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    Default Advice about SD needed for newbie please help

    I’ve been camming a little over two months and one of my regulars from the start expressed last night that he wanted to take care of me. To sum up he offered 5k a month for at least two meetings a month initially and that yes he would want to be sexual eventually but he would be willing to hold out until we met a few times and got to know each other. He lives on the other end of the country but travels for work and said he would come to me, but eventually would like if I traveled with him every couple months or so for a few days at a time in the future if I decided I was comfortable enough with him to do so. He also said that he would be willing to get me his medical records to show he’s all clean and company profile info and whatever personal info I wanted to make sure he’s not a creeper. He also told me to take a few days to really think it over. All of this screams legit to me and I’m really leaning toward doing this because where I live 5k a month would pay my rent for 6 months and then some. But my mama always said if it’s too good to be true it usually is.

    While going through posts about finding sd’s or in this case an exclusive john, (yes I realize once I get sexual with him I’m pretty much a prostitute) it says to let the guy handle the negotiating and that you should never really ask for anything, but to see if this guy is for real I thought I would ask him to send me an amazon gift card to help pay for Christmas and stuff after all he wants to take care of me and he knows I have kids and I would totally be upfront and say it was to be sure I knew he wasn’t jerking me around. I guess the reason I’m posting this is because I’m such a newb to the adult biz and wanted to know if I’m going about this the right way. Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Advice about SD needed for newbie please help

    Get your money upfront or don't be surprised if he bounces after you fuck him. It sounds like you're comfortable fucking him, but make sure to prolong it as much as possible to get as much money as you can out of him. Meet in public places and make sure someone knows where you are at all times - keep in touch with them via text throughout the meetings so they know if something happens. Do a background check on the guy.

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    ^ What she said. Most cam guys now will try to meet with cam models. If he's asking right away after a few shows then I would probably pass on him. Milk him for shows for now. If he's not spending alot now don't even bother. $5,000 sounds nice and if he met you on a cam site then he needs to keep up with that . Still If he's not even spending close to that now I wouldn't take him seriously.

    I had a gross guy offer me $3,000 and I refused him. He was crude desperate, pushy and demanding. All in all he not only didn't have that type of money but he wanted to get high off of getting me out my house to meet him. He pissed off when I told him to get an escort for 10 hours at that rate.

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