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    Dizzy Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    I'm kind of new to all of this so I'm unsure. I don't want to feel like an idiot sitting with my hands over my boobs, waiting for that the guy makes his decision about whether he will take me based on that. I don't know, is this a norm?

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    He's just trying to get a free peak. You don't have to do it!

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    He won't take you into private. Nor will the guy who wants you to turn around and smack your ass "before we go to private bb". Guys who take you to private will.... take you to private after maybe a little discussion about what you are willing to do. These "flash nip and we go private 30 min bb" dudes never will do anything but MAYBE give you one gold someday lol.


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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Nothing.

    If they say: "(insert here whatever) and then we go private bb" it doesn't matter if you do it, most likely it's not gonna happen.


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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Thanks for all the advice guys, MUCH appreciated!

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    If they have a special request, I tell them to take me exclusive because I don't do anything for free or selling myself short. Don't let freeloaders drive you crazy. Hell, I won't even stand, lol! It's your room, your show so you gotta regulate what's acceptable.

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Don't do ANYTHING for them unless they've opened their wallets, babe! I mean nothing. Don't stand up, don't show feet/ass/tits bb, none of it. Those guys will not, I repeat, will NOT pay you. The only thing that should happen before a pvt is that they hit the pvt button.
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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Quote Originally Posted by KimKlass View Post
    The only thing that should happen before a pvt is that they hit the pvt button.
    Well said, I should say that to the guys next time

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Laugh at him for being so pathetic and then kick him out.
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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    Laugh at him for being so pathetic and then kick him out.
    Lol you can't even do that. He might be submissive and get off to you laughing at him.

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Anyone who tells me I have to do something first to go pvt gets an automatic ban.

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    I usually don't ban guys for trying to get me to do somethinge before private, unless they are being really repetitive and rude about it. I just tell the guys that when I was a new girl a lot of guys would tell me to do this that and the other and promise to take me private afterwards but they never did, so now I don't trust anyone to keep their word and I'm sorry that a few douches ruined it for everyone but that's the way it is. If they ask me again I will tell them look, if you cannot spare a couple of bucks to see me (flash, handbra, shake my butt, whatever) then you probably can't afford to take me private right now so please do not waste my time. Some guys leave, some guys take me private immediately, and some will wait a while before finally taking me private after they realize I'm not backing down. Not agreeing to their request before private does not necessarily mean you won't be taken into a show, it just means the cheapos won't be taking you into a show, but they wouldn't have done that, anyway.

    ETA: Actually, now that I think about it I did break my rule. This weekend some guy said that if I took my shirt off he would take me private. I told him I didn't believe him. He tried to convince me so I said fine, I took my shirt off BUT I kept my knees pulled up to my chest the entire time so that no one could actually see anything other than the fact that I pulled my shirt over my head, and then he did indeed take me in for a nice, long private that was pretty easy-going. The only reason I did that is because he had tipped me a bunch in free chat earlier that night so I knew he actually did have money to spend. I don't know why he wanted me to take my shirt off first because he didn't rush me through the private so I don't think it was a time-saving move. But yeah, I don't think I'd do that again unless a guy had already spent a bunch on me that day.

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Seconding what everyone has said, plus a little phrase that I LOVE to use.

    I will do things for gold - flashes, get costumes (but not put them on), go get my cigarettes (but not smoke), etc. But only AFTER they have tipped. While I usually say "you just have to ask with a little gold!" or something similar, feel free to borrow my favorite line:

    "I'm like a sexy little jukebox - you have to put the money in, THEN I start to play!"
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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    " "I'm like a sexy little jukebox - you have to put the money in, THEN I start to play!" "

    *dies laughing* I love that! When I get a dude who is all like "pls show tits" or "I need a preview before private" or my personal pet peeve "What's the least amount of tip to see something good bb?" I just say "you get what you pay for" and don't move a muscle until he tips at least 5 GOLD.

    Yeah, I really don't like freeloaders, and the "bargaining" dudes are my sworn enemy lol.

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    For your own good, make sure that to ask ALL members to tip to see ANYTHING. Don't give anyone a free show. Even if it is a quick flash of your clothed body, hand bra, your feet, want to see you turn around. NOTHING! Probably more than half of those guys that ask you to show will leave right after you do. The men that are truly interested in paying you for your time and taking you private WILL tip you if you ask them to before you show anything! Those are the guys you want watching you! DO NOT, under any circumstances, flash ANYTHING for FREE!! Free shows are not the answer and don't believe the members that tell you that you'd get more people to pay you if you took your clothes off, flashed your tits, talked dirty to them. It's not true, they're just trying to see you without paying.

    Also, I don't know what site you are on, but you might want to ask support how long a member has to be in private before they have to pay. I am on Streamate and members are only billed if they stay 30 seconds or more! When I first started I had NO IDEA that this was the case. I had a lots of members take advantage of that and ask me to start RIGHT away as soon as they went private. So here I was stripping down really fast or starting to give my bf a bj right away and didn't realize that I wasn't getting paid until after 30 seconds. Most of those guys left before they had to pay and I didn't even get $1. Just be careful, because there are A LOT of men that are trying to pay very little money or no money at all to see your show. Be sure to read the Code of Conduct for whatever site you are using as well! You don't want to get suspended, deleted, or your money held because you did something for a member that you didn't know was allowed! Good luck!

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    I never do anything they ask - if I want to tease on my own thats one thing but if they ask I make sure I do not do anything teasing until they leave or tip - I swear they get off because they think they got one over on you.

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    Default Re: Question: What should I do when a guy asks for a handbra to go in private?

    Quote Originally Posted by PitifulDragon24 View Post
    Just be careful, because there are A LOT of men that are trying to pay very little money or no money at all to see your show.
    Hi, and welcome to the forum. I know that you're new to both SM and to SW, but most of the stuff you're posting regarding free shows and block sessions have already been covered multiple times. Girls figure the "free peek" thing out pretty quickly, and it was nice before everyone starting telling them exactly how long they have. I could make money off them experimenting at least. Now? They know exactly how to scam.

    It's a pretty open forum, so feel free to give away all the tricks to the freeloaders reading everything here. But I will tell you that I never had so much trouble with these "peekers" before girls started talking about it here. Now it's 100x worse. So maybe consider that when you're posting? A significant portion of the readers of this forum are customers. If these guys are losers enough to get free shows this way, they're losers enough to hang out on forums getting TIPS from camgirls as to how to better scam us and YOU.
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