they can do that through twitter (and if they can't find my twitter, they're probably too dumb to figure out how to send me the money!), same with sending tributes, finding my wishlist, etc etc. Most guys who e-mail might get one skype show, and the extra $20-30 I would make by doing it outside of the site isn't worth the risk of being banned.
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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    lol i just make light of it and put it in code type "hints"...hmm ive never had a issue doing it that way hahaha......which is kinda surprising
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    Default Re: contacting members outside of SM

    Thanks Everyone, This was really Helpful After i looked over the F.A.Q i figured they were strict but wasn't sure if they actually enforced there rules. Yah im not trying to take anyone away from there site or anything like that i just think that good customers would feel "Special" if they got an email cause i have had guys just give it to me while in pvt and i've thought of writing it down just never have. But ur right if there that great and dedicated they can find me on Twitter or get my email else where from my Fanclub. Thanks so much! Oh and about the panty sales thanks for that too b/c i was unsure of that and how i should go about that.
    Hope everyone has a Great day! And Thanks Again!

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