Hello everyone,
I need some much needed advice.
Im thinking of becoming a stripper.
Im 21 years old, happily married, and I love dancing. Now there are a few reasons why Im thinking of becoming a stripper..
Me and my husband are currently living with my inlaws, due to we are dirt poor and so are they. My inlaws lost a major business recently and we are trying to help them out as much as we can even though we are pretty much poor aswell. Everyone in our household is having a very hard time finding a job right now especially where we live. Me and husband are the only ones who work fulltime though, but helping out the family has been a drain. My husband also goes to school ontop of work so we have many loans to pay off. We don’t blow our money, we have just came across many unexpected issues the past year that has taken a toll on money which we weren’t expecting…
Now, I can clearly say that I’ll never go to school. I want to more then anything, but we don’t and never will have the money. I know there are loans I can ask for but I cant (I just recently immigrated and was told I have to wait atleast 2 years to become a citizen and to get a loan) and I don’t want to wait 2 more years or so to do go to school. I want an education now. I want to take Biology, aswell as a course in cosmetology very bad. My own parents said they wont help me because they said they aren’t going to help unless I was to become a doctor…I want an education and career!
Me and my husband just have gone through a crazy amount of stress with money. We didn’t even get a nice wedding, we had it at the courthouse (we had to marry within a time frame due to immigration purposes, again because of immigration stuff I wont get into right now, too complicated). And as A girl I want a BIG and BEAUTIFUL wedding!!!
Me and my husband were planning to try and save up real big and its our goal to move to California within the next two years. We want out of our small town and want to live in the city!
With all this, I clearly can never see myself getting a great education, A beautiful wedding, being out of debt sooner then later, moving to a wonderful place….
I want to strip for a better life for me and my husband.Get out of debt because we have A LOT. I know there are OTHER ways of getting money, but the job pickings are super slim here, the pay is the lowest in the state. I just cant see us getting far and getting ahead working in a retail job. Plus, I cant STAND retail, working in retail is like the worst thing ever to me it really is. That’s why I want an education!
Now if I were to strip it wouldn’t be long term. I am told im ver pretty and I should model, so I have a lot of confidence!!! Im smart, im the kinda girl that’s going to put my hard earned cash towards school and SAVINGS!!! Im not looking to strip to buy luxury things. Ide be stripping to buy myself a great and happy future. I know stripping comes with flaws. Such as, people doing drugs/drinking, people trying to hook up with me, other girls getting mad on stage, people finding out etc.I dont think ide be offended if anyone I knew found out, i dont speak to my family (i wont get into that) so i wouldnt care, and I barely know anyone in this new state im living in.… Im a smart girl, I now when to get out of something and say no and leave. Ive never done drugs, smoked, nor never will.
Overall, im doing this for my future and husbands. I don’t think ill mind stripping, I LOVE dancing music and being sexy. I would do stripping if I weren’t married. That’s the only thing holding me back is telling my husband I want to do this and why…is this wrong of me to want to strip for these reasons? I love my husband more then anything in this entire world, I wouldnt never even think of cheating or doing anything to hurt him!!
I know stripping has alot of negative outlooks and positive....
Anyone have any advice for me about stripping? Good, bad? Maybe some help how I should tell my husband! Lol!
Thanks!!!!



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