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    Hi my name is Nikki. I just started camming on livejasmin and waiting for approval from other sites. The reason I started this thread is because I was on livejasmin today and someone took me pvt he was saying stuff like your dirty and other stuff similar to that. At first I thought he was just trying to talk dirty but then he started saying how he didn't like my face and has anyone ever put their hand over my face while fing me. I thought it was rude and didn't like being disrespected like that and I stopped the show.

    Do any of you ladies think I was wrong for stopping the show? I don't know what to think mostly everyone else is really nice in pvt and free chat.

    Im also hoping to start somewhere else soon, because livejasmin has not been working for me ever since the .98 cents a min promo is done.

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    Personally I would have just played along, since he's paying and talking that way may have been what he's into... although he should have told you beforehand.

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    I would have played along the whole time thinking "I'm so damn ugly he choose me to pay to jerk to".

    If he's paying you he must not REALLY find you ugly and even if someone's just sticking around your free chat being an ass (until you quickly block them) there must be a reason. If a guy finds a girl unattractive on these sites he knows how to move on to the next one and hopefully he will find her more attractive. Because he not only didn't move on but he also PAID you, I must conclude he found you not only "not ugly" but "attractive".
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    Thank you ladies. This helps alot.

    By the way I love this site, so much great advice here.

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    If the show made you feel uncomfortable then you were right to stop the show.

    I fuck myself on cam but I would never let a guy talk to me that way....It just turns me off and pisses me off.... I don't care if they are paying. Its not for me.

    You will be much happier with camming in the long run if you know your limits and stick to them.

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    I agree with aven - if it was upsetting you, you should absolutely stop the show.

    For the most part, I will play along with things like that (if I get the feeling that it is a turn on for them) or just laugh and keep goading them so that they keep spending money to insult me. I've got fairly thick skin, so it really doesn't bother me too much.

    But sometimes, there will just be something about a guy that really starts to rub me the wrong way or upset me, and if I feel it getting to me, I will stop the show. The way I see it, the money that I might lose out on by stopping a bad show isn't worth losing the rest of my money for the whole day because I'm too upset to keep camming. It's very rare though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by nikki187 View Post
    Do any of you ladies think I was wrong for stopping the show? I don't know what to think mostly everyone else is really nice in pvt and free chat.
    You're NEVER wrong for stopping a show. It's YOUR room. No one else can tell you what you should tolerate. It's all up to you, darlin'. That's why I love this job.

    Keep your chin up

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    OP, welcome to camming world. The worst has yet to come.

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    I wanted to post again and say previous posters are totally correct. If you weren't comfortable with the show you were SO RIGHT in ending it. Because I would have done one thing means nothing. You were right in keeping to your boundaries and I'm very sorry that you had them pushed in that way.
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    No, I don't think you were wrong for stopping the show. It's always nice to know ahead of time if someone has a particular fetish, but sometimes they just spring it on you. If your new to camming I could see how this would be shocking, but trust me it gets worst....What you have to do now is decide what your boundries are. There are some things I won't do no matter what amount of money I'm getting paid. It's different for everyone, but don't ever think you have to stay in a situation that's making you uncomfortable. The great thing about camming is that you have the choice to decide what you want to participate in and what you don't. The fun thing about camming is you really do get to experiment with all sorts of fetishes, etc...some you may like, others not so much. In a few months you may find the same things that used to offend you no longer do. The point is there is no right or wrong way to handle the situation, do what makes you feel comfortable and you will be a happy camgirl

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    If you're getting pissed with how a customer is acting or what they're saying, you could do what I do: I don't sign out of the show, I just stop all action, move the camera so they can only see my face and then stare at them until they leave.

    I used to quit the show and ban them because I was worried about getting a bad rating (don't know why, I have enough 5star ratings that one bad one won't make a difference), but after I found out that they can still rate me after I've banned them, I just started wasting their time until they leave on their own accord.

    It amuses me. But if you think that even staying in the room another minute longer with them is going to effect your mood for the rest of your shift then by all means, stop the show. Never let them fuck with your money!
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    You are not wrong at all for stopping the show when it made you uncomfortable. Welcome to the mad house that is camming!
    Here are a couple of threads that might help you think about and establish your boundaries, and what kinds of requests or other weirdness you'll probably run in to:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...?175790-Limits
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...e-heard-on-cam


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    I had someone do that once. Wish he would do it again. I banked off of his ass. I laughed at him so hard & told him yet your paying me $6.99 per minute even though you hate my fat ass. Ended up making $100 off of him. All I did was piss him off more & more.

    Learn how to flip the script on them.
    Some guys don't want the sweet girl no matter what, some love a bitch & will spend even more if you don't tolerate their bad behavior & tell them off.


