So I seem to go up to guys a lot who say they just got there... a lot of times I'll say "well, I'm so and so, It's nice to meet you. I'll let you get settled. Enjoy my stage set, and I hope to spend some time with you a little later." This is after we've chatted for a few and they outwardly say they're not ready yet and I didn't even ask for a dance. 5-10 minutes later a girl sits down and gets the guy to go back for a dance. I know this has nothing to do with my looks, since I've been told I'm one of the hottest girls at my club. Would it be in my best interest to stay and chat with the guy for a little bit?.... I literally mad nothing last night until 10pm...maybe not sitting longer with the guys is what did it. I do great on the slow weeknights. I can make anywhere from 400-600. Last night I had to work ten hours just to come out with $430. i know that some of it has to do with me not normally working weekends, so I can't spot the regulars that spend money as well. I think I come across as a bit more anxious for a dance too since there are more people/dancers....lots of competition. Any thoughts?



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