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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    Quote Originally Posted by Jemmalyn View Post
    I personally don't ..and when they ask. what do you think? sometimes they look good though...mostly no.
    Haha I make them pay me tokens for it if I do it!

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    I think for me it depends. Like I've had times where I enjoyed the interaction.....and other times not so much. Typically the ones I don't like are the ones who want me to worship their penis, describe it and tell them how big it is. It's a personal preference...but I'm not a fan of an overly large penis. I would prefer to see a penis hard when someone is super excited...not semi-hard, semi-soft. But hey, he's paying....so afterall, I can make him feel like it's the next best thing since sloppy joes!

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    personally for me i ask for them to cam2cam with me. I have this weird obsession/fear that its someone i know or they are recording me and by seeing whos on the other side makes me feel a little bit better. Even though recording could be inevitable, i can see if they are acting shifty clicking alot asking me to show my face more. -__- paranoid one <--------

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    I don't really mind c2c. I feel like the c2c guys stay longer, because I talk about their dick and how much it "turns me on". It gives them a bit of an ego boost, I think.

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    Quote Originally Posted by GaPeach View Post
    Oh yeah and I also don't like the guys who DON'T jerk off while doing C2C. They just stare lol. I had this one guy on C2C and he looked sooooo depressed, me and my BF couldn't stop laughing about it. I mean I did a good show and everything but it almost looked like he lost his spouse and was mad that he had to resort to camming lol.
    LMAO!

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    Thank you for this thread! It was my first night on MFC last night and atleast 5 men popped up asking me if I wanted to see there ''big hard cocks'' and I was like errrrrr never red up on this while I was searching SW! ... Not tonight thanks!

    Now I know what to do! Thanks x

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    I dont mind it either as long as they pay because camming is all about "real human interaction" (even tho most guys treat us like cattle and dont think they should pay for what we do and think were noting more then cyber-prostitutes) . I just get so annoyed at the guys in free working token sites (chaturbate and MFC) who ask me to look at theyre cam and its always the grays on CB or the basics on MFC. When they pay i can understand the C2C but its still a mystery to me why guys think we would want to look at them jizzing off for free.
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    Yes, sex sells, but it sure as hell doesn't sell itself!
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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    I just avert my eyes! On cams.com I told all the guys I liked watching. Even if no one felt like going private I could make 2-4 a minute in free "watching" their cams. If I don't get paid to do it though... no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigNerd View Post
    Lol. Now you have me wishing that SM had that. At least twice a night I get guys who beg me to check my inbox RIGHT NOW!!!! I refuse to do it, because it keeps me from looking at my notes, but at the end of every shift I have an inbox full of dicks.

    I asked my room once how they would feel if they got constant, unsolicited close-ups of vaginas. They of course said they would love it (if the girl were hot). I explained that you wouldn't know if the owners of the vaginas were cute or fugly, sweet or uber bitches. I feel like we made some real breakthroughs that day, and I didn't get quite as many cock shots.
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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    I don't mind looking as long as it's in paid chat. I've never seen a custy that made my eyes bleed. They've mainly been very attractive (some face, some faceless) with nice bodies and very well hung hehe. I get a lot of requests for jerk off instructions so I absolutely have to look at them anyway and I've been pleased so far.

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    So when they send you a message asking if you want to see them jerking off..... whats your reply?

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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    if its a token based site (i use mfc and cb) that has pvt i tell them 40 tokens a min or in pvt. most of the guys that ask this have no money its one of those ways u say yes without saying no. of course if a guy does say ok (witch has never happened to me) then i will do it
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    You're a sip of fine champagne darling, and the guys who deserve to taste you should be able to buy the whole glass.


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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    Cams are good! Not only does it give you something to talk about/say it you can also act like its the most delicious looking thing you've ever seen in your life. they like that haha!
    Never regret.

