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    Default Ladies, what is proper etiquette for a guy making a request?

    We all know that ladies on cam get rooms full of idiots all of the time. I see it in the rooms, and see if in camming connection here...Show me this and I will tip, show me that and I will go private. Stand up bb. Ass ass ass. Where you from bb? All of these things sound just as stupid to me as I am sure they sound to the ladies reading them. What I was hoping to see is what most ladies would ask for as the proper etiquette for making a request. I guess this wouldn't really apply to private or exclusive sessions, but more like on MFC or on SM when there is some shenanigans going on in regular chat.

    I would like to think that I am superhuman or something, but in the end I am just a man. As such, I sometimes really just want to see some beautiful ladies and their beautiful bits. So, i might have a specific request. Here is my methodology for asking. I don't know if it is right or good, but it seems fair in my mind...

    1. No request is ever given in public chat. Always private to her.
    2. I send like a couple gold or like 10-20 tokens to show that I am real, and then ask if she is willing to show x, y, or z. If yes (and hopefully she says how much) then I give gold before she does whatever. If no, I stop bothering her.

    I never ask for free stuff ( I know it is annoying, and last thing I want to do is be annoying). in my mind, what I do seems pretty fair, but when it comes to ladies, I have certainly been more wrong than right in my life. So, I would just like to know if there is a preferred method? I am not a rich man, but I am no cheapskate either. I don't want to insult anyone by being a bad customer.

    Thanks!

    Akuk

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    Default Re: Ladies, what is proper etiquette for a guy making a request?

    I am so pleased that you came here to ask this.... there is hope for humanity yet! :-)

    I think the steps you outlined sound reasonable, as long as you understand that some ladies (myself included) do not show any 'bits' in free chat ever, under any circumstances. But if your request is for, say.... bringing a specific pair of shoes into the room, then yeah, totally fine for the right price. I'm sure other ladies will chime in with their preferences as well.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what is proper etiquette for a guy making a request?

    Sure, Jessica. I understand completely. Many models do nothing in free chat, at least on SM, but some do for whatever reason. I know it is supposed to be against the rules there, but I have seen quite a few models doing "shows for tips" on SM. MFC seems to be a bit more "wild west" where anything goes, so harder to nail down what is proper over there.

    I guess my hope is that this thread can not only educate me, but perhaps become a bit of a "how to" for other guys that might come here without an idea of how to do it properly. I would tend to think that at least some of the guys that come here are smarter than the average bear, but I see enough threads about how "omg dancer touched my leg I think we are in love" that I am not so sure :p

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    Default Re: Ladies, what is proper etiquette for a guy making a request?

    In my cam room you would be an absolute blessing! I do not take requests to show any sort of nudity in free chat, but if you want my to grab a specific item of clothing because you're interested in a show I would gladly do so for a small tip.

    To answer your question about "preferred method" I would say 90%+ of girls would prefer you take her private if you're interested in getting something from her (on SM). It's sooooo nice to have a guy go private without "if I tip 5 GOLD will you show me your pussy hair" as a precursor.
    "Well then it's a good thing your faith in me has no impact on how much I make." - MissEgo

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    Default Re: Ladies, what is proper etiquette for a guy making a request?

    how did a guy post in cc ? 0.0
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    Always dress like you're going to bump into the woman seeing the man who broke your heart.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Snowy0Star View Post
    how did a guy post in cc ? 0.0
    This is customer conversation, not camming connection :p


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    Default Re: Ladies, what is proper etiquette for a guy making a request?

    wow i feel smart ... thats what i get for using the search function and not paying attention where the thread is just assuming its camming connection because its a thread about camming. My fail moment of the day XD
    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    Always dress like you're going to bump into the woman seeing the man who broke your heart.
    Quote Originally Posted by sexyadrienne View Post
    Yes, sex sells, but it sure as hell doesn't sell itself!
    I went from poor to please pour me another drink - Lil Wayne
    Quote Originally Posted by IvyAdams View Post
    You're a sip of fine champagne darling, and the guys who deserve to taste you should be able to buy the whole glass.


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