Hi Ive been danceing off and on since i was 18,im 23 now.Ive made mistakes in my stripping experiences that I want to share. Hopefully it will help other not make the mistakes ive made, no one is perfect.I would love to read others mistakes.I grew up with my mom stripping to pay her bills,and baby sat her dancer friends children. My mom is 42 now retired from striping 5 years ago.She has no education shes a bartender and very unhappy.Everything she bought from stripping is gone.shes an alcoholic still to this day as well as her now ex dancer friends,she used alcohol as a way to help her get threw her shifts as a dancer.Its sad to think about I know my mother self confidence is so low. shes kept her self away from my siblings and I.I havent heard from her in over a year.I just want dancers as well as myself to treat stripping as a real job,Work at least 4 days a week if you have no other job.I know with myself I worked enough to pay bills maybe 4-5 days a month.Im now getting an education because I dont want to end up with nothing like my mother,So here are my stripping mistakes,or I guess you can look at mistakes as a learning experience,
!.Not working enough or treating danceing as a real job
2.Not going to work because i didnt feel like it,or felt bloated.
3.getting drunk at work, and missing work the next day because hungover
4.Not useing all the extra time i have for education and to better myself
5.takeing customers and other dancers mean behavior personal and letting it effect my confidence
6.I once let a customer lick my nipples and once went on a date with a regular who i fell for and had sex with.
7.Not being grateful,I never felt satisfied with averageing 600 to 1000$ Ive always been the top earner but that still didnt seem to be enough
8.Drinking way to much alcohol has effected my life badly,even went to jail a couple times
9.stayeing in abusive relationship because low self confidence,thinking no one would love me because im a stripper.
10.spending to much money on my looks
11.not saveing money
12.I felt shame for being a stripper



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Please do not feel guilty for your mistakes or your past,mistakes are how we learn and grow,I personally have a hard time with being a perfectionist..I need to work on that too.

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