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    Yes I do that!Act like I'm sooooo impressed and would just love to get my mouth around it. All the time I'm almost cursing myself for even pretending haha.
    Guys think we have a clitoris down our throat, I'm sure of it the amount of guys who say 'You'd love my cock-you'd love to be sucking on this big hard beast wouldn't you!"!!
    Er, no-actually I'd love you to stay in private chat a bit longer so my bank account looks as good as you think your cock looks, but I'm not going to say that-kind of a mood-killer!xx
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    Holy shit dude! You look fucking awesome! Get a damn boob job..
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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    I actually prefer cam-to-cam and always try and convince the guy (and the occasional girl) on the other end to turn theirs on.

    A) It's more personal--you get to see the person, and therefore makes the experience better for the custie. It doesn't matter if they have an elephant cock or it's itty-bitty, or they're gorgeous or flat out ugly. I don't judge, they can't help how they were born, and no matter what you look like or how big your package is, getting off is just as fun for anyone. And my guys know that's how I am... they can just be themselves and have fun with the confidence--which is a big thing, because a lot of these guys lack confidence anyway. I like to let them feel like at least in one part of their day, they can breakout of their shell and feel wanted and unashamed.

    B) It helps me get off--I'm pretty sexually charged in real life, so it makes my own orgasm easier to attain. I'm kind of a voyeur anyway as the attention is fun and exciting for me.

    C) It tells me how well I'm doing--a guy typing, "you are sexy BB" is okay, but hearing it in their voice, "oh yeah baby, like that... oh God you are so sexy!" tells me a lot more, and therefore I know when to change things up or if they are really getting into what I am doing. When they have their cam off, I have no idea if I should slow down, speed up.. hold back my own orgasm, or let it fly?

    D) My entertainment--yes, their cam can often be very entertaining. Fetishes and behaviors I never would have known were real until I see a guy do it on cam. I have very few no-no's in my privates and guys' taboo fantasies are actually pretty entertaining to watch. I mean, sometimes I'm really like.. oh please don't stop, because I want to see if you will really do it. LOL. Every time I think I've seen it all, something new and strange happens in the next session.

    E) Role plays--I do a lot of these, and it's kinda my forte... and is really difficult to do without being able to see them interact with what I'm doing. I can make it much more real if we both have our cams on.

    F) Guys have alternatives--aside from the fact there are 10's of thousands of girls online competing for the same customer base, there are other options out there for the guys too. Free porn, massage parlors, escorts, strip clubs.. etc. I have to make my interaction with them as real and authentic as possible because I want them to come back. I don't want to be their training ground to build up the courage to go to a parlor or escort. I want them to be satisfied with me and keep coming back for years to come.

    G) The revelation of who's on the other side of that cam--aside from the fact it makes it more real, here and there I've had guys claim to be someone famous or well known (and of course, I'm like. BULLSHIT) and the camera comes on and low and behold, it really is that person! And let me tell ya something, I'd never reveal a persons activities (attached with their real identity at least)--and they know it, and that's why they come back. I don't care if I was offered $10-million to reveal an identity, I wouldn't do it. I truly believe if you make a bond and promise with someone, you should stick to it no matter what the costs or benefits of doing such might lead to. I think it's pretty cool too that they put that kind of trust in me... it's kinda cool having that trust relationship with someone else.

    H) It's not always about cyber-sex--often for me, it leads to a pseudo-friendship online. I might do a 1-hour sexually charged cam show with a guy, but often enough that guy has come back another 10 times and paid to just talk to me. Not about "hey bb, do you think we could hook up in real life" but about how their day is.. or tell me about their sick mother and the grief they feel over it.. or just advice on how to pickup women, etc.

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    I get 7 out of 10 guys are are absolutely gorgeous. I think to myself - THIS GUY is paying ME!!! I beg them to c2c. If i do not like what I see I don;t look, but most times i am drooling!!!

    Besides, it puts my mind at ease knowing the person is not someone I know so I relax.

    I will only be dom if they have a cam so i know they are doing what I told them to do.
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    Default Re: Why do men think we like looking at their cam??

    No offense to anyone but I am surprised that anyone in this industry would not know the answer to the question that's the title of this thread. Maybe it's because I'm older and more interested in researching that I get it? At any rate, it pays to understand what makes your clients tick sexuality. The information is out there.

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