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    Default What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    With the "Stupid annoying shit Ive heard on cam" thread and the "What guys say-what guys really mean" thread between everything Ive read from these two threads its pretty much all guys say. So how can you tell if they're freeloading or theyre interested in taking you private? Is there a way to tell or do the private guys just usually sit quiet and take you private when they see enuf to make interested?

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    For the most part, the conversation will be pretty direct - if there even IS one. Most of these guys realise that we are just sitting and waiting to be taken into a show, so if they want one, they will just take you! No talking required....usually you may get a "hi, how are you?" but usually it's just BAM - pvt.

    The ones that talk a little more will usually say something like this:

    "Do you do x thing/have x item/indulge x fetish?" You then say yes or no, and if you say yes, BAM - pvt.

    So having a guy ask you a question is not necessarily always a bad thing - it is when they ask SO many questions that you know that they are just freeloading. e.g. "Do you have socks to wear in pvt?" is fine. Because, well, yes, I do. But "do you have socks to wear? What color are they? Do they smell? Have you been wearing them all day? Do you have smelly feet? Can you rub them all over my face in pvt and tell me I am a dirty boy? Can you say my name (my name is danny)" - THAT is just someone trying to get a pvt in free. Or (annoyingly) trying to get aaaaaaalmost there in free, and then jumping into pvt for a whole minute to see a pussy flash at the moment of orgasm.
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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    Guys who are serious usually seem to jump on in right away -maybe after a little flirtation, but they don't try to get you to fluff them in free chat with the usual lame lines. They're like "wow. ur hot," or "damn," most of the time, then right down to business. They're online because they're able to pay for and want a show, and once they've made up their mind, they want your clothes off, and they're smart enough or respect you enough to know that you're not going to take your clothes off in free chat.

    Tricky thing is, though, that sometimes guys who say the typical freeloader shit, do end up buying shows. Sometimes.
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    Does it help not getting annoyed and dealing with free loads by doing something else ignoring everyone and just doing something else? Ive read a few post and stuff and it got me thinking about just getting another computer watching anime and sitting there ignoring everything else until i get taken private. Could this possibly work or could it turn off some potential pvts if they can tell im watching anime?

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Snowy0Star View Post
    Does it help getting annoyed and dealing with free loads by doing something else ignoring everyone and just doing something else? Ive read a few post and stuff and it got me thinking about just getting another computer watching anime and sitting there ignoring everything else until i get taken private. Could this possibly work or could it turn off some potential pvts if they can tell im watching anime?
    Don't do it. It IS possible to get privates, and from time to time I will sit and read a book - but even then, I will interact a little bit. But that will not do you any favors - it will just put guys off. They want interaction and to see a friendly face - if you are totally ignoring them, most will just leave. If you would rather work that way, work for a site that does paid chat only.
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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    Honestly, for me at least, there's never been a particular conversation that usually leads to a private. Sometimes someone just pops in and clicks private right away, then I have men who I will talk to for a one day while I'm on, and they only take my to private the next day.

    I don't know, maybe it's different for everyone?

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    Thax Rose are theyre any others aside AW?

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    for me they usually mention it, say nothing else then 'ding!' private screen

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    I have had guys that just come in my room sometimes several times and not say anything and then boom a private. Sometimes they will have just regular conversations then they will take me private.

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    In my experience, guys who actually intend to go private will either A) click the button for it without even asking (on MFC this really bugs me), or they will B) say something like "I'm horny. Wanna go private?"

    The ones who say "Get me hard, and I"ll go private" are full of shit, so don't fall for that one.
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    Just wanted to throw it out there im trying to get verified on the site almost halfway there to get 50..... please and thax =^y^=

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    About half the time when I guy says "are you ready to go private?" he'll take me private. The other half, they leave. I'm not sure why.

    Some guys will ask me about my show in free chat, then take me private. Most of the time, they'll just take me private right away without saying anything in free chat.

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    Guys willing to buy a show usually bother to read your profile and look through your photos. If someone comments on your photos or profile, he is far more likely to take you pvt than that other guy asking tons of idiotic questions. People who want a show, NEVER demand that you "convince" them to buy it or ask for free samples (if someone says you have to prove you're good enough - ban him, he is a troll, not a "picky customer").They can ask a few questions about your body or outfits/equipment you have, but never want a detailed depiction or previews.

