So....... I've been lurking for a minute. I've read y'all posts, and utilize the advice from this board. Y'all are great! A little about me: I've danced on and off for maybe 4 months in total. I've recently started at a new club, and I'm not used to the environment or hustle.... (actually, I've never had much of a hustle). I suffer from crazy approach anxiety. I look at guys and find some reason why they don't want me and would never spend money. I see other girls complain of the same thing here..... I think it's a confidence issue. I've recently lost about 25 pounds... I'm 5'7, 169 and for the most part happy with my body. And I feel like my look totally fits in with my club type..... an urban mid-level. I have the boobs, booty, and 26 inches of virgin weave (LOL). Can't do crazy pole tricks yet, but def working on it, and I shake it pretty well on stage. I know I'm pretty but honestly it hasn't translated into $ for me. I feel like i can't relate to our customer base..... young, minority males.... I often get accused of being stuck up. And it's frustrating! I really need this $ to finish school, and set myself up in life with some savings, etc.....
So my urban girls..... How is it done?
My club is full nude, but on the weekend it kind of turns into a hangout spot (quite a few female customers... ugh....kind of like how ppl go to King of Diamonds like it's a regular nightclub).... But there are dudes in there spending $.... A lot of it.
It gets crowded... I'm told I'm just supposed to walk up to men and shake my ass. Seriously??? Is this how this works in these type of clubs???
Can someone with experience break down exactly how this is supposed to work?? I really want to do well here. So I said all that to say: What EXACTLY is the hustle in a super busy urban club????
Thanks in advance y'all!



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