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    So I've just started working at a new club. This club is infinitely better in terms of regular earning potential compared to the other clubs in the city.

    Now, I'm kind of torn about what to do. Tonight, after a dance, I got accused of kissing a client
    by the doorman. I was dancing with another girl and straddled my legs on the chair to put my boobs above his face. I can kind of see how this position plus my long hair can lead someone looking in briefly to believe that I was kissing the client, but still, if one had thought I was doing any extras, would one not tell me then and there to stop it and get out? Anyway, when accused I got pretty riled up and got into a mini argument as he did not want to listen to a word I said.

    The girl I was dancing with went to the doorman after I told her about it and told him outright that I was not doing anything, however then he got all belligerent on her and told her to mind her own business.

    I don't think I've ever been so freaking pissed off in my dancing career. I've never had management or staff talk to me with such disrespect and as such, have packed up my locker and am still stewing at home. If he had actually listened to what I said, and regardless of whether he believed me, at least admitted to being unsure, I would have been okay about it. I wish they freaking had cameras in the booth so they could freaking check that I dance 'cleanly'.

    My dilemma now is whether I actually want to work at a club with such disrespectful staff. Should I ignore the brutes and keep working there and am no longer semi-picked on as a newbie or should I go work at my old club where management are pretty decent but earning potential greatly varies ie. minus on some nights and banking on others?

    Sorry for the huge vent in advance!

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    Default Re: Need to vent...

    vent or dont vent, there is no need to apologise if its causing you distress. why on earth do so many girls put up with clubs owned, operated, staffed by fucktards? why dont women get organised and start their own?

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    Default Re: Need to vent...

    I got hired as a waitress some years ago, the other waitresses there didn't know I was going to work so they treated me like they treated their customers, with a lot of interest, tons of compliments and full attention on me. When I showed up the first day and they realized I was going to work there, their views of me suddenly flipped and they purposely tried to get me fired by messing up the cash register when I was working at it, stealing my tips, they were very rude toward me, and insulted me for no good reason in front of everyone.

    That's just the way most girls are and I don't think you can get away from it. They're just everywhere. But if you keep smiling and never show that the girls are getting to you, they'll eventually see that they can't affect you and accept that you're here to stay.

    If she bothers you again, maybe you can just very politely tell her she's being immature and then continue working.

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    I'd stay stick it out a couple more days
    That's seriously messed up for him to go off on you like that. That's there own fault for having no cameras, and id guarantee you someones doing stuff back there
    I notice a lot of management likes to act tough around the girls, etc and if their in a bad mood then they act so unreasonably. Like my friend got fired from a club for something she didn't even do.
    But my suggestion to you is to have three strike policy, put that down as strike number one and make a strike for every problem you encounter. Maybe you'll go back next time and everything will be fine, or maybe not. I just say don't give up right away

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    At the clubs I've worked bouncers are lower on the totem pole than the dancers in managements eyes because they don't bring in guests or sell anything. One complaint won't get a guy fired, but if enough girls have problems with a bouncer for it to come to their attention or he's chasing good girls away he will. I'd go in early and talk to a manager.. say you understand he is doing his job and you appreciate that the club keeps you safe, but him talking to you like that really bothered you. You never know they could be buddies, but I doubt it if the other girl talked to him.. And if it's the sorta place where that's the case you don't want to work there anyways.

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    The floor staff at the club I am currently working in is also very disrespectful. I am choosing to stick it out for just a bit longer, as it is the best club in the area. I've wrestled with the same questions.
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    Default Re: Need to vent...

    Thank you for the moral support lovelies!

    I've decided I'm going to stick it out this weekend (there is a big event on in town) and then go back to my old club starting next week.

    I'd much rather be treated respectfully and enjoy being in my workplace than constantly being on edge wondering who is going to yell at me next.

    The managers of the club are very 'buddy buddy' with the doormen as the doormen have been working there for 20 years+ so no point talking to the managers. One of the managers is also constantly trying to crack onto me, pulling me into hugs and touching my waist and hands which I find repulsive.

    Now to drag my arse into work tonight ughhhhh.

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