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    Mind Blowing Don't know anyone at my club! Need to vent...

    So I've been on my maternity leave from the club since August. I've kept in touch with a few girls I worked with, and they all left and moved on to different clubs! All those girls that left were his favorites! Shoot, they were my favorites! My boyfriend and I were going to go out there for his birthday next week, as our last hurrah before the new baby is here. I just don't know if we should go there or to one of the clubs my friends work at. I want him to have a good time. We're the type of people that would rather buy drinks and have a girl or few hang out with us and he gets a dance or 2 each hour to spice it up. Usually I end up tipping each girl $20-$40 a few times an hour, $5 after stage sets, and we don't care if the girl(s) go off once in a while and hustle. (Because I know we aren't "high rollers" paying them enough to completely offset our time wasting) We just want to hang out. But girls that don't know us are hesitant to come over to us even if we invite them over, they don't realize how much cash we carry into a club. So when his faves aren't availiable he gets really wasted because he just buys LOTS of drinks instead.

    Then there's the whole matter of going back to work. I know I'm not there to make friends, but it sure makes things easier when you have people you get along with. I wanted to go back to my club for at least a few months after baby recovery. At my current club I have regular customers that I know I can make money from while my body recovers. I get along with the owners, so if I have a tough time getting back in the groove and can't make the weekly minimum for lapdances, they'll let me stay and get my swagger back. I'm afraid if I go to a new club that I'll fail. That customers won't like the post baby, untoned body. That I won't be able to talk my way into their wallets.

    Well I have until February to figure it out. Stupid feelings.....

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    Default Re: Don't know anyone at my club! Need to vent...

    I'd visit a club with your friends for your night out. It'll be way more fun than hoping you get approached by a new dancer, who may not be down for your arrangement.

    As for dancing again, ask your friends why they left your home club. It could still be worth starting there just to get into the swing of things (and let your customers know you'll be working elsewhere if anything so they can follow you). Get a waist cincher or wear dresses to cover your body on the floor and on stage.

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    Default Re: Don't know anyone at my club! Need to vent...

    Agree^^ Go to the other club for your night out, you'll have a better time seeing your friends then trying to convince new girls that your ok. For when you go back to work, I would stick with your old club for a bit until your back in the swing of things after your pregnancy. Sometimes it's easier to work when your friends aren't there, you just focus on work. Plus you said you have a few regs there. If it's slow (maybe your friends left because it's slow) then make your decision to leave after that. Good luck

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    Default Re: Don't know anyone at my club! Need to vent...

    So the boyfriend saved the day. For the birthday club trip we're going to go visit one of my friend's clubs. The way he put it, "It's a gentleman's club. They have comfy chairs, waitresses, expensive bar food, and a cool fishtank in the lapdance room." Lord knows that at 8 months pregnant I don't want to wait at the bar to get our table drinks (My club is too divey for waitresses even though it would help a lot). The DJ plays a fair variety of music to keep all customers happy (usually a rock, rap, pop, repeat rotation) so we wouldn't have to pay to hear music we want to hear. When he gets drunk and hungry he can have some over priced bar food to hold him over until we leave the bar. And the club is in Indy, so they'll have a good variety of dancers (if the ones we liked last time happen to not be there anymore) And if we don't like the girls we can just give my friend all our money

    I do know why they all left the club, for the most part it involved drama that a lot of the girls have and I somehow have avoided. But I do think I'll be heading back to my club while I tone up. My home club is getting some renovations done (a dressing room bigger than a closet, lap dance room remodel, and adding champange rooms), so if the reno doesn't bring in more quality customers I can head out to my friend's club when I have my hustle back. I can deal with not having friends work with me. I just have to find a totally solo hustle. I would team up with some of the friends and we would either get doubles or at least talk up the girl they liked better (at least if one of us got a dance it wasn't a waste of time). I can work alone, it was just nice to have the option the change it up.

    I'll have it all figured out eventually. For now I'm going to take it easy, make some videos of me rubbing my belly or something and enjoy the boyfriend's birthday

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