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    Lately I've been having trouble getting hour long VIPs. I stopped drinking at work so I'm less flirtatious than usual and probably not as fun. I still make money and usually get 3-4 VIPs per night but I miss selling back to back hours (which happens for me during high season).

    I'm ridiculously non-sexual. I don't flirt. I don't eluted to anything other than "having a good time" and I'm pretty sure I don't come off as being interested in anyone (because I mostly ignore what they are saying and smile and nod). I don't get personal with customers which seems to work better for them throwing down cash. I'm more of a "wanna dance" girl that will get a couple half hours but not large sums of money.

    I don't even know how to fake interest in people. I have a difficult time sitting with customers unless I genuinely get along with them (and in this case they always go for VIP) but I grow bored with people if we can't talk and end up just asking for a dance / 15 minutes VIP. Maybe if I had a more sexy appeal or personable I'd get more hours?

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    Default Re: Do guys like when girls act sexy?

    good question. i think it depends on your look and personality.

    i hate long platinum hair, fake boobs, and really curvy (but solid) body so i either make most of my money being sexy sultry vixen or silly funny blonde.

    i don't know what your look is, but it sounds like you could make a lot being sarcastic/witty/kind of funny but friendly bitchy. i've seen that work for a few girls.

    like when a guy is talking about something to you that you're not interested or don't care about, say something like "oooh that's nice. wish i cared more. how about we stop talking and do something more exciting like have you get me naked in VIP? if you can handle it."

    i've seen that work WONDERFULLY for girls who can pull it off. when i come in to work and i'm pissed off and a RAGING bitch for whatever reason that day that's what i do and typically it shocks the guys but intrigues them and they can't say no. they're used to girls wanting to flatter them all day, just treat them like really? i don't give a FUCK. why don't you impress me by getting me naked and THEN i'll see how i feel about you?! then they will feel like they want to prove themselves to you.

    sorry for long explanation, couldn't find a way to explain it without going in depth.

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    Default Re: Do guys like when girls act sexy?

    ^That's a pretty interesting technique that I'd like to try out one day!

    But back to the OP. If you can't feign interest in your customers and flirt at least a little bit, it's going to be hard to make money. Like, are you actually just sitting there and staring at them while they talk, barely contributing to the conversation? Body language is huge in flirting, so even if you can't muster up the strength to have a decent conversation, at least rest your hand on their thigh or back, play with their hair, touch their arm, etc., etc. It's not even sexual things, those are subtle but effective.

    Does the prospect of money really not encourage you to chat and flirt? It's not even about acting sexy, but just about holding up your end of the conversation and making the customer feel wanted. Put yourself in the customer's shoes: why would he want to drop tons of cash on a girl who can't even pretend to care about what he has to say, or even be a little flirtatious? That's why most dudes come to the club, and if that's something you just can't bring yourself to do, maybe you need a break to recharge. I know it's hard to adjust to dancing without drinking, but talking and flirting are such core aspects of the job. Bitchy stripper can work, sometimes, but most customers really just want a pretty girl to take an interest in them.

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: Do guys like when girls act sexy?

    Guys like it when girls act and ARE feminine. Which is in your body language, the way you talk, the way you walk, your mannerisms, etc...

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    Default Re: Do guys like when girls act sexy?

    What if you tried seeing it as acting? Like, a whole different stripper persona? I find it works to pick an role and stick to it. Personally, what worked well for me was the fun flirty party girl. But that really depends of the atmosphere of the club where you work. That also helped me separating work to real life, and also helps with dealing with rejection from customers because it'S not really " you" they're saying no to, it's to your stripper persona. Maybe just try it one time and see if that would help!

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    Default Re: Do guys like when girls act sexy?

    try a different persona

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