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    Default Does being more aggressive help your sales?

    I'm not usually an aggressive sales-woman, I tend to be more laid back. I had been doing fine with this approach until the last couple months. It's been tough competition at my club, new and different girls have been hired, and not as many people have been coming in. I try to be laid back, sexy, let the money come to me and just be sexy and flirty. I warm the guys up and hint at dances, but it doesn't seem to be enough. At one point they used to ask me. Now I see girls basically dragging guys to the back. I was thinking that would look too desperate. I have a hard time coming across as laid back, yet aggressive at the same time. I think that's what really makes money, but i'm not sure how to approach that. I've read hustle hut up and down and have yet to find an answer on this.

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    Default Re: Does being more aggressive help your sales?

    The thing is, if you aren't an aggressive, demanding person you can't fake being one.
    Think of it this way: you are a girl, so I assume you like shopping?
    When I go to my favorite store, I will walk in, look a ONE top for 2 seconds and a salesgirl comes out of nowhere asking if she can get me a room, find me a size etc
    I move on to the next thing I like, same thing happens.

    I feel uncomfortable and jumped on.
    Then again, if I receive NO assistance when I'm shopping, I get annoyed if I can't find a size etc and sometimes just walk out.

    Basically, put yourself in their perspective. I use the shopping analogy since I've never been into strip clubs or naked girls.
    Once you do that, it's easy to figure out if you are coming on too strong or not strong enough.

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    If you're just hinting at dances and basically waiting for customers to ask you for them, you're definitely not being aggressive enough. I find it helps to frame it this way: customers come to the club hoping to spend time and money on a pretty lady for her company and, yes, dances. By not asking customers for dances, you're depriving them of what they came for and thus ruining their evening. A little dramatic, yes, but it helps to make you feel more comfortable in asking for dances if you focus on the fact that it's clearly what they want if they came to the club.

    You don't have to be super aggressive and pushy by dragging customers to the back. Begging and desperation =/= aggressive hustling. You just have always be closing: "hint" at dances throughout your entire interaction (ie. keep the conversation fun, sexy, flirty) and then tell them when it's time to go to the back for some fun.

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    Default Re: Does being more aggressive help your sales?

    I started being cutesy aggressive and it does work. Well also having big knockers too
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: Does being more aggressive help your sales?

    I am quite laid back too (not to the extreme that I dont even ask for dances though!) and it works on nights when there arent many girls, but on busy nights I need to step it up and move my ass if I want to make a nice amount of money...the men might like a laid back approach but it will not help you in the slightest when competition is aggressive! You dont have to be aggressive, just work faster, and do ask them to come with you, dont waste your time by waiting for them to ask you!

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    Well it's not like I just sit there. I do make money...usually I'll be making about 300...usually when I'm really hustling i can make 4-5. there are a lot of girls who are barely making anything and then there are some that are really hustling and making more. I just want to up my game. I've been having issues with anxiety lately so sometimes I will just stop over, say hi, and leave...then see another girl bank off the same guys. It pisses me off that I'm such a goddamn pussy sometimes.

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    Default Re: Does being more aggressive help your sales?

    I say assertive is more the word... although when the girl-to-customer ratio is not in your favor, the club can seem like a shark tank and you have to be aggressive in a subtle way, if that makes any sense. If I've been sitting with a guy for 10-15 minutes and he hasn't hinted at dances, I'll tell him I'd like to take him in the VIP. If it sounds like he's contemplating it, I'll try to help sway his decision by putting on a very cute expression and saying something like, "c'mon, I'm so adorable, how could you say no to me?" That usually helps them cave in. If they still say no, it's time to move on to the next.

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    Default Re: Does being more aggressive help your sales?

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    If you're just hinting at dances and basically waiting for customers to ask you for them, you're definitely not being aggressive enough. I find it helps to frame it this way: customers come to the club hoping to spend time and money on a pretty lady for her company and, yes, dances. By not asking customers for dances, you're depriving them of what they came for and thus ruining their evening. A little dramatic, yes, but it helps to make you feel more comfortable in asking for dances if you focus on the fact that it's clearly what they want if they came to the club.

    You don't have to be super aggressive and pushy by dragging customers to the back. Begging and desperation =/= aggressive hustling. You just have always be closing: "hint" at dances throughout your entire interaction (ie. keep the conversation fun, sexy, flirty) and then tell them when it's time to go to the back for some fun.
    Thank you shanna for such useful tips!

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