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    Default Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    My husband and I are recording an anal video for MGF this weekend. It's my first time EVER having anal of ANY kind. The most I've ever done before is fingering. So, i was curious as to how I can milk thi? My birthday's coming up and I sure could use the money.

    My husband is "verified" or whatever on Chaturbate, but I'm not taking it in the ass for tips. What I'd love is to do like a Streamate gold show, where everyone puts in X amount and then we do the show, but I don't think CB has that option. or even a Skype type of thing, though I'm not sure if multiple people can watch the same Skype feed at once.
    Any advice would be so helpful!

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    Default Re: Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    Mmm I signed up for Chaturbate but I haven't cammed there. So I might be mistaken... I saw on Chaturbate that you can set your public room to password only, so theoretically, if you advertise, you can tell people that it's X tokens to get the password?

    Edit: assuming they can give you tips while they are not in your room?

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    I would be cautious about doing it live, just in case you find that you are uncomfortable, or it takes longer than you expect, or even that you decide not to go all the way - I would hate to feel like I couldn't take anymore, but that I had promised a whole room that I would, so I HAD to. Anal can be awesome - you don't want to screw up your first time!!

    What I WOULD do is create a bidding war for ONE person to watch live, and then milk the crap out of clips.

    Use your social media to make a giant event out of the whole anal-virginity thing - do a daily countdown, and make it clear that guys can bid in to be able to watch it live - highest bid over the next week (or however long - the longer the better, usually) gets to watch via skype. If the bids are through GOLD on SM, tokens on CB, as well as through payoneer or GC as well, you just need to keep a whiteboard of them up in all your rooms to show where the bidding is. Good way to get the most money from a lot of people, but still only have one person watch.

    Then, make a HUGE thing of how unsure you are, make sure that they are aware that you really are an anal virgin and you may have to stop, or take breaks.

    When you do it, if you can, use a few different cameras - keep one pointed at your face only, do one as a "voyeur" shot, and one like a normal "porn" shot so you can see penetration. Then sell them on C4S and MGF for a LOT of money - virginity clips are something that you can charge up the hoo-ha for!! So don't sell them at normal prices!!
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    Default Re: Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    I've only managed anal sex when drunk!

    Afraid that's all the advice I can give...but best of luck!
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    Default Re: Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    I would be cautious about doing it live, just in case you find that you are uncomfortable, or it takes longer than you expect, or even that you decide not to go all the way - I would hate to feel like I couldn't take anymore, but that I had promised a whole room that I would, so I HAD to. Anal can be awesome - you don't want to screw up your first time!!

    What I WOULD do is create a bidding war for ONE person to watch live, and then milk the crap out of clips.

    Use your social media to make a giant event out of the whole anal-virginity thing - do a daily countdown, and make it clear that guys can bid in to be able to watch it live - highest bid over the next week (or however long - the longer the better, usually) gets to watch via skype. If the bids are through GOLD on SM, tokens on CB, as well as through payoneer or GC as well, you just need to keep a whiteboard of them up in all your rooms to show where the bidding is. Good way to get the most money from a lot of people, but still only have one person watch.

    Then, make a HUGE thing of how unsure you are, make sure that they are aware that you really are an anal virgin and you may have to stop, or take breaks.

    When you do it, if you can, use a few different cameras - keep one pointed at your face only, do one as a "voyeur" shot, and one like a normal "porn" shot so you can see penetration. Then sell them on C4S and MGF for a LOT of money - virginity clips are something that you can charge up the hoo-ha for!! So don't sell them at normal prices!!
    I suuuck at my social media stuff hehe. But everything you said was really great advice! i think I may spend the next week or so hyping it up on MFC and CB. We're not in a rush so it makes sense to build hype.

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    If you aren't in a big rush, you can also do a series of clips - anal training for first time!
    Clip 1 - stroking ass
    Clip 2 - fingers
    Clip 3 - Small butt plug for first time
    Clip 4 - Small beads
    Clip 5 - bigger toy
    Clip 6 - First ANAL!!

    Not only will it make you more money, but it will actually make it easier for you to have anal when you actually get around to it!
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    Default Re: Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    I don't own any small toys or beads, so I'll basically be going from fingers to the real thing. I don't want to get too explicit here, but we know it'll work. But that's also a good idea!

