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    Hey All,

    So i've been lurking here a while and decided to grow a pair and get on cam yesterday. First hour I made $40 - not bad for a first go, I was playing all cute and "new girl" sort of thing.
    However tonight i get my ass on there ready to make some peas and there is noone on!!! - no pvts in 3 hours WTF?!!

    Besides from some dude who wouldnt take me private unless i had a black dude to come and give me one (yeh, i keep black guys in my bits and bobs drawer with spare fuses etc...) and then he just wouldnt bugger off! - i didnt want to kick him as i figure it could be bad for business if i ban the only poor sod in my room?!!

    What am I doing wrong guys? I chat, im happy, i talk, im pretty willing (aside from keeping my arse in tact) im alright in the looks department and have a fair pair of knockers...

    Does this happen to everyone?!!

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    Honey don't be scared--KICK HIM! Oh yeah, and ban him while you're at it. People who demand things before they take you private are generally trying to get their rocks off for free. Some days are slower than others. Just be cool, confident, and a saleswoman. You are selling yourself after all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by twistedprincess View Post
    Honey don't be scared--KICK HIM! Oh yeah, and ban him while you're at it. People who demand things before they take you private are generally trying to get their rocks off for free. Some days are slower than others. Just be cool, confident, and a saleswoman. You are selling yourself after all.
    It was just a slow day. Tomorrow will be better. And yes please kick him next time. If I'm sitting there making no money, I will kick my whole damn room out even if they're not saying anything. I have no use for broke people to just sit in my room staring at me. That's just annoying. You're there to make money. It is what it is. Anyway hope you have better luck tomorrow.

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    in the beginning you have to learn patience. if you have a night like that were you are not making money sometimes you need to just a walk off and take a breath and get back on later. just give it time and build up regs and you will make money and no time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyBlondeDD View Post
    First hour I made $40 - not bad for a first go, I was playing all cute and "new girl" sort of thing.
    However tonight i get my ass on there ready to make some peas and there is noone on!!! - no pvts in 3 hours WTF?!!

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    Thanks all, I will kick his ass next time I go on. Eurggh just such a waste of time! Think I'll give it another go today

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    I feel your frustrations, I tried kicking some guys out of my chatroom on naked who were just sitting there, I even emailed support and they said they will not ban guys who just sit there. And their kick button only silences them for a few mins.

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    I'm so glad I'm not the only one! This site is great! Gave me the nuts to actually try and start! Just wish I could have had at least a decent week before I get a slow day!!

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    sometimes it helps to be signed up on more than one site. if one is too slow for ur liking sign on to the other one and work it. you will have better days

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    thats the thing about camming somedays will be awesome u can earn from 200-whatever u like then u have those days were u wanna pull ur hair out cause u been on 3+ hours and made nothing. In this business its a hit or miss. be patient learn the best times for u to sign on stick to a schedual that is how u get regs. dont be afraid to kick or bann people. i have two rules in my room if ur not gonna talk u better fucking tip. ill normally let the guys that talk stay in my room for awhile cause they keep me talking and the room none boring which helps u get guys who tips. cause he wants to come in a room with no one talking its boring shes just sitting there. look like ur having fun dance or laugh smile dont just sit there. also dont be afraid to talk shit to the guys it makes them laugh and they like it. remember it is ur room u run it how u want. dont take shit from any guys. my rules are its not mcdonalds or burgerking u dont get it ur way till u pay. its not baskin robins either u dont get samples either!!!!!!no one can run ur room but u, choose ur schedual, find ur niche and stick to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyBlondeDD View Post
    Hey All,

    So i've been lurking here a while and decided to grow a pair and get on cam yesterday. First hour I made $40 - not bad for a first go, I was playing all cute and "new girl" sort of thing.
    However tonight i get my ass on there ready to make some peas and there is noone on!!! - no pvts in 3 hours WTF?!!

    Besides from some dude who wouldnt take me private unless i had a black dude to come and give me one (yeh, i keep black guys in my bits and bobs drawer with spare fuses etc...) and then he just wouldnt bugger off! - i didnt want to kick him as i figure it could be bad for business if i ban the only poor sod in my room?!!

    What am I doing wrong guys? I chat, im happy, i talk, im pretty willing (aside from keeping my arse in tact) im alright in the looks department and have a fair pair of knockers...

