I have actually tried asking for a dance without actually using the word "dance," and idk if it's just me, but it seems like 9 times out of 10, when it's worded like that, the guys I talk to just.....don't.....get it. I'll say something like, "So, are you ready to go play/have some fun?" and they'll be like, "What do you mean?" or, "Do you mean, do I want a lap dance?" *sigh* Maybe I'm just not being specific enough, and I should really say something like, "Should I smother you with my tits now?" (I'm not totally comfortable using lines like that, so that would take some getting used to, haha.) Thanks for the suggestion about saying I don't want to bother them and I'll come back later! I think I'll try that.

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