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    Dizzy My nosey Mother went through my phone and found out I am escorting! I am mortified!!!

    Okay, I have a very holier than thou bitch for a mother, We do not get along because of her narcissism and coldness (ever since I was a litttle girl.) Well, I went to pick up my kid at her house where she was being baby-sat by my mother. I left my work phone accidentally on the counter as I went out back to retrieve my little one from the swing set. I come back inside to find my nosey mother going through my text messages. Several were to regulars and the first one was talking about how I was going to take a break from escorting and concentrate on school for a bit. She handed me my phone and just looked at me. This is the same jealous mother who is only 4ft11, (I am 5ft9), she is stocky and Im tall and curvy. Im built way better and my boobs are also 2 cups bigger. Ha! Anyways, she had a FIT when she found out I was dancing and told me I would burn in hell AND why couldnt I just do like her and find a good man to" take care of me" and just stay at home and not work like her?? WTF?? (What a weak woman.) So, now she knows Im an escort. She just looked at me condescendingly and did not act a bit concerned at all. The next words out of her mouth were, I will need 200 dollars more for watching your daughter this week. I wanted to smack her, I really did. Fuck that! I put my daughter in daycare. She isnt getting ONE RED CENT! End of Rant! But, Im sooooo mortified! Now the whole family will know and treat me like shit because of her OR WANT MONEY. HA! Anyways, has this EVER happened to any other escorts? Have you ever been found out? What did you do? What could you do? I will ALWAYS password lock my phone now!!!

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    Default Re: My nosey Mother went through my phone and found out I am escorting! I am mortifie

    That is the worst part about anyone knowing you make a little bit of money. They want it!

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    Thats not the problem! Its that they are a bunch of arrogant and self-righteous hypocrites. How will I ever live this down? You do not know these people. My brother is an engineer and my parents think he is the golden boy. My sister is the proverbial baby of the family and never could do anything wrong and thinks her shit doesn't stink. I'm the black sheep and "whipping boy" of the family to begin with. Now my Mom can just rub my face in it. I cant believe this happened. I should have locked my phone in the car or password protected it. Like I said, I'm mortified!!!

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    Default Re: My nosey Mother went through my phone and found out I am escorting! I am mortifie

    You know what? All she has is that she saw messages on your phone. She didnt find your website or ads or any way to *prove* that she saw this info. Even easier to deny deny deny. Especially if everyone already knows that you and your mom do not have the best relationship, I would just blow it of.. "Who knows what shes talking about?" "Are you saying she saw my pic somewhere? Impossible! I want to see this for myself..." etc etc... Then just blow it off and seriously have nothing to say about it. The more you try to defend yourself, the more they will be convinced its true. Just give it a "this isnt even worth my time to talk about" vibe. Until she has some actual proof to show someone, no one has anything on you anyway.

    What nonsense though that she decided to tell you to pay her more....I would have put my daughter in daycare too..though actually I dont trust my daughter around my mom at all, the few times they were aone together, my mom said the most vicious things, so kiddo hasnt been alone with my mom since she was 5, and hasnt seen her at all since we stopped talking. But yeah...something like that? Use my kid as a bargaining tool/blackmail? Screw that...not happening.
    Don't blink. Don't even blink. Blink and you're dead. Don't turn your back. Don't look away. And don't blink!

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    I think you need to deal with it. You should have taken precaution. My family knows what I do because I can't lie. Even before that I was the black sheep. Deny deny deny or deal deal deal. Maybe both. Since you suck so bad and are the black sheep at least you didn't shock them. You don't need your mom. That is bullshit. My mother asked me what I am getting her in a little blue box this year. She wouldn't ask any of my other siblings that. Get over it and watch your shit.

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    Please tell me your mom did not hint what are youre getting her from Tiffanys!!! Wow thats bold!!!
    Thats something you say to your lover...not your daughter!! Aye.............

    True point about the black sheep though. Ive done nothing but shock my family, since day one, and do the explainable. They even use me as an example, my cousins have told me that my mom, or thier parents have actually said "Who do you think you are? Sharpie?!!!" whenever they do something a little off beat. And a saying in my fam is "Pulling a Sharpie" (both with my actual name of course ) So there is actually some good value to being the black sheep...no one really expects you to do anything right or normal anyway.
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    ^Exactly!

    Yes, I bought my three sisters and my mom necklaces last year just as a random gift because I wanted us all to have the same thing.

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    I completely understand how you feel but there is not much you can do about it. All you can really do is make peace with yourself and not give a fuck. I mean, you are living for you, doing the best you can for you and your daughter. And let's be for real, it's not like she found out you're a school teacher. An escort is taboo in most people's eyes so yeah, it would be a shock to almost any family.

    As far as being the black sheep, I say embrace your uniqueness and be comfortable with it. Once others see you're comfortable with who you are, they will stop bothering you. And I am pretty sure golden boy brother and shit don't stink sister envy something that you have that they don't. I have always been the black sheep too but guess what? I'm the hottest, I have the most fun, I find the best men who spoil me, I'm on vacations, can take off when I want, I have the money, the nice car, the nice condo and more....it's not a competition at all but once you are comfortable with being different, you end up getting tons of respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Leonna View Post
    This is the same jealous mother who is only 4ft11, (I am 5ft9), she is stocky and Im tall and curvy. Im built way better and my boobs are also 2 cups bigger. Ha!
    Are you sure you don't have narcissistic issues of your own? That sounds quite catty and immature if you ask me.

    Honestly, I don't really blame your Mom. What parent wants their child to be in the sex industry? Honestly. I work in the sex industry but I would be so disappointed if my child did. That is just the honest truth.

    Also, if your escorting you should be able to pay your Mom $200/week for childcare. If you can't afford to pay her that much then maybe escorting is not working out for you and you should look for another job.

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    Okay, "Pulling a Sharpie!" Thats just funny as hell and makes me feel much better! Thank You so much! I needed that laugh and that really put things in perspective. And your are so right. Thats exactly how I should deal with it. Now, Chloe- I dont know why your acting nasty towards me- but that was uncalled for. In no way shape or form did anything that I posted sound narcissistic in any way. It was however a normal reaction. Im not on here to argue or cause problems, but I treat others with respect and expect it as well. And with that.........On to the next topic. Guess what JoJo?HAHA!! I'M IN COLLEGE TO BECOME A SCHOOL TEACHER! Hahahahaaa! I found your remark absolutely hilarious. Thanks Ladies for posting!!!! You sure did brighten up my mood. I really appreciate the positive feedback.

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    ^I hope you don't show your face or anything that makes you look like you if you plan on becoming a school teacher.

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    Nah.....I'm smarter than that. I never show my face in pics and blur them- but put something there before they are blurred due to hackers and geeks who know how to unblur photos. Thanks for asking tho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    Are you sure you don't have narcissistic issues of your own? That sounds quite catty and immature if you ask me.

    Honestly, I don't really blame your Mom. What parent wants their child to be in the sex industry? Honestly. I work in the sex industry but I would be so disappointed if my child did. That is just the honest truth.

    Also, if your escorting you should be able to pay your Mom $200/week for childcare. If you can't afford to pay her that much then maybe escorting is not working out for you and you should look for another job.

    She didnt say her mom wanted her to pay her $200...she wanted her to pay her $200 *more* than what she already does. She snuck into her daughters phone, checked out her personal business, did not say anything about her being in the industry, instead her first words were to use what she knows to extort more money out of her daughter. I dont see how you think thats okay and you dont blame her mother for behaving like that, but I dont think thats appropriate at all.
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