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    So, I've had an influx of men (?) who come into my room claiming that they're 12-14 and that they stole a parents credit card and then take me private. I've been going on the assumption that they are just RPing and age isn't brought up again in my room, just dumb questions like "I came in you. You pregnant bb!" and things that SOUND like an adult pretending to be naive. I've never had anything bad happen to me as a result of these privates, no warnings or anything so I'm assuming Cams.com is just going on the same theory I am. But I'm starting to get paranoid that I'm going to get in trouble for this.

    So I'm here to ask, what would you ladies do? Assume he's into a role-play of hooking up with an older sisters friend when he was a kid or would you just insta-ban?

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    Insta-ban. Everyone knows underage is illegal. Save your ass and ban them. If you want to play with fire ("are they or aren't they of age?") then do it via indy.







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    Insta-ban. Like Hayden.

    I have found that there is a difference between the guys that say "I am 15" and the ones that are roleplaying. The ones that rp, for the most part, ASK. "Do you do ageplay?".

    The only exception would be IF I did ageplay, they had already asked about it, we were in pvt, and THEN they started talking like that.
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    Lesson learned. Though I don't get why these boys are being honest about their age! *idiots*

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    I don't usually ban them, but when they tell me they're underage, I cover up and tell them we can talk but that we can't do any shows.
    Does cams.com have a policy about this type of thing?
    I know SM is very strict about it- you can't even do age roleplay without breaking a rule.
    I usually make sure to steer clear of those types of privates, just to be safe. Cuz I don't wanna know what happens to me to make me sorry, ya know?

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    Quote Originally Posted by StephanieXS View Post
    Lesson learned. Though I don't get why these boys are being honest about their age! *idiots*
    Just saw this- I actually had someone tell me that the people who tell you they're underage are probably cops- but since you've never gotten in trouble, maybe that's not true. Like I said in my other post- better safe than sorry.

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    Yup, insta-ban here too. I not only ban them, I send a ticket to support immediately detailing the time and what was said. I've actually gotten a few long-time SM members banned because of it. SM doesn't take credit card fraud (which is what they're implying as well as the underage thing) lightly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by caitir View Post
    I don't usually ban them, but when they tell me they're underage, I cover up and tell them we can talk but that we can't do any shows.
    WHY? I'm not sure if I am missing something, but it sounds like you are encouraging guys that are claiming to be underage to hang out in free chat and talk to you...
    Or are you working on a paid-chat only site, and still being paid just to talk to these guys?
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    Quote Originally Posted by caitir View Post
    Just saw this- I actually had someone tell me that the people who tell you they're underage are probably cops- but since you've never gotten in trouble, maybe that's not true. Like I said in my other post- better safe than sorry.
    Well that's good to know. Just waiting for the cops to show up now... I never even thought the cops showing up in free was a thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by caitir View Post
    Just saw this- I actually had someone tell me that the people who tell you they're underage are probably cops- but since you've never gotten in trouble, maybe that's not true. Like I said in my other post- better safe than sorry.
    I keep them in chat for as long as it takes to open their profile, copy-paste their lines into the Report window and ban them. Cops, schoolboys or roleplayers - underage sex, even if a roleplay is a) clearly against the site rules and against the law; b)completely not my thing.
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    Anything with age, I do tell them I'm not allowed and then send one of my pretyped messages, which is the code of conduct from SM "Performer agrees that s/he will not violate any law concerning obscenity. Performer shall not portray depictions of sex involving any person under the age of eighteen 18 years of age, rape, incest, bestiality, fisting, necrophilia, any form of minor activity, urination and/or defecation" easy enough and I cover my ass too. If he continues, I ban him

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    I tell them that the site does not cater to the underage and send in a report. Like Decalyn said, that is not only illegal because of the supposed age of the member - it's supposed credit card fraud as well. If you happen to ACTUALLY be catering to 14 year olds who stole a credit card, and the site gets a charge back and investigates... who knows what will happen.
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    I just ban them.
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    Someday the girls who don't care about minors in chat is going to get a cam2cam with Chris Hansen. LOL.







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    I ban and report now.stupidly,i WAS only banning thinking it was guys just trying to RP until i had a guy that kept saying "i like your boobz" etc in free chat,convinced him to go private but he was acting weird and not answering a single question the way a guy normally would,his answer to everything was pretty much "you have big boobs" and "i like big boobs" but hey whatever,ive had much much worse/annoying.so he requests c2c,i open it up and lo and behold,MAYBE a 12-14 yr old boy on cam (im being generous with the age,he coulda been 10 even)with his face pressed close to the camera with a shit eatin grin on his face like the goddamned Cheshire cat after getting head from Alice.he then exits exclusive before i can even press a button,THEN he logs back into my room,and continues the i love boobs mantra as im steadily filling out a report and banning his stupid ass.a serial exhibitionist/flasher in the making for sure lol.the one good thing is that all of this took maybe 2 min tops from the time he took me Xcl til i swung my ban hammer like a mighty she-Thor.i was thoroughly FURIOUS,shaken,somehow slightly amused.I can only imagine how i would have felt if i had been in private with him for 15,30,45 min etc.before someone gets all offended,i only say slightly amused bc i think kids can be hysterical and I cant help but remember some of the shithead/badass stuff i did as a kid myself,Im sure i made many an adult hate me lol newbie lesson #48-if they sound like an immature 10 yr old,they just may well be!
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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    Someday the girls who don't care about minors in chat is going to get a cam2cam with Chris Hansen. LOL.
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    Thou should ban like Thor with his mighty hammer! I like the idea of quoting site policy too, awesome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BluJ View Post
    I like the idea of quoting site policy too, awesome.
    I used to do it, too, but the most common answer was "other models do it")))). I have a feeling that SM themselves don't bother reminding their customers about the rules. Frankly speaking, having seen some examples of SM advertising, I won't be surprised if they turn out to brag about "having no rules at all" and just leave the models to deal with all the pervies on their own.
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