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    I am going crazy here in Columbus smh. I miss dancing and I'd like to find a club near(Mobile, Dothan, Bham) here but my SO doesn't want me to strip anymore =/. I finally have my degree but since I relocated to Columbus I haven't been able to secure a job in my field (urban planning &GIS), I just feel like
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    So sorry you aren't happy. The picture is funny though!

    What is GIS? I did commercial real estate site planning for years, but I was very foolish and didn't charge enough for the work I was doing.

    I could move this to Life Support if you want, but it's not vitally necessary if you don't want it moved.
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    Geographic information systems (programs like ESRI's ArcMap, ect)

    I was thinking about just volunteering my time with the city's planning dept and dancing on the side(if I can convince my SO to give in) until I get an offer in my field...although I don't think that's going to happen in a small town like this.
    Before I left phx I was dancing and I had a paid internship with a city I was doing the damn thing. Now I just feel like.....bored. I digress...



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    So sorry you aren't happy. The picture is funny though!

    What is GIS? I did commercial real estate site planning for years, but I was very foolish and didn't charge enough for the work I was doing.

    I could move this to Life Support if you want, but it's not vitally necessary if you don't want it moved.

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    OMG! I do GIS too! Talk about a conversation stopper in bars. I 'm sorry to hear that anyone lives in Columbus though. I hated that place for the one night i spent there.

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    Sounds like the real employer you need is the Federal Government. Ft. Benning is close.

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    Hurrah! another GIS nerd =)
    Yes it certainly is a convo stopper lol

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    OMG! I do GIS too! Talk about a conversation stopper in bars. I 'm sorry to hear that anyone lives in Columbus though. I hated that place for the one night i spent there.

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    The mark of a true GIS nerd is rolling around on the floor laughing at this:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0b04pKO_698

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    I am a believer in putting yourself first. You don't want to resent him later, do you? What sacrifices has he made? Is he your boyfriend or husband? Can you compromise?

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    "F*ck those bozos at ESRI's support tech support!" , lmao! I cant even....lol

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    married, trying to work things out. Which is why I moved out this way to give things one last shot

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    I am a believer in putting yourself first. You don't want to resent him later, do you? What sacrifices has he made? Is he your boyfriend or husband? Can you compromise?

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    I say dance if you want to dance. If you're trying to work things out he needs to be trying, too, and that means accepting you as you are. If he can't do that, it's probably not gonna work out anyway and when it doesn't, you're just going to be madder if you gave up something you love for him. Besides, if it doesn't work out, the last thing you're going to want is to be pressed for money while you're trying to leave... and maybe at least part of what he doesn't like about dancing is the independence it gives you, the money and flexibility that make it possible for you to up and leave at any time? I say dance because you're bored and you miss it, but also because it will allow you to save up so if/when you decide to bounce and go to a city with more career opportunities for your degree, you will have a nice little stash to tide you over...

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    Exactly. I dont want carry-on as if I am expecting this to fail but I like to have reassurance in case things do take a turn.


    Quote Originally Posted by Joanna_Kaary View Post
    I say dance if you want to dance. If you're trying to work things out he needs to be trying, too, and that means accepting you as you are. If he can't do that, it's probably not gonna work out anyway and when it doesn't, you're just going to be madder if you gave up something you love for him. Besides, if it doesn't work out, the last thing you're going to want is to be pressed for money while you're trying to leave... and maybe at least part of what he doesn't like about dancing is the independence it gives you, the money and flexibility that make it possible for you to up and leave at any time? I say dance because you're bored and you miss it, but also because it will allow you to save up so if/when you decide to bounce and go to a city with more career opportunities for your degree, you will have a nice little stash to tide you over...

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    If you were happy and in a stable relationship, you wouldn't be planning out plan B. Also, I see keywords like "One last shot..." and "just in case..." Are you trying to force a puzzle piece in a place that doesn't fit? IMO, that means you're unhappy. I think you can do much better. If you be yourself and live your life, you will find someone who will suit your lifestyle and love you for who you are. When I started doing that myself, I found the love of my life. Be free, girl. We only live once, take advantage of your sexual self now, dance before you get too old to do it. You may love this guy and made a commitment but that doesn't mean you're obligated to do anything. Relationships are suppose to make you feel complete, not as if you're missing something.

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    Just want to say my 2 cents. It's my first post and I have my flame suit on. I been to Columbus once on a business trip, not what you would call a happening place. However it is a growing town/city/community. Overtime it will develop in more happening place and there will be more things to do etc. So over the next 5 or so years it probably will grow, opportunities will open and so on.

    As for the marriage aspect of things, this is a tough one and I will disagree with some of the feedback. I think you should try to work things out. This is base on my beliefs and many and possibly you will disagree but to me marriage is a sacred and it should be taken seriously. It's easy to say that's it split the household net worth and be done with it, too many people do that. Having said that you moved to Columbus to try and work things out seems to me that you are trying to get thing worked out. Keep the communications between the two of you open and see where that goes.
    I am in similar situation also having difficult time making my marriage work but we are at it day at a time and committed to make it work. We are taking small steps ahead but I think we will make it work.

    As last words good luck on whatever path you choose.

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