So I have a buddy in the club who I am fast growing weary of.
Bit of background. I am friendly with this girl, and during the busy season last year we teamed up a bit to get some double shows for bucks parties. At the time, I honestly cannot recall which of us were securing more of the shows, myself, or her, so in the interest of being objective, lets just assume it was 50/50. Anyway. What I honestly believe in terms of us, is that our look is quite different, with her being a natural looking Hong Kong Chinese (very pretty) and myself being a tattooed, boob-jobbed, multi-toned hair, circus freak. (OK, so I'm exaggerating, but I definitely have a "look" to me) When it is hectic, and shows were in high demand, it was easy to book them together, but I have seen few returns on joint hustles in some time now. We have very different niche markets.
What I have noticed, also, is that, now that I have a few regulars, she is realising the $ potential, and trying to team up with me to:
a) spend time and hang out while we are both in the club OR
b) get a slice of the pie when she has no regulars of her own in
I would like to assume the first, but I am beginning to fear the latter.
The other night when my reg came in, she sat with us, which was ok, as he will happily buy us drinks and entertain anyone I would like to join us. We have given him a double show in past, so she knows him. Touching base is fine, but she sat and waited and came back continually, waiting on him to say he was going to take us for a show. Usually he takes me, and one other girl, but up until we took her, it was a different girl every time he visited, mostly my choice, sometimes his. Other girls like to sit with us too, but mostly they give us some time to catch up at some point. Once he was ready for a show, she was onstage, and he asked who I wanted to join us that night. It was actually another girl, and I flagged her over, let her know we were taking her, and then returned to find the other girl (my buddy) back at the table. I had to make a rather awkward excuse about his mate choosing the second girl, as I really didn't want to hurt her feelings. My regular then felt so bad, he promised to take her for a show later. Once we were alone, he said he really wanted someone different tonight, but felt so guilty, he felt pressured to offer her a show later. We later went for a double show, me him, and my buddy. I just felt bad that he was pressured into promising her something, when he has no obligation to any girl in that place... not even me. I mean, it's great that I got 2 shows, one with each girl (plus a few more sneaky ones on my own) but I am a totally no pressure girl, and I have the type of custys that don't like to make girls feel bad/left out.
Then tonight, another guy I have not seen in ages came in, he tips me 50's and often. She came over and asked to join us while we were catching up. She could see he was hesitant, not wanting another girl there, and said "just till I go on stage in a few minutes" to which he said OK. She got him to order her a drink, and then left it at the table as to be able to come back. I glanced over during my stage set to see him tipping her some funny money, as she had returned to the table. When she left for a while, he told me he wasn't keen on her, and she very clearly came over for some of the money I was getting from him. He said he had done a lot of courses in reading people, body language and eye movements, and could read people fairly well. He felt that she was hustling him. He also said you can tell when I was not impressed at what was happening. She also asked me privately if he takes me for private shows, which I told her "usually not". I always downplay what happens with my regulars to other girls.
I just got to the point tonight, where I burst out in the dressing room "I can't sit anywhere without her joining me!" to which the other dancer replied "yeah, I noticed that."
I really get along well with her outside the club, but I am often a solo agent in the club, and I really don't want to work on guys in teams so much. Especially when I can leave the table for a bit and see the girl continuing to hustle without me. That looks like cutting in to me. This is also a girl with her own, exceedingly high spend regulars, which I have never even been introduced to, for the most part. I certainly would not expect her to ask me in on one of her regular shows.
I just wanna do my thing, make my money, do it quietly (she is one of the rare ones that actually notices when I am getting money discreetly from someone and makes a big deal about it- I generally just say "he doesn't spend much, but he's nice", and that throws a lot of them off even approaching) and not have issues with other girls getting in my space. I really see why some girls are so guarded about who/when/how much $ they get. She caught me counting my cash from him in a discreet corner and was like "ohhhhh he's been tipping you quite well!" to which I just said "some was from xxx customer too" which was true, just only $20 of the $300 I was counting.
I'm just at a point now where I am thinking of asking her to just give me space if I am with a regular, and only sit down if I ask her to. It just makes me look bad when she sits down as my friend and starts a very obvious hustle on the guy, as that's not my style at all. Probably next time my 2-girl regular is in, I will do this. Hopefully it makes the point. She is not hugely liked at the club and I am beginning to think this may be why.
Thoughts/suggestions/feedback???



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always makes him want to spend more...)

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