    Does this happen to everyone?!!
    Ive been lurking here for mths now,lol,but I too finally got the balls up to cam about a week or so ago.My first few nights were great as well and then I had the same exact thing happen to me.Everything just plummeted.Luckily,I had SW to turn to!I feel like I personally know all of these girls already since ive read sooooo much in the past few mths from them(and im sure that sounds creepy as hell but it is what it is)Anyways point being,Ive been trying many different angles and reading posts just like this one and doing whatever the vets have suggested.Its slowly but surely working,Im getting regs and even have a couple crushes/internet stalkers already lol Its been frustrating as hell at times but I just keep breathing,visualizing my success(Law of Attraction),centering myself and applying meditation techniques(they do wonders when youre frustrated),researching,trying all sorts of new things and suggestions etc all in the name of finding what works for me.I know everything ive said isnt exactly helpful but I wanted to let you know,youre not alone kid,youve got plenty of other chicks in the same boat as you but will will turn this motherfucker into a cruise ship by the end of it!I would have NEVER started camming if it werent for this site,this is by far one of the best forums out there period,hands down so turn to it for EVERYTHING,i know i surely do!I guess i should come out and say HAAAAAAAY LADIES!! New bitch on board!(like yall dont hear that 50 million xs a day lol) Sorry didnt mean to thread jack,continue on!

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    Last night was a terrible night for me. I was on almost four hours, only made thirty bucks and I logged off in disgust. Just remember that it's not a guarranteed thing, that some nights will suck and some will be great. Just keep logging in those hours and don't let your discouragement show! (good advice I got from someone on SW lol).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avamonet View Post
    Yes please kick him next time. If I'm sitting there making no money, I will kick my whole damn room out even if they're not saying anything. I have no use for broke people to just sit in my room staring at me. That's just annoying. You're there to make money. It is what it is.

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    Don't give up! There are just bad days.....Smile and show yourself as happy and sexy no matter what.

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    THanks ladies - you really are all bloody marvellous!
    Tive now got on streamate and seem to be doing a lot better!! Yippee!

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    It happens hun Monday night I only made £13 in 2 hours. Then the next night I done £100 in less time then I was on Monday. Don't let it get to you it happens to us all xxx

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    Whoa same here. Last night= nothing. I'm pregnant and I have nooo patience either LOL. I work late in Pacific time after 10pm and there never seems to be any traffic for me and I was logged in multiple sites! Is anyone on west coast time having the same problems? Debating if I should change what times I work.

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    Ok I used to cam full time over 3 years ago.... fuck it's been that long.

    Anyways, I was REALLY good at it and started off on imlive. I made bank. At least what I thought was bank every two weeks.
    I became indy and doubled my income.

    Then I became an escort making 300 an hour , then 400 an hour , then 450 an hour and dropped camming .. left my fan base and all.

    Then I tried FBSM charging $200/250 an hour for a massage and hj/cbj and thought omg this is the life. Totally spoiled.

    I got tired of the face to face interaction with men and decided to return to try camming again and honestly I commend anyone that can do this job without going nuts. I recently realized I cannot do it. Don't get me wrong just a few nights ago I made $240 on sw in a few hours (6 hrs). However, the next night it was a total fucking fail - I think I made $20 in two hours. I was totally bummed. A lot of you are used to the inconsistency but that alone would drive someone like me that's used to make guaranteed a few hundred dollars an hour nuts.

    Today I posted an ad for my massage work and made $400 in two hours and I swear I thought about all of you that have the patience to work on cam for hours. Seriously kudos... I can't do it. I will live vicariously through SarahTime and all the other sw top earners. I could work my ass off and make bank camming but I have no patience not even half of what you ladies have.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laydee89 View Post
    Whoa same here. Last night= nothing. I'm pregnant and I have nooo patience either LOL. I work late in Pacific time after 10pm and there never seems to be any traffic for me and I was logged in multiple sites! Is anyone on west coast time having the same problems? Debating if I should change what times I work.
    I work PST as well, but I find that my best hours are early in the day, like from 10-4. I am on AW and most of their customers are in the UK (and they are 8 hours ahead of us)

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    ^^^Ohh I see, Thank you so much for that information. Will definitely work around my schedule! :-)

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    Whoa same here. Last night= nothing. I'm pregnant and I have nooo patience either LOL. I work late in Pacific time after 10pm and there never seems to be any traffic for me and I was logged in multiple sites! Is anyone on west coast time having the same problems? Debating if I should change what times I work.
    I work PST on SM - I honestly don't see a major difference between day and night. It just depends on the day. For a while early mornings did well, then it was late nights, now I work noon-5 most days, and it's absolutely fine. Honestly, work the hours that you can fit easily into your schedule and be consistent with.
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