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    I think that we can't fault guys for not knowing what a woman generally likes. How on earth would they know if they have no experience? In the United States, at least, there is ZERO sex-as-pleasure sex education and women are conditioned not to experience, enjoy, or talk about their pleasure. I know liberated, smart women who didn't have orgasms or even masturbate until their late 20s. They don't talk about it with their partners, or show their partners what a woman wants. I've had men come to me with no idea what to do, even after having several girlfriends.

    So if they don't learn in school, their parents don't tell them and their lovers don't tell them, where do they learn what to do?

    1)They do what feels good to them. They like their penises. They like pounding away at their penises. Why wouldn't we also like that? Why wouldn't we also experience the same arousal patterns and want to see the same things they do?

    2)Porn. That's us, ladies. I'm doing my master's study in human sexuality. We hear over and over and over in our program that young people (in the United States) say they learned what they know about sex primarily from commercial media and porn. http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/1...10410001678338 http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/1...24498809551413 It reminds me of a comic I love. The main characters are building sexually explicit snowmen. Someone else objects with, "think of the children!" and they shout back, "If they don't learn it from us, they'll learn it from the streets!" The person replies, "You ARE the streets!"

    Ladies, we ARE the streets. They don't hear it in school, their partners won't talk about it. We are where they're learning about sex. So yes, I do feel obligated to demonstrate what I actually like. Not every woman is the same in exactly what they like, but we are all remarkably similar. Not only do I feel I'm doing a service to those who actually want to learn, I feel that doing what I actually like (and telling the fuck off people who insist I don't know how a woman really "cums") enhances my appreciation of the gig, too. I'm having a good time, I'm not hurting myself, it makes me want to stay on cam longer.

    /end epic sexologist rant.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Renton View Post
    Him: we could meet... im 5ft 9 sexy italian with a 8 inch love stick...imagine playing with me... how would you do it
    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    Qualification, after I actually RTFT. I do think that some guys watch porn just for the shock and titillation of, "OMG, she stuck what, where?!" while totally understanding that "real" girls don't generally want to do that. Perhaps they know this because they've pitched it to their partners, who have promptly smacked them down. I also understand that sometimes guys come to see us because they want to see a specific fetish show or they're into something that they know they only want to see in porn or can only see in porn. I'm not talking about those guys. I'll do what those guys want if I'm capable and interested. I'm talking about the guys who think we can have an orgasm just from penetration, or that we like to just go from zero to slamming ourselves with 13" of dick, or that a totally bone dry pussy is, "soaking wet, bb!" or guys who don't know where the clit is and think every woman should have shooting, spurting orgasms in 10 seconds.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Renton View Post
    Him: we could meet... im 5ft 9 sexy italian with a 8 inch love stick...imagine playing with me... how would you do it
    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    Ladies, we ARE the streets.
    I think I just fell in love with your mind.
    You just concisely said everything that I've been thinking. Probably the reason this topic has been on my mind is because I've studied sexuality throughout my college career. (Personally I think it should be a major.)

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    isobel, can I just tag-team your brain and Randy Milholland? it would make my LIFE


    and probably also his

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    No complex bb!! I actually DO cum white as well. I'm sure that everyone is different - we womenfolk are such fascinating creatures!!
    My, I'm feeling embarrassed now =\
    Quote Originally Posted by MissJu View Post
    On cam, you can be unwashed, stinky but with makeup. And guys probably think you smell like roses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by housewench View Post
    isobel, can I just tag-team your brain and Randy Milholland? it would make my LIFE


    and probably also his
    He'd probably beg to differ. As far as I know, since I broke up with him he's not a big fan of me. I love him to pieces, miss him daily and he's a great guy, he just wasn't MY great guy. We could never make it work.


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    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    men also pretend that they don't mind doing the dishes, going to your mother's house or holding your purse while you try on shoes so they can get pussy.
    That's fake too. You think they feel bad?
    Does that set us up to expect all guys to do these things? Perhaps.
    Everybody fakes it.

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    omg now I am nerding out about you two kfjdladjfa;akdj

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