
Originally Posted by
Aurora14
Every club must have that guy!
The one at my club does that with all the new girls. I got sick and tired of him trying to get me to go on dates and going in the bathroom to jerk off when we would be done in VIP. The money WAS NOT worth it to me. I felt like I needed a lot more $$ to deal with his crap (especilly since he was jerking off later, I felt like he was still utilizing my services, but for free ugh). One night I told him my time was way more valuable than what I was getting, especially since he wanted to spend so much one on one time out of VIP. Gave him the option to decide wether my company was what he wanted to pay for. After 5 minutes of the "But I want to take care of you out of here" whining, I told him that our ideas of being taken care of were too different and we had to part. His feelings weren't hurt. He moved on to the next girl in a few minutes, and I no longer got headaches from him.
It's really up to you to decide if he is crossing the line. I'd make him aware of those boundries and give him one chance to respect those boundries. Sometimes, when you assert yourself and set boundries, even if you're super sweet about it, the guy is going to think you're being a bitch, so I prefer just being a bitch anyway. The club is YOUR workplace. Your territory. And if they want to get in on your turf they need to abide by your rules. You have the right to be comfortable and respected each and every night! None of us go to work with the intention of be molested, but you have the power to make it stop in this situation. (I'm not saying it is your fault at all btw.) There are guys that go in there and do it on purpose. They push to see if they can get the "most bang for their buck". Thats why they pick the new girls. Most of them haven't figured when to say no and get them to stop because they want to keep the customer happy and coming back to them. There is a delicate balance between keeping the customer and yourself happy at the same time. I don't even consier jerks regulars, even if they do come in and spend everytime they visit the club. A real regular knows how to respect a dancer and doesn't give you a headache to earn a living.
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