
Originally Posted by
charlotte_ai
^oh yeah, come to think of it, I have had both pastel pink and lilac purple with no big issues, and no difference in $. The pink was a toning accident, and the purple was a "moment of desperation to feel like my normal "alt" self a bit more". Both were ok, as under the club lights it just looked blonde anyway. Not one customer commented on my hair being anything but blonde.
I have a theory on this actually, re-enforced by the experiences of my colleagues and fellow SW'ers. Why is it when you're dressed like crap, hair all messy and a tracksuit on, guys just can't seem to leave you alone, and it's always when you are trying hard not to be noticed, or want to fly under the radar. It always seems to be worse when you are giving off the strongest "fuck off, it's my day off" vibes.
My theory is such:
Guys see the cute, hot (lets face it, we're strippers, and we're a mostly pretty well-kept and nicely proportioned bunch, or have something standout about ourselves) girl in gym or casual gear (that's how guys see it, casual, not sloppy. lol- Ive tested this theory with my SO many times) looking gorgeous, but not overly made up, pretty but plain, and think: "wow, that's a girl I may have a shot at. She's not too glamour, and looks relaxed and casual. I'm gonna go ask her out..."
Guy sees the same girl at a club on a Friday night, dressed in a little dress and killer heels, amazing makeup and looking like a shiny, arm candy treat, and either thinks:
"she's out of my league" or "she looks like a high maintenance bitch" (depending on the level of dressy-uppy and bitchy-ness she is presenting) or occasionally I guess they think "challenge accepted".
I've been out with the boys and pointed out girls and said, what about her (when they're single and ready to mingle) and they've gone "na, she looks too high maintenance"
So the whole appearance thing definitely has an impact. When you're relaxed, you bring yourself down to a more approachable level. Plus girls who actively think they are super mega hottt give off a vibe that puts some guys off.
That's my theory on why guys can't leave-us-the-f*ck-alone on our sloppy-cbf-leave-me-alone days.
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