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    I've been in a relationship with my significant other for a year now. We have no major problems and love each other very much, and the sex is great. However, sometimes I feel very "comfortable" with him, and we have fallen into a routine. What can I do to help bring back some spice into the relationship? We don't go on very many dates because we're both broke, so I can't do anything too fancy.

    Any advice is appreciated!

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    Sounds just like me and my bf! I want to hear advice too lol

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    Time alone.... Out of the house.... Picnics in good weather... Nightly walks, while holding hands... Spending time together talking never hurts.
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    Looking to spice-up the relationship?

    I recommend role playing
    When life gives you lemons, make lemonade... then find someone whose life gave them vodka, and have a party.

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    I recommend turning off the TV and computers, then talking face to face.

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    Default Re: Spicing up a relationship!

    Well, I just had my son but I discovered that (despite the routine that involves caring for a newborn) being flirty and playful at all times helps a lot in keeping things going. Since I'm still with stitches I just suck his dick in different places of the house every other day until I'm healed down there. Having sex in different parts of the house helps to spice up things as well (that's how I went into labor, actually, by having sex around the house one night).

    What Mikef said is very true; go out, do things together...hey, even going out of the house for a walk helps a lot.





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    Go to Lovingyou.com...tons of lil things to do.

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    I tried BDSM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MargaritaVillain View Post
    Looking to spice-up the relationship?

    I recommend role playing
    I agree with this. If you can afford to buy some costumes (nurse, student, cop, etc.) that helps, but you can make up your own, too. You can read erotic literature together or watch porn - but pick the right porn that you both enjoy.

    Also, I recommend this book: Hot Games for Mind-Blowing Sex. Erotic Fantasies You and Your Partner Can Try at Home. by Leinie Speiser.
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    Tracey Cox "Hot Sex"
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    What can I do to help bring back some spice into the relationship? We don't go on very many dates because we're both broke, so I can't do anything too fancy.
    bring home a willing girlfriend !!!???

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