I'm new to escorting and last night I went to an outcall, we spent about ten minutes talking and had just started kissing, and then the client said he couldn't go through with it and asked me to leave. He gave me $50, which was technically enough to cover ten minutes of my hourly rate, but I still felt ripped off because I'd invested kind of a lot of time into getting ready and transportation to and from his place. He said it was because our energy wasn't right. It kinda seems like bullshit, but at the same time I know that everyone has the right to withdraw their consent, and I don't want to force anyone into having sex that they don't want. I also realize that I made a mistake by not getting the money upfront (this was the first time it hasn't been laid out in plain view or just handed to me as soon as I arrived, and I was trying to figure out how to bring it up gracefully). I mean, I would've negotiated with him and given back most of the money anyway (though I probably would've tried to keep more, maybe like $100), but I'm just saying the situation was kinda off from the start and I kind of think he had already decided that he didn't want to go through with it as soon as I arrived and that's why he didn't immediately pay me. There's a part of me that thinks he planned it this way all along (although I have no idea WHY he would want to spend $50 for ten minutes of conversation), because when he paid me the $50 he pulled it straight out of his pocket, he didn't have to separate it from the rest of the money.
ANYWAY. I'm just wondering how other ladies handle this kind of situation, so that I'm better prepared if it happens again.



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