I only leave abruptly when:
1) I have to go to stage or am being paged elsewhere
2) I have other customers waiting for me.
I usually try to make it very clear that I had a good time, want to see ya again unless you were mean, etc.
She may just be new to dancing. Stripper etiquette is perfected dance by dance, day by day, dangit.
As far as not talking goes, I am usually verbose ad nauseaum; however, I've noticed that when I'm frustrated and don't want to talk when it's busy, just saying hi, sitting down, and rubbing a guy's arm sweetly for a minute or two gets me dances without saying more than the initial hello. This is typically done after I've talked my head off at tables that I was brought to by management/waitresses (as I was requested there) only to get $20-$40. Rehashing my life story and interests in all things erotic and/or nerdy loses appeal after that, lol.
So, in short, she had others/somewhere else to go, is new, or maybe had already given lengthy speeches on the fall of Rome/stripper shoes/kegels/ boobs/etc.
Hope that clarifies it

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