    Most of the guys arent as dumb as they might seem, they know we're here for money, and they are either willing to pay or not. The pickier the man is, the more information he wants about the show and the more preparation he wants to be done beforehand - the less money he's planning to spend. Even if the guy doesn't ask you to flash for free, more than 3 show-, body- or sex-related questions is a red flag. He either is trolling for free attention/naughty talk, or wants to save as much money as possible doing all the foreplay in free chat and reducing the show to "now get a toy and fuck that pussy". In either case, that is not a client you want.
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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    like others said, it doesn't look like anything in particular.
    its so hard to predict...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benefit View Post
    About half the time when I guy says "are you ready to go private?" he'll take me private. The other half, they leave. I'm not sure why.

    Some guys will ask me about my show in free chat, then take me private. Most of the time, they'll just take me private right away without saying anything in free chat.
    I hate when they do that. They're like "ready to go pvt bb?" I'm like " yeah " then they leave.... I think they're just hoping I'll start getting naked before they take me when they say that...or they're just looking for attention in free chat which I don't give individually.

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    Default Re: What does a normal convo for a guy willing to go private look like?

    I was about to answer this thread but......wow, banned already? Impressive!

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    Just wanted to throw it out there im trying to get verified on the site almost halfway there to get 50..... please and thax =^y^=
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    I was about to answer this thread but......wow, banned already? Impressive!
    Well, your answer could be useful for someone else who gets to read the thread ^,^
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    Well, your answer could be useful for someone else who gets to read the thread ^,^
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    Posting on here just to get into verified?! Maybe that's the cause of the ban...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Missbeth View Post
    I hate when they do that. They're like "ready to go pvt bb?" I'm like " yeah " then they leave.... I think they're just hoping I'll start getting naked before they take me when they say that...or they're just looking for attention in free chat which I don't give individually.
    I hate hate hate this. I've learned to not get my hopes up and act all excited until IN the private
    I've concluded that a lot of them are trying to gauge our level of enthusiasm or interest when they ask, especially if they're after a fetish show (which is mostly what I do). All too often on SM a guy will come in and say something like "I'm really into cuckold and I'm also into swp humiliation. Could you do both in a show in exclusive?" and I'll say yes, then the guy leaves. Then he comes back. Then he leaves. Then he comes back AGAIN and takes me exclusive.


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    Quote Originally Posted by EvelynHeartsYou View Post
    I hate hate hate this. I've learned to not get my hopes up and act all excited until IN the private
    I've concluded that a lot of them are trying to gauge our level of enthusiasm or interest when they ask, especially if they're after a fetish show (which is mostly what I do). All too often on SM a guy will come in and say something like "I'm really into cuckold and I'm also into swp humiliation. Could you do both in a show in exclusive?" and I'll say yes, then the guy leaves. Then he comes back. Then he leaves. Then he comes back AGAIN and takes me exclusive.
    I don't play this game either. If the guy says " are you ready to go" I just sit there and wait. I don't get all excited either. For me it's not 50/50 it's more like 90% say it just to get a model's hopes up and only 10% mean it. I usually say "hit prvt when you are ready" That way it puts it back on them to move or move on.

    If they ask again. I just ignore them or perhaps ban/block.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    I usually say "hit prvt when you are ready" That way it puts it back on them to move or move on.
    Great idea. Thanks for this. It's a good way to acknowledge you'd like to go private without giving them too much attention or looking desperate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EvelynHeartsYou View Post
    I hate hate hate this. I've learned to not get my hopes up and act all excited until IN the private
    I've concluded that a lot of them are trying to gauge our level of enthusiasm or interest when they ask, especially if they're after a fetish show (which is mostly what I do). All too often on SM a guy will come in and say something like "I'm really into cuckold and I'm also into swp humiliation. Could you do both in a show in exclusive?" and I'll say yes, then the guy leaves. Then he comes back. Then he leaves. Then he comes back AGAIN and takes me exclusive.
    I've been saying "That's what I'm here for". I think some of them get off on trying to get you excited, then letting you down.
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    When a guy keeps on ranting about how he will take me private, I usually say "I'm thinking of signing off in about 20 minutes, so last call for a private". If he starts saying "Oh bb dont leave blah blah blah" but doesn't take me private, I hit that ban hammer like tomorrow isn't happening. He is just sad that you are leaving so he will have to find a freeloading hole somewhere else. Fake 'em ladies. But I only do it in PM, so that my room doesn't clear out. hehe

    But yeah, you never know, maybe he will take you private after but just wants to talk lots beforehand.

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