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    I am looking for opinions on the best way to use the free messages (not paid messaging like LJ or MGF and the like). Currently on SM, I am trying to build close personal relationships with guys who message me (except for the ones who just send me a dick pic lol, I ignore them). I think it is working out pretty okay, I have one guy who I was going to start ignoring because I thought he was just a time waster, but he brought me into private for twenty mins just because I offhandedly mentioned I wanted to get off lol. I am just wondering, in the opinions of you more experienced cam girls, if I am shooting myself in the foot by talking to these guys too much for free. I feel like the more I get close to the lonely guys, the more they want to spend, but at the same I wonder if I am giving them conversation that they would have actually paid for if I had teased a bit more. Thoughts?

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    Personally I reply to all of my messages and talk to them a lot for free. But I think it's only building your business. Business building is ALL about networking, and I truly believe that's what we are doing.
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    Default Re: Private Messaging

    I reply messages, if they don't annoy me. But I don't send long messages to everyone. 1-2 lines, like when I'm gonna be online, bb. Exceptions are the lvl3 ones, for example now I skipped more than 4 weeks, and I did reply them with a few lines, letting them now why I'm not on, when I plan to be on, or how sexy tan lines I was getting on my vacation blablabla so they won't forget me, but I'm not even sure if that is needed at all.

    I don't really think it's necessary or good to build those "personal relationships" in free. It will lead to them sitting in your free chat for free, "getting to know you", before private and after private if they take you private at all, "just to talk", they will feel that they are entitled to your free attention yadayada. You should make them paying for "relationships".

    Also I noticed to much convo in free chat kills my room! So I decided not to talk that much in the hope of future private(s) with that one guy, because it drives other potential ones away.

    I didn't know how annoying it can be before I experienced it, and I also experienced that guys are willing to pay for those conversations in private. Since then I get really pissed with the guys who stick around after private "just looking at you since you are so cute" and trying to push for some conversation. I simply ignore them, but I would love to say, "dude pay or get lost already" However I might get to a point when I'll say it out loud...

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