So, I was going to post this in AdultWork because some things run a bit differently there, but I realized this probably is a universal cam issue and I would love to hear as much input as possible.
Please tell me how you handle custies who ignore the concept of group/private. Honestly, out of 10 guys maybe 2 or 3 actually go straight to private for the things I only offer in private. ( C2C/fetish/roleplay/toys/directing me) I'll admit, I have on occasion been my own worst enemy, because that little voice says "you aren't going to make any money at all tonight if this keeps up", so I give in to a C2C or a little humiliation (especially if other guys aren't coming in). I also think my problem is that I enjoy performing more when there is interaction, and I have been giving way to much personal attention in group. I get caught up in the middle of group (with 1 guy) and he's like oh ...(insert request/position etc. here) and when I'm in the mood I roll with it. I know, I know...terrible training of these guys, but seriously now I am done and over it! My funloving self is being taken advantage of and I don't know how to turn it around now. How do I take it back from those who I have stupidly given in to???
One of my really steady regs who has very specific scripts etc. has always gone private, and yesterday he pops into group at a different time of day than usual, and says "My wife is out for a bit...don't have much time." It totally threw me off, and I did the show because he is a really good 5 day a week reg, but dammit...no one else wants to see me humiliate him, telling him to suck my tranny c&ck, or describe how his sister in law, whom I have a giant legal size pic of (poor girl) is going to abuse him a million ways to Sunday. How do you handle this ladies?? Would you have confronted him about it before the show? I hate the idea of loosing money by not taking a show in group, especially the super easy ones, but now I am over it, and I can't let that fear run my room.
Yesterday, I raised my group rate quite a bit (by AW standards) because I might as well get paid for what I offer, and I had a new surge of confidence in standing my ground and it worked pretty well as I went about my planned script. Because I like C2C as I feel the exhibitionists out there are doing half the work for me, when someone asks about it in group I've decided to allow it, but I let them know upfront if anyone else comes in I can't watch any longer. Bad decision?? I'm not really sure. At this point I'm just more concerned with breaking the personal attention and special treatment in group some have gotten used to. I take full responsibility here, but for me at least, I don't get that many groups with multiple guys on AW outside of the prime times at night, so I think I've gotten slack because they so often feel like a private.
How do I take it back ladies? How do I handle the guys who are accustomed to me being too lenient in group, and the regs who occasionally try me? Is there a way to keep them as custies, or will this end it? I'm tempted to just use the private button for a while, but don't want to loose the occasional decent group gatherings that come my way.
I have learned my lesson, and will accept spankings readily.![]()



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