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    It is all about the money. I could care less what someone is saying. I had some guy asking me if my father ever molested me so I made up a story to keep him in session. He kept asking, for real or fantasy? And I was like, no... this totally happened as I show him how my father raped my face. It is like faking an orgasm or wearing makeup. Guys will say, "I only like naturally pretty girls who don't wear makeup." But they will choose a well done-up girl every time over a naturally pretty girl with no makeup on. Guys hate the idea of a faked orgasm, but in real life they hate it more when you don't trick them into thinking you had one. This creep didn't want me to lie to him, but he was desperate to hear about me being abused by my own father because it turns him on. Camming has confirmed all my suspicions of men.

    And if the guy you are seeing finds out you are camming he will think that you are nothing but a cock-craving whore who only wants sex. No baby... don't think of me or treat me like a person. Please don't take me out to dinner or a movie or for a walk. Just pull me out from under your bed and inflate me because that is all I am. And I thought stripping was bad.

    Sorry, been a rough two weeks.

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    myself, I don't put up with that. once someone started acting like that during a show so I told him what piece of shit he was right back, and how anyone that was with him obviously had no self esteem. he ended the show, and I've always made it totally clear, that disrespect and insults in my room are never tolorated. that they shojuld also realize that respect and courtesy will get them places too.

    then I tell them to worship the goddess's ass. ie my ass!

    I figure that if you do all you can to make sure yu don't get a rep for being a target for that behavior the better off you are. might be tempting to suck it up for the money, but I really do think my way pays off in the end. If I wanted to take that abuse, I would have stayed in customer service and took people's crap for not getting their computer paper on time!

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    I swear I had that guy on LJ. He was an asshole and insulted my face, wanted me to put a pillowcase over my head and fuck myself, told me that I was just a dirty slut. Lol, I got fifty bucks out of him. I just refused to degrade myself, he wasted his money getting mad over me not doing certain shit.

    You should never cross your boundaries imho. There are plenty of men that will spend money, no need to grovel to some asshole for a couple twenties.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Your Evil Twin View Post
    I had some guy asking me if my father ever molested me so I made up a story to keep him in session. He kept asking, for real or fantasy? And I was like, no... this totally happened as I show him how my father raped my face. It is like faking an orgasm or wearing makeup.
    Whoa I fake things and I do lie often in private but this is too much for me. I mean Idk anything about your ties to your family, but shit.. I would never ever make my father look like a disgusting pervert for a few dollars.. And keeping in mind we can easily be recorded... I think you should rethink things you do or say from this angle of view as well, if you didn't so far.

    On the topic, I do ban in the middle of private too. After the first I was somewhat nervous for banning in a show, but I don't care anymore. Not like I'm doing in too often, but when I have an idiot yelling at me after politely explaining him that I'm not into some stuff and I have it on my profile, or I'm not into some stuff besides those aren't even allowed on the site, but he still runs on with the "PUT IN YO ASS EVERYTHING YO FIND BB, PEE, POO, VOMIT, SAY YOU ARE 14" I'm just like, oh yea, of course and I ban him. I could keep him around but for a few minutes arguing about not doing it, but well, I don't wanna get pissed because of him, and most likely he'd just leave with a bad rating and comment, so I just get rid of him. I know those ratings can be removed, but it still fucks up my whole day so it isn't really worth it for me.

    This is why I love when I'm on SM, some other sites don't even have the option to ban, or they do have it, but if you use it just in free chat, so nothing horrible, but the support will get all butt-hurt, and QQ about you should stop banning potential customers just be nice to them etc. Oh come on where do I find the Ban Support button?

    Edit: @Dahlia STILL can rate you if you ban them? Good to know!
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    I was asked something similar a few months ago. The man didn't say anything in free chat ahead of time, but in pvt said I was too ugly for this job or something like that, and asked if I have ever or would wear a paper bag on my head. I pretended to ponder it before smiling happily, "Nope!" Wasn't a long pvt but every second made him a little more poor.

    Yet I felt a little bad about it after he left, since he didn't get what he wanted. It was funny at first but then I thought, isn't this ultimate customer service, shouldn't I "go with the flow" and play along to please them? I used to feel almost guilty when I'd say no anal, but after reading these boards the past few days I'm starting to break some bad habits I didn't even know I had. Less of a slave more of a... business woman sounds better but hustler sounds cooler lol

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    Yes SabrinaGrrl I think it was the same guy. He kept saying how I was a dirty slut and my body is killer but not face. LOL

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    Personally I would have said gtfo.

    BUT these kind of guys exist and they have a "fetish" for telling PRETTY girls that are out of their league that they're ugly or good for nothing.
    It gives them a kick or a rush from seeming desirable in their head if they could tell a pretty girl off, which in real life you'd be way out of his league and this asshole is aware of that.

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    this is what it means to take camming personal.
    Dont take camming personal.
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