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    hey everyone i am seriously considering dancing.This website is sooooooo helpful. Although im shy now ,I know after my first time ill fit right in. My mother was a dancer so when I was young id see her come home with bags of money and I wanted it too..lol After two children my body is not the size 3 i used to be..But living in detroit where in the urban club thicker is better my stomach isnt the issue...I have a FLAT BUTT n NO BOOBIES...I can laugh bout it cause i know i can bounce back BUT i need workout buddies and some practice on the pole. any suggestions and comments would be so helpful and appreciated..thanks

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    Default Re: Newbie scared shitless..lol

    The best advice to newbies is-- unless you're working in a really big party-style vegas club that doesn't rely on regulars, you should work as much as possible when you're new! You'll be sparkling with that new-girl excitement, and for the customers you'll have that new-girl mystique, so you have a chance to rake it in! Also, the more consistently you practice dancing the better, and the sooner you'll get over your stage fright, so picking up as much experience as possible asap is the best way to go. You'll notice that when you go from not dancing to dancing 4-5 days a week, your body will totally change-- stage dancing and lapdancing are a great workout. Learning to dance IS learning to love your body

    Of course, if you start to get burned out, absolutely take some time off! But when you're new, you don't tend to get urned out as easily, so take advantage of that!


    I recommend this thread for learning new dance moves:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...l-Video-Thread

    Have fun!

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    Don't worry about pole tricks or not having boobs. Customers like all sorts of body types, and as long as you look like you're having fun on stage, you'll be fine. Good luck!

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    Thanks ladies

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    Default Re: Newbie scared shitless..lol

    Many Detroit clubs are not very "urban" anyway. There's King of Diamonds, Ace of Spades, Deja Vu (Highland Park), 007, and Crazy Horse. I may have forgotten one or two, but those are the black clubs.

    As far as working out, squats will be your best friend to get your body back in shape. They'll flatten your stomach and give you more of an ass (but a tight one, which will be good).

    My boobs are small so I like to wear Victorias Secret bras at work - not the Bombshell bra because that would pretty much be false advertising, but just a good push-up bra that looks good when talking to customers.

    As far as pole work goes, the majority of girls at clubs aren't great on the pole. A lot of girls can't do a single pole trick. If you're worried about it, there are pole dancing studios that will let you practice by yourself for really cheap - one near me does $15 an hour and you have the room to yourself. But the day before I auditioned I just went to a park and used the poles on the playground as practice lol.

    Good luck!

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    When or if you start, you can practice poledance in the club before any

    Try not to worry about the size of your boobs or butt too much. Wear clothes that accentuate...

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    I just got there and they turned around and said "ok. You go on the 15's. Starting at 8:15" so now im super excited!
    Peace, Love and Tits <3

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    aaaa im hoping to audition for my first time ever on Monday...Congrats to you!!!

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    I'm in nyc and I keep procrastinating. slim and dark skin with small breasts and I'm so overcome with nerves I've put off my audition 3 weeks now. I was told I could audition anyday after 8 and every morning I hype myself and stand in the mirror saying I'm sexy enough to do this and yes somebody will tip me even without pole tricks and no you won't trip and fall faceflat and get booed to tears...But it wears off by 5 and I bitch out..this site has been helpful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoSLIM View Post
    hey everyone i am seriously considering dancing.This website is sooooooo helpful. Although im shy now ,I know after my first time ill fit right in. My mother was a dancer so when I was young id see her come home with bags of money and I wanted it too..lol After two children my body is not the size 3 i used to be..But living in detroit where in the urban club thicker is better my stomach isnt the issue...I have a FLAT BUTT n NO BOOBIES...I can laugh bout it cause i know i can bounce back BUT i need workout buddies and some practice on the pole. any suggestions and comments would be so helpful and appreciated..thanks
    Hit the gym, eat right, lay off the bad stuff and if you want it down the line invest in a BA. I don't regret mine. They pay for themselves many times over. It depends on what kind of club you're going to though. If you're going to an urban club I don't think they give a shit about boobs. They want to see a fucking 3 ring circus show. If you can dance your ass off you should be good. If you want to try a mixed club and want to cut out a lot of bullshit small talk invest in a pair of knockers. Mine have cut my bullshit meter in half.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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