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    Default I have horrible timing on weekends.

    So I seem to go up to guys a lot who say they just got there... a lot of times I'll say "well, I'm so and so, It's nice to meet you. I'll let you get settled. Enjoy my stage set, and I hope to spend some time with you a little later." This is after we've chatted for a few and they outwardly say they're not ready yet and I didn't even ask for a dance. 5-10 minutes later a girl sits down and gets the guy to go back for a dance. I know this has nothing to do with my looks, since I've been told I'm one of the hottest girls at my club. Would it be in my best interest to stay and chat with the guy for a little bit?.... I literally mad nothing last night until 10pm...maybe not sitting longer with the guys is what did it. I do great on the slow weeknights. I can make anywhere from 400-600. Last night I had to work ten hours just to come out with $430. i know that some of it has to do with me not normally working weekends, so I can't spot the regulars that spend money as well. I think I come across as a bit more anxious for a dance too since there are more people/dancers....lots of competition. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: I have horrible timing on weekends.

    There are multiple reasons for this happening and a few ways to overcome them:

    1. They literally did just get there and just got their drink. The extra 5-10 minutes before the other girl approaches really can make a big difference. Timing can be a bitch sometimes. Try and keep an eye on all the customers so you know if they were just handed a drink by the waitress and therefore it's a bit too early to approach. This can be hard when it's busy or you just got out of the back/DR, but I think your strategy of introducing yourself anyway is good. Maybe shorten your spiel and just say "Alrighty, well I'm so-and-so, did you want me to check on your later?" This will let you know if they just have no interest in you or if you've got a shot later. Gauge their tone and body language, not just their verbal response. Follow up after a couple of songs. Sad truth is that another girl might get to them before you get the chance to.

    2. They have their eye on a different girl/are her regular and just don't want to say that. If they don't offer up this information, I usually ask if they're waiting on someone, just to know if I should spend some more time/effort on them. If they're not waiting, ""Alrighty, well I'm so-and-so, did you want me to check on your later?"

    3. You aren't their type. Just because you're one of the hottest girls at your club, doesn't mean everyone is going to think that or want dances. Don't take it personally or think that it makes you any less hot though. Confidence is so key in this business!

    Re: Should you stay and chat with them. What are customers saying to you when you approach them? How are they saying it? If they come off as irritated by your approach, it's best to keep your introduction short and sweet and tell them to come find you later when they're ready to have some fun. If they seem nervous and shy, ask if they want some company anyway. There's a few posts on rebuttals to "I just got here/want to settle in", such as "I'm here to settle you in!" or "I'll warm you up!" or "Gee, if you really wanted to be alone, you wouldn't be here, right?" As an alternative, you could forego the pleasantries and cheerily comment, "Looks like you could use some company!" and plop down next to them to start your hustle. I'm not a huge fan of this approach since it can be a waste of time, but it's worth a shot when you're just not getting any bites and your timing is off! Besides, different things work in different clubs.

    It can be hard to not get anxious when you're not making money and competition is fierce, and even harder to not let that show. Try and think of it as a game: each no brings you that much closer to a yes. Sometimes it takes a while to get the ball rolling, and that's okay. There's also something to be said for knowing which crowd works best for you. Personally, I do better during slower shifts. I hate the weekend night crowd, and don't do that well with them anyway. Instead of forcing myself to work those shifts, I stick with the ones I know I'm good at!

    Also, if at all possible, work regularly - even if it's just one consistent shift a week and all the others are random - as that'll not only help you identify other girls' regulars or useless club regulars who just come in for drinks, but it'll make it easier for you to get your own regulars so you don't have to hustle new customers as much.

    Good luck!!

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