How many of you do this? Do you treat your favorite entertainer on her birthday or special holidays? Do custies do this any more?
How many of you do this? Do you treat your favorite entertainer on her birthday or special holidays? Do custies do this any more?





I don't buy gifts for entertainers. Honestly, I think they would rather just have you spend the money on them at the club. Also, I enjoy giving gifts to people I know and know a little something about so that I can personalize the gift and the act of giving it. A favorite dancer may not always be someone that I really know beyond spending money on her. I do buy xmas and birthday gifts for two or three friends of mine who happen to be dancers but that is very much a reciprocal thing (not my idea since I'd much rather give a gift than get one)



I will sometimes give a Christmas bonus, extra gratuity, around the holidays to a fave.
Haven't given a true gift in many years. I have enough trouble picking out, shopping and wrapping gifts for my real life friends and relatives lol!![]()





I bought a Christmas gift once for a good and routinely visited favorite. However, I have historically been a gypsy in my clubbing and haven't had many solid reg/fav situations, so that somewhat skews my experience with this. I have heard that it still not uncommon with some good regulars, particularly around Christmas time.
I hope this is also open regarding ladies on cam...
Anyhow, early on, I bought my Russian ladyfriend a Hitachi (only Russian I know for sure on SM that has one) and some nice items from Wicked Weasel. As the nature of our interactions morphed, I still kept up with some items here and there. Sent flowers to her house along with her favorite candy, bought some Ugg Conor boots as a gift when she got her braces removed, and sent her favorite flowers (white lilies) along with a bottle of Versace Bright Crystal when she was having a down day, and also so she would have something nice and new to take on an upcoming trip to Moscow.
I am detail oriented, so I hope nobody takes me mentioning specific gifts instead of generalized gifts means I am some sort of corporate schill or anything. Thanks!
Thanks for the responses!
Akuk: Yes! I run a site that is open to dancers (bikini, stripper, burlesque, etc...), cam girls, really, any sexy performer... And p.s. sounds like you have great taste![]()
I know gift cards are impersonal but I usually bought a yorkdale gift card for my fav. Its a huge mall around here.
And if I meet a new girl I enjoy, ill come back the next time shes working and drop somerhing off to her





I love giving dancers outfits. Started doing it back 2 1/2 years ago when I started buying the model for our website outfits for her to wear in the videos--and her shows for other guys. Everybody was happy.
I also got her a bunch of toys at one point, including the aforementioned Hitachi Wand, with attachments.
After a while she had all the fucking toys, lingerie, and outfits she could use.
Then I realized how much I enjoyed giving the presents, and started giving local dancers lingerie, shoes, outfits, etc. But you really have to watch out who you give them to, and how you do it. Way, way too many will misinterpret your offer as your being a 'sucker' type. Never give anything to any woman who doesn't clearly appreciate it, especially if you are already buying a lot of dances from them--which automatically jeopardizes your equal standing in their eyes.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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That's true though some of us don't mind being a sucker. I guess there are so many variables to why people do things




this is how most of me and my friends feel unless it's a really big item. I've noticed a lot of dancers are careless with their spending or can't justify a super expensive item for themselves so when they get a big ticket item like a designer bag or ipad or something like that they go ballistic. same with big payments- they really appreciate when customers "buy" their dui lawyer, boob job, rent $$, etc. even if it's the same amount that the customer would have already spent, they really really appreciate it when they hand over the exact amount and say it's for ____. but other than really expensive things, girls would rather you spend cash in the club. some creative gifts will be passed around the DR for everyone to look at but in the end they are often forgotten.
oh and food. for some reason I've noticed a lot of girls go crazy when their regular will bring them their favorite cheap dish at a chinese restaurant or something, or bring a cheap bottle of booze midshift. I don't understand that at all.





Maybe because it's a gesture of appreciation, and can mean so much more than another creep spending 20$ to try and assault them.
And yeah I have seen a lot of presents that shouldn't have been given. Sometimes I wind up with them too; the girl will leave it in the booth & never return, or sometimes thay just say 'I don't want this' & give it to me.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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i do it because it turns me on.....oddly





Yup.
As you know, some girls don't to eat before they start their shifts or simply get hungry again during their shifts. Since many are not allowed to leave their clubs midshift and are hesitant to setup food deliveries just for themselves, simple things like pizza and Chinese food suddenly develop a premium. It is amazing how much gratitude one can earn from a targeted food delivery for a hungry dancer.![]()
Now booze is readily accessible at the clubs that I frequent and customers are often happy to buy drinks for dancers, but I've been asked to pick up cigarettes on my way to the club. Like food, it is amazing how grateful a dancer can be for a $9 pack of smokes, especially when she is in desperate need of a nicotine fix. Of course I have to wait until she comes back from her smoke trip to receive a proper thanks, but there it is - LOL.
I don't do any of this stuff too often and certainly not for every dancer that I deal with, but from time to time these things can be a win-win, or at least a win for me.
The one time I bought a Christmas present it was a gift card to Sephora, of sufficient value to allow her to purchase a few things there. I am fairly confident that she took it with her from the club and put it to good use. When I saw what that place charges even for things like lipstick and nail polish, my jaw nearly dropped - LOL.





I have bought an occasional gift or two back in my days of visiting, generally in a case where I expected a gift back or had previously received one. It was never anything pricey but perhaps something AI could get for them because of contacts I had in town, things like tickets or passes or other things I fell into possession of. I never felt obligated to do this but was never reluctant to do them favors when possible. RI is a place where its all about who you know.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill
Do it if you want but don't expect reciprocity.
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