
Originally Posted by
djezcheeze
Yeah...not feeding into it and definitely not trying to offend. I always talk to my boyfriend about the career strippers at my work and how I wish I could do that for as long as they have, but honestly my brain and my body couldn't handle it. I love dancing, I know I cant do it forever, so I'm planting seeds now. What I'm saying is I don't choose my job as my identity and that's what keeps people from judging me. I don't think it's healthy no matter what career you're in to be identified by that career. Even people at the bank ask me what i do and i say I'm an entertainer at a gentlemen's club. T hey are very nice to me whenever I come in. I have my own personality, hobbies, passions, etc. People like me because I'm fun to be around and don't take shit seriously. Maybe if us dancers weren't so "omg people see me negatively" people wouldn't see us negatively. I don't act like it's taboo or it's a big freaking secret. And if someone has a problem with it, well fuck them. It's definitely not me that gives dancers a bad name because everyone i know knows what I do and they don't judge me. I don't do anything illegal and it is a legitimate job.... unless you're sucking dick or fucking your clients, there's no reason to be so defensive. Seriously, everyone needs to chill the fuck out, get some daylight, or like a hobbie or something.
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