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    Im thinking of becoming a stripper...

    All im willing to do is dance on stage and do lapdances. Im a little unsure what goes on in a VIP room...from what I know a VIP room is private,its doing a lapdance and there is a little more touching and in some cases sex, head etc..all for extra money...so ive heard.

    Now, im married. Me and my husband just recently were talking about me becoming a stripper and he is okay with it. I HOWEVER and my husband aswell, do not want to do any sexual favors at all, and im afraid if I get pulled into a VIP room, a hot tub, the shower, the bedrooms (the club im applying at has hottubs,showers and stuff) im expected to do favors.

    If I get pulled into a VIP room or a shower or something im willing to do lapdances but no favors!!! If a customer expects favors im allowed to refuse right? my manager wont get mad ide hope...I just dont want touching the men touching me and expecting favors.

    I want to dance and do lapdances thats it!

    Can I refuse favors and such if in a VIP? :\

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    ... that's how its supposed to go. If that's not how your club is working find a new club.

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    Thanks! I just needed to make sure!

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    Since most clubs make a lot of money from VIP they wouldnt want you to refuse one.But no one can force you to do favors.
    If management suggest that you have to do anything you dont want then dont work at that club.
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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    You sure can refuse to go to VIP if you want to.

    Just know that VIP doesn't mean extras/sex, just pick the right customer who isn't expecting that shit. Not every customer expects that.

    VIP is someone paying for your time with no interruptions. You let them know your boundaries if they try to cross them.

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    ^This. A strip club is NOT a brothel and, although they may want more, that's all the men who walk through the doors expect.

    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkpowerranger View Post
    I want to dance and do lapdances thats it!

    Can I refuse favors and such if in a VIP? :\
    ^Depending on the club-by refusing to do VIP dances you could be cutting your income very short .

    Remember that YOU set your own boundaries. If anyone asks for xyz then simply tell them you are a dancer, only, and don't offer it. If they try to cross your boundaries i.e. touch you etc or are in anyway disrespectful then you have the right to end the lapdance/VIP (you can then advise a manager or bouncer and probably have them kicked out).

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    The easiest way to avoid getting into situations where you have to decide between refusing to go to VIP and making money are to not make any promises you don't intend to keep (ie. sex, head, or even just 'something more' wink wink). This will weed out customers who seek extras early on in the conversation, which will not only keep you from being put in a bad situation, but will help you save time and effort. If extras are so rampant in your club that full on sex and head are common occurrences in the VIP room, find a new club. That's just a bust waiting to happen.

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    It is not always expected. Only certain customers do. Don't assume that all girls who do VIP do sexual favors. If you are good and got your game on you can get a guy to agree to a non-sexual VIP.

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    This makes strip clubs seem so sleazy! Shit happens that a lot of us don't agree with, but it's easy to be a clean dancer. Make boundaries and stick to them! Go into the VIP, get paid in advance, and if the customer makes you uncomfortable, then leave! No refunds, bitches!

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    Default Re: Can I Refuse VIP?

    For my 7 years of marriage I never once had sex in a vip room,nor did any man ever touch me down there, nor did I ever ''flash'' my goods in a non-nude club. What happens in the VIP room is up to you for the most part, so if you aren't willing to provide things like that, then don't. Study the threads in the hustle hut and see how the women who give less actually make more. There's more money to be made from not going all the way especially in a more upscale type club where that kind of behaviour could get you fired. If you work in a dive bar where that kind of thing is expected and even encouraged by the management, then it's probably not the kind of place where you could compete with extras girls.


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