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    I wouldn't do it on cam. I'd do clips of the real thing. And then I would ''lose my virginity'' on cam. But I'm a sneaky bitch. ;-)

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    I have to be drunk because it's so excruciatingly painful!

    I think a trial run a few days before may be best.
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    ^^^ It's such an odd thing - I used to feel exactly that way - it HURT, but I would do it anyway with loads of lube and a few stiff drinks....but then I found a guy who was actually able to turn me on and relax me SO much that we didn't even need lube....I'm still looking for someone else with that magical ability - sadly, my partner now is pretty good at getting me worked up, but that other guy was just MAGIC. Le sigh...
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    Default Re: Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    Im with the have to be very drunk thing with this one, so that's my advice also the best of luck though.

    Maybe clips would be better, as someone else said if you did live then found you couldn't go through with it you will have some disappointed fans.

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    Default Re: Having anal for the first time: How do I make it as profittable as possible?

    ManyRoses has some great ideas!!!
    If you don't have a Twitter, start one JUST for this!
    There are lots of guys around who will retweet your stuff if it's something intersesting/sexy ESP if it's a sexy pic....and you could probably build a following over losing your 'anal virginity' pretty quick, I'll bet!!!!
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    Ahhh, anal, yeah, these ladies are all right. I have only ever had anal sex with one person in my entire life (my infamous ex) and let me tell you girl, I had to use our safe word for the first time ever because it felt like he was going to puncture my friggin' colon- and this was Months after I gave him my anal virginity! And he'd be considered "small" by most standards (he's Asian). Some days he would put it on me and I'd be backin' it up on him and he'd gape my ass and I'd be like f#ck yeah! And other days it's just like... Ouch No more, please So for that reason I really would NOT recommend performing for a room full of people because you know how that crowd mentality can get. I think you are a smart business woman for wanting to milk this but with anal.... Sometimes it can feel amazing and sometimes it can feel like torture and I would hate for you to have an unpleasant experience and fake your way through it writhing in agony just because dozens of people are watching. The thing about vaginal sex is, our poom pooms are very resilient, but with anal sex there is actually a real potential there to do some harm. Not trying to scare you off of it, I LOVED having anal sex with my guy but we really did have to go at our own pace to make it mutually enjoyable and I don't know that that pace is the pace that cam viewers can keep up with? So I would "auction" your first time off to one lucky guy and make him pay out the ass for it (hahah- see what I did there? lol) rather than letting many guys watch your first time. Also, like ManyRoses said I'd be making clips like it's going out of style, that will pad your pockets nicely. But for your first time, girl, I know we are performers but there are some things we just cannot fake, I feel like anal is one of those things, so better to share it with one person who will pay lots and allow it to be authentic than many people who will pay little and just be like "harder bb more moar NOW". Know what I mean?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    ^^^ It's such an odd thing - I used to feel exactly that way - it HURT, but I would do it anyway with loads of lube and a few stiff drinks....but then I found a guy who was actually able to turn me on and relax me SO much that we didn't even need lube....I'm still looking for someone else with that magical ability - sadly, my partner now is pretty good at getting me worked up, but that other guy was just MAGIC. Le sigh...
    Had the SAME experience!! It is a super magical thing to not need lube for anal, but the one time I was sooo worked up and with someone who is good and practiced at anal- holy crap. I don't know if it will ever be recreated again....

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    I've toyed with anal before, but my current boyfriend is the only one who has been able to fuck my ass. We worked at it a good bit and even the first few times he would get hsi dick all the way in, we would only be able to do a few thrusts before it was too intense/painful. We wound up finding that me on top was the easiest position until we figured out our rhythm and my limits (plus he could play with my clit and nipples which provided some distraction from the discomfort), but in my cam/clip experience, for a virginity video guys are going to want your man in control. A girl who loves riding anal is sexy, but not believable for a virginity clip. I will say that it is easier to take him back in my ass after he's been in for a couple minutes and then pulled out. Maybe try getting him to just push in and stay still in your ass for a couple minutes before the show starts to let that loosen you up and relax you so when he does the big first push in the show you will already know what to expect.

