Um okay, that's cool I guess. if camming depresses you and you don't want to do it anymore, great. Don't be a camgirl. Get a normal job. Be happy. Camming is certainly not for everyone, and if it makes you feel down on yourself, ashamed for using your T&A to make money, then you definitely should NOT be in the industry. But why does she think she has the right tell EVERYONE ELSE that they shouldn't become camgirls either? Oh I see, it's her advice. Well, my advice is to do what makes you happy and don't listen to people who get all preachy and try to guilt-trip you.
For the record, I don't care about heated tiles in my bathroom or vaulted ceilings (oh wait I have vaulted ceilings in my bedroom, nvm

). I actually don't make much money TBH, partially because I'm lazy (lol) but also because I also value the 'little things' over money just like she does. I love being able to spend all day with my husband and kids. Go on an impromptu trip to the lake whenever I feel like it. Go shopping whenever the mood strikes. Go on a roadtrip to visit family for a few days. Lay around and play videogames all day long if that's what I feel like doing.
If I had a regular job, I wouldn't be able to do any of those things. I couldn't take time off whenever I want. I would have to work 8-12 hours a day making SHIT income and I'd miss out on my kids growing up. A few years ago when I worked a regular job, I was scheduled to work on Christmas day. My family had rented a cottage a couple hours away and a bunch of my relatives that I hadn't seen in forever were all going to be there. I was so pissed off that I called in sick that day, just so I could drive up on Xmas eve, spend as much time with them as I could and then drive home the next night so I could get back to work the next morning. I couldn't really enjoy that time because I was stressed out over skipping work, and when I came back of course my boss was pissed off. All that bullshit, missing a holiday with my family all because of a shit job that paid $9 an hour. Fuck that.
Now I can work 2-4 hours a day and take the rest of the day off to do whatever I want, while still making enough money to pay my bills and have plenty of time leftover to raise my kids and pursue any hobbies I take an interest in. If I worked more I could probably afford the heated tiles and BMW, but I like hanging out with my family in a modest home more.
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