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    Default Questions from a Newb...please advise ??

    Good Morning Ladies I have some questions please.
    I am a new (online) domme and webcam chathost.
    When I log onto CC or Streammate I get people asking if I Skype, or if I want to use a program giving me control over their desktop.
    1) Why do they ask this…
    2) Is it not against the rules to meet someone on this site and agree to Skype?
    3) Why would I want to control their desktop?
    4) Can you help me with some acronyms pls… I know how to negotiate the needs of my realtime subs face to face but I am confounded by these.
    5) Can you DEMAND cam2cam for scening with a sub? It’s hard to do with the keyboard…and not seeing my requests carried out...I am an experienced domme but this is a challenge for me...
    6) Also…how do you process tribute over and above the $/minute ? Is it ALL done through the website (which takes a cut) or can I send my payoneer link?
    Also please add any other tips you would care to share…
    I find cybertopping challenging I’m used to seeing my subs…
    Thank you
    MissNikki.

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    Default Re: Questions from a Newb...please advise ??

    1) Some guys prefer to use Skype/MSN over the website interface for better video/audio, some like to use other payment methods, some want to try and scam you, some want it on the cheap.
    2) I am guessing that on Chaturbate Skype is allowed as long as they are paying you with the site's tokens. On Steamate, Skype is prohibited because you are not allowed to exchange info.
    3) There are programmes that allow you to access another person's computer, but I think they come with privacy risks to you too. I guess some dommes use this remote access for blackmail purposes etc.
    4) What acronyms do you want to be explained?
    5) You can demand c2c, they won't all have cam though or be comfortable to do c2c. Yes, though, it's easier when you can see them for sub/dom type sessions.
    6) Again, on Chaturbate they will need to tip you (although I think they allow a bit of outside contact, wishlists etc). I don't know much about CC. Streamate wont' like you giving out Payoneer info.

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    Default Re: Questions from a Newb...please advise ??

    Vlodina answered those wonderfully!

    One or two things to add to that..

    1 &2. SM is VERY strict about giving outside information. Do not mention the word "skype", type it, send it in an e-mail...anything. Even if you are saying "I do not do Skype because it is against the rules", you may find yourself suspended. If they ask, tell them that you do not do "that". If you want to try and convert them to a skype customer - you can try to hint that they should find you on twitter/fb etc, but again, DO NOT say the names of these sites or you risk suspension...
    5. If you are finding the keyboard difficult (I am assuming with them typing - you are using sound, correct?), but your customer does not have a webcam or doesn't want to use it, you could try the phone feature. I find that it gives a better interaction because there is no keyboard delay, misspellings, etc etc.
    6. On SM, they can send you gold while in pvt chat as a tribute. You absolutely CANNOT give out a payoneer link on SM - like saying "skype", "twitter" etc, it is considered outside contact information and a violation, and you risk suspension. Just use gold while on the site.

    It can be difficult to get the hang of working online when you are used to face-to-face interaction - I still find it far more challenging than working in a strip club where I can see and physically interact with the guys, and read body language. But you will learn how to cope - it will just take a little time to get used to it!
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    Default Re: Questions from a Newb...please advise ??

    Thank you so much, there are very few resources on translating one-to-one D/s (which I have tons of experience in)
    to on-line D/s. It will be nice to get out of my dungeon more often...
    It is cool to have new challenges after years of same old...I find I chat too much and am too nice in
    group then when I get them in private (my comfort D/s zone...it's like... whiplash for the sluts. haha)
    I appreciate you all !!
    -Nikki.

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