    I'll second the post by CourtneyRaine, some days I'm feeling it and riding him hard or letting him bend me over and rail me, other days I get halfway down his shaft and just can't do it.

    I like the suggestion to sell the private viewing to the highest bidder, film some clips from that showing, and then sell the clips through whatever clip site you use primarily. Hype hype hype it up! Is your hubs just a verified performer or is does he have his own account he can promote through too? I think both of you tweeting it/posting it would attract a lot of attention from different sources too. You'll get different guys (I would think) bidding to watch a guy fuck his virgin wife's ass compared to the guys that are looking for you to take it.

    After the big show, sell clips, videos, everything! Milk this, it's the only "virgin" experience you'll be able to sell, so make it pay out as much as possible for as long as possible!

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    lube, bb, lube! and lots of it!!!

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    You ladies are so amazing! Thank you all!

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    I believe the trick to make anal less painful is to relax. I personally don't like anal. I find it so painful to the point that I'be had nightmares over it, LOL!

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    Yes lots of lube, and eating light that day will also help, especially in preventing a story that could end up in the most embarrassing cam moments. I would definitely recommend clitoral stimulation while he penetrates you. If you have a vibrator it will help tremendously. If you are already in the throes of ecstasy then anal will hopefully just heighten it. The pleasurable distractions can definitely ease any discomfort. I agree with the other ladies, and I recommend trying it before hand, at least to stretch those muscles a little bit and know what to expect. And its not like anybody but you and your man will know!

    My first anal experience I screamed bloody murder, and felt I had been ripped apart, I curled into a ball and cried for an half an hour. Most painful experience I have ever had. I have had a few pleasant experiences since and a few less then satisfying ones. Right now I refuse anyone to fuck me in the ass. I love being fingered and the use small toys but even that can be uncomfortable. I am training to work up to anal sex but could not imagine going from just fingers to full on penetration. I don't want to scare you I just want you to be prepared. Its a big step, and a exciting one, but this one will effect how you view anal play in the future so its important to get it right!

    Most important thing is go at your on pace and do what you feel is right. And clear communication with your guy before and durning. Don't let the pressure of doing it on cam effect your decisions, its ok to stop, take a break or even not do it all.

    Good luck and I hope you make bank. It is a flipping brilliant idea!


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    Side note: My guy and I use a safeword (banana) when we get into any play that is rough or potentially uncomfortable for either of us, including when we started with anal. Whether or not you and your hubs have a safeword, you might want to consider making a sexier sounding one up just for the anal video in case you need a break but want to make it look more deliberate like it was his decision. Normal safewords are supposed to be so far outside of the realm of sexy talk that they couldn't be mistaken for anything else, I know if I ever started yelling "banana" during a cam show or clip, it would be totally obvious and weird. For example, try a euphemism that you may not normally use (I hate the word pussy, so we always call it something else and my guy doesn't even say pussy), so we could use "pussy" as a sexy safeword, ie: "My pussy is so wet!" that the viewer wouldn't know was a sign to back out. Then your man could give you a break and play with your "wet pussy" for a minute while your ass settled down.

    Also, my two cents, I have NEVER EVER used numbing lubes for anal play, even though some people swear by them. If it hurts, you need to feel it so you don't let things go too far and injure you. Not that you or any of the other SW ladies have suggested that, but it is something to be mindful of if you're not used to anal sex and looking for a quick fix. The bf and I swear by Eros or Swiss Navy silicone lubes. They are latex safe and long lasting. It will be a bitch to wash them off in the shower if you're not used to silicone, but well worth it on the benefit of staying slick the whole time.

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    I will second the ladies who have talked about clitoral stimulation while penetrating. It really does help you to relax your muscles.

    Personally, I have found that it works best if he penetrates you, and then just stops and keeps still inside you while he plays with your clit. It lets you relax, get used to the feeling, and then he can start moving slowly.

    I also thought of something while I was replying to another post about lube....massaging coconut oil into the entrance over a few days or weeks can help the skin with elasticity, so that you are less likely to tear.

    I feel SO BAD hearing some of the stories from you guys!! I wish that guys would realize just how horrifically painful anal can be if it isn't done right. This is one area where I do think that porn has affected guys badly - they see women easily taking giant dicks with no visible lube, and just assume that that is the norm.....
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