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    sorry repost, see last post prior for another update
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    See, he keeps going back on his word by trying to get away with giving you $600 for dinner instead of $800 and changing his mind about giving you 10k a month. You shouldn't have to check every time he hands over an envelope to make sure it's the right amount. I mean, you should always check, but it shouldn't be because he has a tendency of giving you less. Tell him to pony up or stop wasting your time.

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    Ugh. It's time to pull back from this guy, and give him room to chase. If he's truly entranced, he'll soon enough be tripping on himself to give you whatever you want.

    I find it highly annoying that he so high and mighty about only giving his money to women for what he considers "worthy causes". I guess he's forgotten that getting his dick wet is the "worthy cause" from his side of the deal.

    I don't know who's contacting who to set up dates, initiating conversations, etc, but I'd pull waaaay back for now. Make it clear that all this negotiating for money talk is a major turnoff for you, and you're not the kind of woman who needs to make a big stink over what a man gives you. He'll either change his tune or he won't, but this just sounds like a lot of trouble to me. I don't know if you truly enjoy his company or not, but even if you do, this just sounds like too much work, and if it were me, I'd be thinking the whole time, dude, if you want to brag about being worth 10 million, either shower me with gifts, or move on. I'm not here to ooh and ahh over how successful you are.

    (Edit to say: I say all this as a the daughter of a man who has money, but has been stingy his entire life. He's way too much of a tightwad to have ever dated younger women and been a sugar daddy, but as his daughter, I've had the unfortunate experience of knowing what it's like to deal w/a man who has money, but will use any excuse to keep from having to part w/any of it, on anything *he* doesn't want to. I know it's best to just avoid this type if at all possible, because there *are* nice generous men out there. It can take time, but better to find one of those)

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    If he doesn't like giving money for time/affection then why is he shopping on a SD site? I will go against the majority here. I would explain to him that it is uncomfortable and tacky for you to have to keep reminding him of the arrangement.Tell him the arrangement needs to be adhered to so that you can concentrate on mesmerizing him. And , yes make yourself a little less available. Men who get everything they want tend to chase what they cant have. ( did anyone suggest reading Why Men Love Bitches in this thread? ) While you are being less available start cultivating another potential SD. I would continue to take the 800.00 per meeting ( 200 per hour for dinner is nice ). Try to get in his circle to open up other opportunities if possible ( club memberships etc.. )

    Littlemiss is correct in a lot of what she said - some wealthy guys are just stingy and weird--- one of my SD was taking me to a professional boxing match - he asked to pick up the ringside tickets which totaled $1400.00 - he was out of town -- I had gotten a lot of money , shopping, a summer on his yacht, and trips from him -- he always had a large amount of cash on his boat or in his car - i had to ask him for the money back and got it in 2 or 3 payments - really pissed me off that he put me in a position to ask - not once but twice - I explained how unfair it was of him to make me ask - it was like a power thing
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    Do you not know how to find other SDs? You are giving this person way too much of your time and energy....

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    *hits head against wall****
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    He's transferring money into your bank account? Why can't he just give you cash?

    More importantly: stop negotiating with this dude. He keeps bringing down how you're worth, and I bet this won't be the end of it either. If you're happy with 4k a meeting, take it and just get on with it. If you aren't, don't bother trying to negotiating because you're clearly not getting your way. Just email him something simple and to the point: after some consideration, you feel that your time is worth $x and are unimpressed with his constant negotiations and trying to lower your worth. He can either accept that or you can move on to bigger and better SDs.

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    It's hard to comment or give advice either way w/this, w/out knowing if you've given it up to him yet or not. If he's already getting sex each time you see each other, it's going to be much more difficult to negotiate at this point. Plus, I would think all this money talk is the anti-aphrodisiac. How are you supposed to show up for your dates being sexy and irresistible, if the last conversation you've had is arguing over the phone about an allowance? If you've already met a few times and he's gotten laid, you should have a nice sum of money in your hands, and your time chatting w/him should be you cooing to him about how sweet he is to you, and what a master of the universe he is. Not haggling.

    It just seems if this guy is really this wealthy, and he's serious about this, at this point you'd be happily shopping, and putting money in a safe deposit box . Something just sounds off.

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    I've had some SD/SB experience and these numbers sound really high to me. $10K per month? I don't think the amount relates to how much the guy makes. Most of these men are wealthy because they are wheeler-dealers. In my experience, there is an amount that a guy is willing to pay, not based on how it relates to the millions he makes annually. If this guy is willing to do $6K, I'd gladly take that.

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    So give us an update macy! whats new with the Sugar (splenda?) daddy? Inquiring minds need to know.. lol

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