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    Ok so the old female manager from my first club (that I worked at on and off for a year) quit a while back. I haven't worked there in about a month. I went in on Saturday because two of my male friends wanted to go. I talked to some of the girls and the new manager. Now that the old one is gone, I was thinking about coming back. This club only has about 5 or 6 dancers, is in the sticks, but I made pretty decent money overall. The new male manager is from the city where a larger club with the same name is at. They said he is a temporary manager or something. Anyways,

    He told me that I had to audition again. He said that I would get the job if I showed him I could dance and could make money.

    He told me that I would have to pay a higher tip-out because I only work 3/5 days because I am in school. He said some girls just use that as an "excuse". The past three managers (including the owner's sister) didn't make me pay a higher tip-out, or other clubs I have worked at that are bigger in different cities.

    I was like I always follow the rules and come on time. And out of nowhere he said "except for the time you pissed in the trashcan". Wtf?


    I know I can make money and he isn't the worst manager I have seen in my life, but idk. Would you ladies give it another shot?

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    I wouldn't want to work there. They sound very unprossfessional and it doesn't sound like a club where your safety and well being is a concern. Besides, why would you want to work in a place where you're having this much trouble?

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    Yeah I kinda felt he was unprofessional with that comment. My safety was never an issue. Why do you think that? I never really had a huge problem there, I was just like wtf?

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    If you've built a reputation at that club for being the trash-pisser, you might expect to have to rebuild a decent reputation.

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    Yeah once. Some of those girls have reps being prostitutes, herion/coke and addicts and alcoholics and even known for fucking the staff. I think its way worst. But whatev.

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    Thanks for your input, even though nobody is really telling me if they though he was really rude.

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    People are rude every day, I deal with stupid comments ESPECIALLY from titty bar staff every day, and yeah girls can have all kinds of reputations for all kinds of things, and you don't know just how the management is dealing with them, but that's between them and management.
    In my opinion, you should be thankful this manager is even allowing you back in the club to make money, obviously if your incident was brought up with him at all it was something to be noted, and he could have easily told you to fuck off, and probably blacklisted you from nearby clubs as well. This does happen, for lesser incidents.

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    Yeah true. At first since the old manager quit I figured she didn't bring it up. I figured it was one of the dancers who said something after I left a month ago (figuring I was gone so I wouldn't hear about it from him and bring it up). The same dancers who I worked with for over a year. Spiteful. Oh well.

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    Guess I will not be going back. Most people seem against it.

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    Small clubs are so drama-filled, IMO. I'm sorry that they're giving you issues. I'd go somewhere else and come back in a year when a$$hat manager guy gets fired for doing something stupid... and if he's in with the dancer drama like that, it's likely to happen.

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    Dont make ur decision according to us on SW, make it according to how YOU FEEL. We are all just sounding boards here..Sounds like the new manager is trying to fuck u over and looks down upon u and I wouldnt want to work there, but thats just me..If there is only one or two SCs in ur area and theres slim pickings Id understand u being willing to go back..Just dont let them walk all over u just so u can get ur job back..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bunny8558 View Post
    Small clubs are so drama-filled, IMO. I'm sorry that they're giving you issues. I'd go somewhere else and come back in a year when a$$hat manager guy gets fired for doing something stupid... and if he's in with the dancer drama like that, it's likely to happen.
    I'm glad you agree with me that he came off as rude. Okay so I had one huge fuck-up, but that was the only negative thing people could say about me the whole time there compared to the list of things mentioned above some of the others have done. I felt his comment was rude regardless because he wasn't there and the fact that he tried to say I had to pay more (no other manager has EVER done that talking about "excuses"). Seriously I look better than all of his girls working there (only 6) and was a top earner. That's besides the point, but idk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    Dont make ur decision according to us on SW, make it according to how YOU FEEL. We are all just sounding boards here..Sounds like the new manager is trying to fuck u over and looks down upon u and I wouldnt want to work there, but thats just me..If there is only one or two SCs in ur area and theres slim pickings Id understand u being willing to go back..Just dont let them walk all over u just so u can get ur job back..
    I know idk if it's a race thing or the DUMB ASS peeing thing. Like that's the ONLY thing them bitches can say I did since Sept 2011 when I first started there. Yeah it is horrible, but really? It wasn't his place to say anything. Then the "girls in school just make excuses. There's no reason you can't work 4/5 of the days" comment was crazy. Excuses? I have school and internships 5 days, how the fuck am I gonna be working 4/5 days. Tried it in the past, and I was too exhuasted. Idk why he would look down on me. Yeah it's close but I don't want to be harassed or fucked over either.

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    Just out of curiousity...why did you piss in the trash can? If he's new & has already been told about that, it can't be good....
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    Cause I was hammered. Why not just tell me I couldn't try out?

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    Who would have thought that one drunken mistake would trump all the shit the other chicks have done. Like I deserved to be damed to hell and never get another chance. I bet the girls who fuck staff don't get this much hate.

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    It's okay because nobody is calling him an asshole or anything...I'M THE BIGGEST FUCK-UP IN THE WORLD. Bigger than the coke heads, herion addicts, and other fucked up bitches working there. Wow. Thanks.

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    I am a little mad, but I did get some good advice here! :-)

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    Girl, you need to let this go. Yeah, buddy was rude, and while no one is saying you're the biggest fuck up in the world, you did piss in a trash can and the reason that management looks down on that more than extras is because extras make them money. If you want to deal with the bullshit of paying a higher tip out and his attitude, just go back to the club and make your money.

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    Honestly, his attitude doesn't seem too out of the ordinary. A lot of managers are power trippers. You didn't say how much this extra tip out was..although I think it seems unfair, and although I agree his comment about "some girls use the school thing as an excuse " is ridiculous I do think he had a point with the garbage can peeing.

    We have a HUGE problem with this at my club. I'm a smell-sensitive person, and I can't tell you how many times I've wanted to throw up backstage because of this. Everyone deserves a sanitary place to work, and when you graduate school and get a real job, it's not like you can just pee in garbage cans because you've had too much coffee and the bathroom is far away from your desk lol
    What I'm trying to say, is if you make good money, just suck it up, learn from your mistake, and go back. The manager probably won't be there forever anyways.

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    I don't think its fair. So I will see. He may not let me come back smh.

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    I know work from the other staff (bouncers) is that he is temporary. Dick. Lol about the coffee thing, yeah it is a fire qualifying offense I know, but dude wasn't even there so he should have not spoke on past events that happened like 2 months before his ass even came and I was gone. I guess that's how it be.

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    Thanks Shanna and Mercedes for not bashing me hard as hell (I know it was horrible) and giving me constructive criticism. :-)

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    it's pretty normal for managers to allow girls they don't really want working there to allow them to but charge them more. it's their way of trying to make you quit, but if you choose to stay, they'll profit. and yes, if you don't want to be known as the girl who pissed in a trash can then you should find a new club. everyone I've ever worked with would have never let that go.

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    You peed in a trash can? I think your manager is awesome. I wish more managers would enforce the rules and get rid of girls that were doing disgusting things like that. It really is gross.

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