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    Default too much chat!

    It seems like my room is full... of fellas who chat.
    That's it.
    How do I change that?
    Am I being to nice chatting with them?
    help pls
    Nikki.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    When I'm in free chat on sm I'll talk to guys in free chat, however if my room picks up 15+ members or so I'll stop because keeping up with that many conversations even if I'm just saying "hey what's up" just gets out of hand and overwhelming for me to keep up with...what I've found is if they don't go pvt after a few minutes they probably don't plan on it so I just stop chatting with them and they'll either go to private or leave.
    However on free chat sites like mfc or cb this probably isn't a great tactic.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    Don't chat too much!! Keep it to a few interactions with one guy, then nicely remind him that if he wants to keep chatting, he has to go pvt.

    There is a balance to be struck between seeming interesting and approachable, and giving guys too much attention for free. I also find that if you are too chatty in free - and get into a big long conversation with ONE guy, others are less likely to want to take you pvt, because they feel like they would be interrupting you or bothering you.

    I try to keep mine to "hi, how are you, one or two other little sentences". Other than that, there will usually be a room-wide conversation going on - something that everyone is joining in on. If someone tries to monopolize my attention, I'll remind them that if they want me all to themselves, they have to take me pvt...
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    Default Re: too much chat!

    Someone here, and hopefully another girl can put the correct name and thread had a 5 question limit. I wish I could remember.


    Like...
    HRU? You answer.
    Where you from? You answer.
    Your tits real? You answer.
    What do you do in Private? You answer.
    You in college? You answer.

    Then you move on or ignore, and they'll get the point that you aren't there for free conversation.


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    Default Re: too much chat!

    Wow thank you so much for your advice I really appreciate it...I will try the 5 question technique this weekend
    (planning to be on LOTS lol) and I will let you know how it works for me...
    I am guity of being too nice hahaha...

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    I will answer a few questions and then I will greet the others who have come into my room, ask them how they are doing, ask them, "Are you horny tonight?"

    Basically I get other conversations going when one guy tries to monopolize my time in free chat.

    My question however is... I will stand up, and show my body every so often, occasionally when guys ask me to also, show my butt, show my heels... Should I just sit there and now show anyone my body or is it okay to stand up and turn around every so often? I wonder if it is a matter of keeping potential customers too entertained to private or a matter of getting them interested in a private? I think the most discouraging aspect of camming is the horrendous swarms of loosers who just want to jerk for free and no tactics in the Universe will ever work with them.

    Also I have it set so that only customers with credit cards can enter my free chat and that doesn't seem to guarantee me any business. Apparently there are tons of cheapies with credit cards.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    Quote Originally Posted by Your Evil Twin View Post
    I will answer a few questions and then I will greet the others who have come into my room, ask them how they are doing, ask them, "Are you horny tonight?"

    Basically I get other conversations going when one guy tries to monopolize my time in free chat.

    My question however is... I will stand up, and show my body every so often, occasionally when guys ask me to also, show my butt, show my heels... Should I just sit there and now show anyone my body or is it okay to stand up and turn around every so often? I wonder if it is a matter of keeping potential customers too entertained to private or a matter of getting them interested in a private? I think the most discouraging aspect of camming is the horrendous swarms of loosers who just want to jerk for free and no tactics in the Universe will ever work with them.

    Also I have it set so that only customers with credit cards can enter my free chat and that doesn't seem to guarantee me any business. Apparently there are tons of cheapies with credit cards.
    I have mine set like that too...CC only...it doesn't help me either.
    I play music and sit on a stool and continuosly adjust my position....
    crossing and uncrossing my legs or slow hip circles to the music...To keep the eyes on me lol...

    I'm still learning tho...I've been a Dom for ever, used to making demands, and this 'Nilla porn has be confuzzled haha.

    I find on SM no one reads my profile and is not wanting kink, very rarely do I get a kink show.
    CC is better for my niche, but holy hell it is ssssllllloooooooowwwwww.

    -Nikki
    (sorry for Rambling)

    eta I will stand and show what I am wearing...very rarely will I show my heels and not too close I have foot worshipers who can get off just seeing my heels so word of caution on that...they will blow in group if you give them too much feet!
    Last edited by Darlin'Nikki; 11-02-2012 at 06:04 PM. Reason: add

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    You COULD be too nice. My limit in free chat is 5 minutes for each custie then I ask, 'how may I help you?'. Then they would take my private or just leave or I will ignore them.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    thank you Marina...I need help closing the sale.
    'how may I help you...?'
    I will practise in the mirror too I think.
    -Nikki.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    You're welcum! I usually always type so they would go 'mmmmm,mmmm' then bam pvt or exclusive. Act confident and they'll believe you're worth it.


    Quote Originally Posted by Darlin'Nikki View Post
    thank you Marina...I need help closing the sale.
    'how may I help you...?'
    I will practise in the mirror too I think.
    -Nikki.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    hmmmmm I will try typing it too!
    -Nikki.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    I only type when I can't use audio because I have a roommate, lol.

    Quote Originally Posted by Darlin'Nikki View Post
    hmmmmm I will try typing it too!
    -Nikki.

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    Default Re: too much chat!

    aaaahh lol thank you.

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