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    Default Surely not a new approach to escorting... but a safe one?

    Okay... so I am considering entering the world of escorting.... it has actually been an idea I've kicked around for a long time. I absolutely positively do not want any legal troubles though. ,

    So.. I was considering a bit of a different approach from many of the girls I've seen. I'm sure it will narrow the number/types of clients I can see, but no doubt the ones that I do will appreciate the consideration I've put into making sure nothing illegal happens.

    If I arrange clients in such a way that we will go on a date, I will be paid a pre-agreed upon, pre-set amount per hour for that date (with an hour minimum for the date) and after the time for which they have paid has elapsed, we then CHOOSE to go do other things, with no guarantee beforehand that those other things will *ever* happen.... is that legit, and a valid way to avoid run-ins with law enforcement? It seems like a potentially safe tactic, but I'd like to get other opinions on the matter.

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    I don't imagine you will be getting many customers with that plan.
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    Default Re: Surely not a new approach to escorting... but a safe one?

    So, just to clarify...your hourly rate would not include any private time, only taking place in public, but you would engage in private activities, for a totally un-clocked amount of time, after the "real" date ends?

    To be honest, if you were really caught up in a sting I don't think waiting to do illicit activities until after the initial 60 minutes is up could really make you "untouchable" by LE in most areas. I think theres still a reasonable understanding that the money was not for the date but instead for the activities that took place afterwards. Or that the initial hour was interpreted as a complimentary introduction and it was the following hour, in the bedroom, that the money was truly intentioned for (in other words, you say the first hour was what the rate was for, and the officer says the second hour was what the rate was for - switching your story)

    Long story short, you stay safe by proven methods of screening. Little else has every worked with such success.


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    Default Re: Surely not a new approach to escorting... but a safe one?

    All of the research I have done has indicated that there is no method of screening that is 100% foolproof. That said... are there any particular resources you would suggest/point me to?

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    Default Re: Surely not a new approach to escorting... but a safe one?

    Seriously if you're THAT paranoid, forget being an escort. No one is going to go for what you're proposing.

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    That reminds me in a way of how dancers can still be arrested for leaving with club customers. They don't have to actually have sex, but many places see just getting in a customer's car outside the club to be illegal. You're still going on a paid date which likely leads to sex. At some point the issue of sex is going to have to come up - the guy will want to know if it's happening or not, you'll have to mention going back to your room etc. Would you want to get more money if you DID "choose" to do additional things after the date? Because then that would have to be discussed too. If so, a cop could easily go on a date with you then bust you when sex (or anything additional) was mentioned. And if you were planning avoiding legal issues by making the additional activities free, you'd have to have charged a pretty high amount just for the the dinner, for it to be worth it to you. For a guy to pay that high amount knowing others have gotten sex at the end, and then have you tell him goodnight and try to head home... that wouldn't end well. You might be saving yourself legal issues but it could easily turn dangerous. On top of it all, I've heard of plenty of cases where cops bust girls on questionable evidence, then later it's thrown out in court. Which is nice, but it still means you got arrested in the first place. I don't see why you'd want to try so hard to get around everything, when you could just be an extremely tough screener. You could screen someone tougher than anyone ever has, and probably still get more clients that way than this method would.


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    Default Re: Surely not a new approach to escorting... but a safe one?

    Yea, theres no 100% foolproof screening method anyone could point you to.

    I'm sorry but I don't think escorting is a feasible choice for you...maybe finding one or two solid SDs would be a better option...


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    Default Re: Surely not a new approach to escorting... but a safe one?

    I have to chime in and say I agree....the method you are talking of just would not work. Its already a battle at times to make sure the guy leave s the donation at the beginning of the date. with all the scams, cash & dash and bait & switch out there, no guy in his right mind is going to prepay the full amount of the date.

    If you are going to be so paranoid and dont trust screening this is not the job for you.
    We get paid what we do *because* of the risks involved, not cause its safe.
    We just do everything possible to keep ourselves safe, but there are no guarantees.

    You can always try for non-sexual escorting though!!!
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