I have been dancing for quite some time and while doing so got to know quite a few other strippers and developed friendship relationship with them. While some are extremely successful, others just cannot exceed $400-450 range. Here's my observation on what they do wrong:
1) Subconsciously looking for a boyfriend/partner/sugar daddy. Some girls, as I noticed, come to the club and just hang out for an hour or so with one guy just to get one or two $20 dance at the end of his visit. Then, I see them moving on to another guy, drinking and laughing with them and having a good time, or just sitting on his lap, starring at the universe. LOL. Then, at the end of the night, they are complaining how this a**hole did not give them money and that did not buy anything. But she kept sitting with them because the rest are just loosers, there are not too many customers in the club or they just want to seem busy. In my practice sitting for hours with someone who isn't spending will not earn you money. If he's not buying, move on. Who cares if he's cute or keeps promising a dance or buys you food and drinks. Stripping is hard enough to be working for food only.
2)Not liking stripping. If you don't like to dance/get naked/people staring at you or simply hate men, you should get out of this business for you own sake. Doing something you hate or don't enjoy will only destroy your mood and self-esteem. But you heard that strippers make a lot, in fact you see some of them doing it every time you work. True, but if you have been in business for a while and still don't make as much as others, and, especially if you hate it, quit. And do not feel too bad about quitting. At the end of the day, stripping is not the most prestigious job one can have. It is worth the money, but if there is no money, it is not worth anything.



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i think the things i keep doing wrong is, not smiling enough, looking bored, being insecure about my body, and letting ppl waste my time like you pointed out. there are nights when i make upwards of 800 but those are rare.i try not to be greedy and I'm grateful for the money that i do earn because before stripping i was making 400 a week working 7 days..idk what do good strippers generally make in your area?




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