Being so new, I'm really trying to clearly set my boundaries when it comes to contact. Our LDs are bikini only so I don't allow any touching where my costume is covering (I do wear tiny bottoms not a thong, I don't mind if they touch the cheek area that's exposed). I've always been uncomfortable with guys touching me sexually (I don't hook up w strangers, even when I'm out partying like in Vegas w my girlfriends), but because I know this is a job, the rubbing of my arms/legs/midsection hasn't been incredibly bothersome. The thing is, I see all the other girls in the dance booths HEAVILY grinding/nuzzling w customers, sticking their boobs in their face, etc. I even saw (isolated incident) a girl actually making out w one the other night. Is this a normal level of contact for a bikini only club?? I'm not too worried about extras occurring as I know our management is pretty strict about it (there are cameras everywhere and they've sent a girl home for rubbing a guy's crotch on the outside of his jeans w her hand), but I'd like some reassurance that I can still make decent money w LDs without outright dry humping during the first song even when all the girls seem to be doing it and my customer sees that happening. Also, I've had a couple instances where a customer's given a little kiss on my midsection; I personally don't mind it but only if they're like 3-4 dances in -- how am I supposed to verbalize that to them? Advice please! Thank you!
xo



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