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    Default Urban Girls: I don't get it!!!!

    So....... I've been lurking for a minute. I've read y'all posts, and utilize the advice from this board. Y'all are great! A little about me: I've danced on and off for maybe 4 months in total. I've recently started at a new club, and I'm not used to the environment or hustle.... (actually, I've never had much of a hustle). I suffer from crazy approach anxiety. I look at guys and find some reason why they don't want me and would never spend money. I see other girls complain of the same thing here..... I think it's a confidence issue. I've recently lost about 25 pounds... I'm 5'7, 169 and for the most part happy with my body. And I feel like my look totally fits in with my club type..... an urban mid-level. I have the boobs, booty, and 26 inches of virgin weave (LOL). Can't do crazy pole tricks yet, but def working on it, and I shake it pretty well on stage. I know I'm pretty but honestly it hasn't translated into $ for me. I feel like i can't relate to our customer base..... young, minority males.... I often get accused of being stuck up. And it's frustrating! I really need this $ to finish school, and set myself up in life with some savings, etc.....

    So my urban girls..... How is it done?

    My club is full nude, but on the weekend it kind of turns into a hangout spot (quite a few female customers... ugh....kind of like how ppl go to King of Diamonds like it's a regular nightclub).... But there are dudes in there spending $.... A lot of it.

    It gets crowded... I'm told I'm just supposed to walk up to men and shake my ass. Seriously??? Is this how this works in these type of clubs???

    Can someone with experience break down exactly how this is supposed to work?? I really want to do well here. So I said all that to say: What EXACTLY is the hustle in a super busy urban club????

    Thanks in advance y'all!

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    Default Re: Urban Girls: I don't get it!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by LegoMoney View Post
    It gets crowded... I'm told I'm just supposed to walk up to men and shake my ass. Seriously??? Is this how this works in these type of clubs???
    Ask yourself: why would a man buy what he is getting for free? Make bedroom eyes, be flirty, "Wannadance" him, but don't give him any bit of the "product" for free. Make him pay you to shake it

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    Default Re: Urban Girls: I don't get it!!!!

    Believe it or not, I've worked a nude urban club before and liked it-- I only left since they wanted to put me on a schedule five days a week. I'm too snotty for that lol
    At any rate, it's about attitude with that crowd. Make sure you look as glamorous and put-together as possible. Even if you're insecure, ACT LIKE you are the baddest biotch in the building. The young guys don't usually get more than 1-2 dances, but that's ok. If you get aggressive with your dances on the main floor, this crowd will throw money on you for dancing on someone else! I made 100 in tips once for one dance from guys who didn't know the dance recipient. It all depends on attitude and "badness."
    I know I'm white, but I did well on the weekends when I worked there until they told me I'd have to schedule myself.
    Young, urban guys want a girl who looks hot, glamorous, and like she'd bang their brains out if she had the chance. I'm a booty/vag slapper, and they love that stuff, as goofy as it sounds. Walk by guys, get eye contact, and try to move them for dances BEFORE you sit down. It's a different hustle than upscale clubs in which you talk to them, then move for dances. Since you won't sell more than 1-2 dances per guy (these are stage clubs, after all), you want to move them as fast as possible. In restaurant terms, this is a turn-and-burn scenario.
    Money at these clubs can be awesome on stage, and you don't have to do the same things everyone else does to make money. I'm scared to learn pole tricks since friends of mine have gotten hurt doing it, so I focused on floor work-- booty shaking, splits with booty shaking/bouncing, booty popping, slapping my butt and girl parts, sexualized movements, and the crowd fave: making various parts of my body vibrate, including my you-know-what. It worked. Find something that is YOURS, perfect it, and no one can touch you. If you spend your time copying other girls and trying to catch up in your stage skills, you'll always be second to them. Trust me-- nothing's funnier than seeing girls try to do your stuff and fail miserably.
    Most importantly, as I mentioned earlier, get your attitude straight. Those guys are paying money to see your hot bod when they walk in the door. BE THE FANTASY. If girls criticize you in there, they are threatened. (I had a girl tell me at an urban spot that I was pretty for an old white lady. I am 27, lol. I told her it was nice making money wherever I wanted!) Don't ask why a guy would want you, ask why he wouldn't want you, as you are the hottest girl in the place!
    Good luck!!!!!!


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    Wow. Thank you so much! That really helped. I think attitude is the main factor. You killing it and hustling hard in an urban club is inspiring! Keep being the bad chick you are!

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    Keep us updated on how you do with a new attitude! I bet you'll do great!

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