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    Default Burnt out? Stressful few home weeks not helping?What's wrong with me?!

    The last couple of weeks have been bad for me. I work Thursday, Friday and Saturday night, usually one club on a Thurs, then different one the weekend nights.
    Thursday is my 'extra pocket money' night. I used to only do two nights and was not often a top earner, but I wasn't far off or at least in the middle somewhere. Thursday I would make perhaps an extra £100 or £150 , which to say it's only a four hour night, just a bit of a bonus night for me-if I wasn't at work I would just be doing nowt or out spending, so it was a good bit of extra money.


    But recently, my Fri and Sat club, I've done CRAP. And other girls have made money. I come out with £100 or £120 or something and other girls are doing £400.


    I don't know why.I work, I'm not a mega hustler but I do work at it, tonight I worked hard yet the girl who takes me home made three times as much .
    She's a lot more 'average' looking than I am, and hasn't been a stripper for long.
    I don't get it-I feel like crap!She told me she just got lucky and had a couple of regulars in, and I didn't.Perhaps I've just been unlucky.But I need to up my technique before I throw myself on the scrapheap!
    I'm working somewhere else next weekend.


    I'm thinking maybes I need to totally change my stripper persona? Maybe I am too chilled at it, been doing it a long time on and off and got complacent and aren't attractive and alluring because of this.Ugh I don't know, anybody else felt like this?
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    Default Re: Burnt out? Stressful few home weeks not helping?What's wrong with me?!

    You mention stressful weeks at home in your title but don't elaborate in the post... but if you're stressed about something maybe that could be part of it? I know when I'm stressed out/ thinking about something and not fully present while at work I do much worse than normal, both because customers can subtly tell I'm not paying attention to them while we're talking, and because I'm not focused on scoping the crowd, picking the best targets, etc.

    Maybe you really just aren't vibing with your main club right now though. It sounds like you have quite a few clubs to choose from in your area so rather than change your whole persona (which will require even more energy and attention to remember who your new stripper-self is) why not just bounce around until you find someplace where you click better at the present time?

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    Default Re: Burnt out? Stressful few home weeks not helping?What's wrong with me?!

    Sorry I thought I had replied, well no I KNOW I had replied but my net connection here is crap so I must have not noticed it didn't go through. Ugh, sorry.
    Yes I've just had a really stressy period at home, had a flood in the middle of moving house and it too over three months to sort out. I was originally going to take this weekend off but didn't wish I had now. It's a good idea, I am trying a different club this coming weekend.Thanks for reply hun!
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